How can an object , put a hold over a person?

Curious after a conversation I had this morning with my Husband. He feels that the house we live in, has a negative hold on me? Can this be possible? Even though I surround myself with a white light and keep my heart and thoughts as pure as possible? I know He has issues inside the home, more so at night when I am sleeping. There is a Black cloke, figure is of a man with a white face, it paralyzes him, he is stuck and cannot even scream out when it happens. OK, first I promised not to talk about this with anyone except those involved directly.

I was told that there is a male figure that is very attatched to me in this house. And he does not want anyone with me. Not sure if you folks have heard of John Zaffis, he is actually Lorraine Warrens nephew? But he came here to my home about a year and a half ago, he said it has something to do with a 7th generational ancestor on the Portugese side of my family, which would be the (maternal) side. So this part is touchy for me. I guess witchcraft is the issue? Back then the Portugeese were very deep into the dark side of the craft! Oh lucky me ! I have had several readings done by as repertable as one can be at readings, and they have all said something about a seveth generational event that has changed my life.

And also about me being a very strong woman that has a very long lineage of medicine woman from my Maternal side of Canadian Blackfoot Indian.

When spiritsigns.org was here at the house for the first time. I was in my bedroom laying on the bed. I yelled for Tammy the group medium, my bed was shaking like crazy, she went to touch me and my shirt wrapped tightly around me, pulling me away from her. Then everyone else was in the room and witnessed a black figure appear in a cloke , he had a white face, they all 6 total sat on the bed trying to stop it from moving, and looking all over and under for anything that would make this happen. At one point there was a white swirling smoke on my bedroom pillow, which appeared to make the dark figure disapate. This is just a very, tiny glimpse into my dealings with the paranormal and my home. There are quite a few people, that will not enter my home, out of fear mainly. Cannot really say I blame them. The funny thing is though, the one person, that was thrown down a flight of stairs after being very disrespectful to me, she does come back. She has never crossed that line again, and nothing negative has happened to her since. But some are so afraid of this place. I just dont understand it? Maybe I dont want to, I take it personally I guess. So getting back on point, this paralyzation has been described so many ways, by so many different experts in the field. I was curious if anyone has had this happen to them, and if so how do they deal with it? Thanks in advance for any feedback on this phenomana?