LOSING FRIENDS FROM YOUR LIST

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Christine K. Apr 7, 2009, 8:37am EDT

I've noticed that some of mine are gone too. I don't think there is any way to tell!

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Janie E. Apr 7, 2009, 8:44am EDT

If you have alot of friends, it would be difficult to notice who is missing, but I would just let go.

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Elaine S. Apr 7, 2009, 8:47am EDT

I have no idea how to tell.

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Nancy * Apr 7, 2009, 9:29am EDT

I've had a couple of people disconnect from me. I figure 1) they don't like my content 2) they don't like that don't like the fact that I don't comment on every little thing they post.

I know five people have disonnected from me over the past month. I know who two of them are... it's the other three I'm not sure of and I hope that I don't offend them by asking for a connect if they are the ones who disconnected. I try and keep track but sometimes it's hard.

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Sandy C. Apr 7, 2009, 10:22am EDT

I have lost a couple too. I figure they must have their reason. I would just go make some new ones.

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The Red Headed Witch of Gather G. Apr 7, 2009, 10:37am EDT

I have no idea how to tell sweetie

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Leo Lemmer Apr 7, 2009, 12:59pm EDT

I've cancelled only one becase her only comment was something like "LOL" or "nice work
'or "Thank you."

Not once have I seen her make a meaningful comment.

We should not worry about why we were dropped. Someone simply may not have time for too many friends. Some want posts only about their interests.

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Brenda (square peg in a round hole) H. Apr 7, 2009, 3:24pm EDT

The only way to tell is to send them a private message and ask them.

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C C. Apr 7, 2009, 3:33pm EDT

just let it go

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tammie p. Apr 7, 2009, 4:26pm EDT

thank you all. just curious, that's all

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.* Sandi * Apr 7, 2009, 4:33pm EDT

not sure

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Lisa Frost Apr 7, 2009, 4:34pm EDT

there isn't a way to tell for sure. I ask, and if they don't accept, then you know

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Sandy (back in Ohio...blah!) Apr 7, 2009, 5:43pm EDT

I don't think you can tell. I worry about asking for reconnection and the person not wanting it. i don't want to ask if they don't want connected..how do you keep track?

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Nellie (The Bad Santa of Gather) Apr 7, 2009, 5:49pm EDT

I just started to disconnect. when I first joined, I jumped at all invites coming my way, and I was going for friends all over until after awhile, half of those people I never read, have othing in common with or never read my stuff because they find it offensive anyway.

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Dana W. Apr 7, 2009, 7:19pm EDT

i notice it also but i just blow it off that they don't like me or what I post so be it

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DesertDarlene L. Apr 7, 2009, 8:06pm EDT

I never notice unless it's someone of whom I've been viewing their posts a lot.

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Jo N. Apr 8, 2009, 1:05am EDT

I don't know an answer for this, sorry.

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Nana to Seven Cutiepies Apr 8, 2009, 8:42pm EDT

Just send a request and be sure to type in the message box that you noticed you were no longer connected and was wondering if it was a Gather glitch. I found one today and this is what I did.

I just typed - A Gather glitch must have disconnected us so I am sending a request to fix the problem.

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