Should Mom with Porn Past Adopt? | momlogic

I don't see why not! I have nothing against porn though. I'd do it if I had the body for it!

Actually, maybe I still can... anyone know if there's any such thing as a stretch mar fetish? lol!

I see nothing wrong with her adopting. People do change!

Sanctimony and self-righteous moralizing aside, I think she oughta give this up. She's gonna create a great big noise, and then she's gonna lose. It's too bad, because she's probably a perfectly fine mother.

Kati-There is a fetish for EVERYTHING.

I think the operative word here is 'past'. Everyone has something in their past that they probably aren't proud of, but it is what it was.

people change I see no reason she should not be able to adopt!

If someone enjoys baring their body, it doesn't mean they'll be a bad parent. People can be people, AND be parents. If the government regulated having children naturally on our past choices, there would be an end to that pesky overpopulation problem.

I have no comment... only questions about this...

1) Why were the birth mother's two children in foster care in the first place? Was she giving them up for adoption due to circumstances in her life, or abandoning them because she did not want them?

2) Where does a woman who, according to the article from the link, "has pleaded guilty in the past to forging checks and has admitted to smoking marijuana," two illegal activities, get off criticizing the perfectly legal past of the foster parent with whom she chose to leave her kids?

3) If she was so concerned about her kids, why didn't the birth mother check into the couple's past before leaving them in that house?

4, 5, and 6) Why, in the 21st century, are we even discussing whether or not a porn star can be a good parent? Aside from whether or not she should participate in "take our daughters to work day" is this really an issue? Since when does the state get to decide whether to deny or allow parenthood on the basis of a profession which is not illegal?

7) Is it possible that the birth mother couldn't give a rat's ass about the porn, but is using it as leverage in a case she planned on bringing anyway?

If Madonna can adopt... hey, everyone should be eligible!

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It takes strength and patience to adopt, like any other way you become a parent. If she's woman enough to fight all the nay sayers, I say she should absolutely go for it. Since when are we supposed to have perfect pasts in order to parent?