Again, it looks like a freing is being harrased. Fancy has left Gather and removed all her posts. This really upsets me. She is really sweet, and needs us, as she is ill. I have grown to love her as a freind as i have many others on here. Does anyone know what is going on????
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Then once they've gotten someone kicked off, they have to go after fresh prey. Fancy was their latest target. But she was smart. Instead of letting them get her so riled up that she said things she shouldn't, she just deleted her stuff and said good-bye.
I am so mad. I'm most mad at the Gather staff for letting this harassment go on by a group of people who do it time after time after time and get away with it. It is not right or fair.
You can either
March 29, 2009 08:13 AM EDT
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remain my friend or remain in my group.....
you can believe what you want to.
I have only one personI have to answer too.
some say start A new account and others say dont let it bother you
I am not Robin V..THE COMMENT THAT WAS REMOVED WAS ON A POST THAT HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH MY SURGERY...IT WAS MY ADVICE POST. AND YES I DELETED PEOPLE YESTERDAY AND I WROTE I POST WHICH IS NO LONGER HERE AS TO WHY I DID THIS. AND NOW ALOT ARE MAD ABOUT THIS.
.All I have done was show kindness to everyone I have met.
I never asked for anything but a thank you..
I Havent ask for a handout from anyone. I was offered from someone they were going to donate all theirs points to me..And I refused..I work for what I get no pitty points do I want.
But yet the drama follows me..I have been recieving HATE mails since I asked about Robin V i didnt know what happened and I had missed seeing her posts.
I have only one group.mine.I have no pics and posts except for this one.
so know has to repsond or rate i tunred them all off.
I dont want anymore drama..right NOW. I am deciding if this is where I should be due to everything.
If you are into drama please remove your self from me..I also am not into two face people..who say one thing and then run and comment something different...
YOU ARE EITHER MY FRIEND OR NOTHING I NOT GOING TO PLAY GAMES.
NOW YOU DEDCIDED STAY OR GO I DONT CARE.
THANK YOU
Friends of Fancy can go HERE to pay their respects.
She'll be sharing posts and photos again soon too.
If she gets hate mail, then she could delete the messages and block the sender(s) so it only occurs once. If she gets comments she doesn't like, she can delete them. If low ratings bother her, she can turn ratings off.
Gather is a social network, and just like society, it has the good and the bad. When you have problems with certain members of the society, you avoid them or deal with them, and in some cases, you're forced to run from them. Apparently, this is what Fancy has chosen to do. I would hope that she would give Gather another try, but it is her decision.
Here is a LINK to Angela's post which was hit with an unfair harassment flag to cover the truth up.
Marilyn,
While calling other people, whom you do not know "major jerks", perhaps you should look in the mirror.
Perhaps it's time for everyone to drop it and move on. There are a lot of new posts and photos out there much more worthy of viewing, commenting and rating then to perpetuate this matter.
Hopefully, Fancy will come back real soon, better then ever, and posting more good photos and kind thoughts.
Tim
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I invite everyone to share some flowers with Fancy. Tim
While telling other people to "get a grip" and to be nice to your friend fancy, you seem to have no problem calling other people, whom you do not know, "dimwits", "brainless human being", and "braindead".
How do you know that the person someone else talked to over a phone is actually a nurse? I could ask my niece, who is a nurse, to talk to someone on the phone and pretend she is my in-home nurse. How many people do you know have a nurse at their home almost full time? fancy does not seem to be able to afford such a thing and medicaid or any other insurance sure does not pay for that much help for anyone.
Why shouldn't someone ask a question? Is that not what forums like this are for? I didn't know asking questions was against the rules. I'd like you to point out where you see that anyone besides fancy was doing any lying.
No apologies are coming from this corner. People that have such thin skin do not belong on a public forum. Thank God I've never been connected to you. (notice that I managed to refrain from calling you any school-yard mentality names)
And I did not see where any of this had anything to do with fancy's post about ROBIN being banned from Gather. I certainly have never sent fancy any type of mail.
truth still remains people can still twist it all they want
again why would she offer proof and then refuse I did not ask for proof. I did not at first say she did not have the surgery. I ask how she go home so fast simple no one has to be afraid of a question if they have nothing to hide
of course it is,
But dont email me with lies either
and they are not going to say I ask something "not nice" either with out me speaking out.
Frankly, MC, I don't give a crap if you respect any of us or not. We have just as much right to post our comments and opinions here as you have. First you get all "mad" and now you call it comic relief. You are having a tough time making up your mind today.
MC, you are so full of yourself....like so many others here on Gather....you believe your viewpoint is the only one that counts, to hell with everyone else. Do you drop it? No! You just keep coming back for more, making more insults, just for the sake of being argumentative.
It always amazes me at how many people around here jump at believing anything any stranger, whom they have never met face to face, will lay out in front of them just because they have always been "nice" to them.
First off if somebody on Medicare or Medicaid has a live in nurse ( which is rare) it would more than likely be an aide and not a registered Nurse. My brother-in-law is dieing of cancer and can barely get around he has no live in nurse but has a visiting one. Insurance companies don't like to pay for in home care if they can get out of it.
I would further state doubts I have on the whole story but in truth I don't feel it is anybody business, period.
I do not know Fancy I in all probability never will. She disconnected from me I suppose because I was joking amount with the "girls" yesterday and she took offense. That is her right, heck I am not even mad.
However I do take offense when I am referred to by names I feel I do not deserve. I have the right to laugh and joke and any one who doesn't like that , well............
No, I do not insult the intelligence of everyone on Gather. You must have a problem with reading comprehension, it shows all through your comments on this thread.
I do feel sorry for Fancy cause her feelings are hurt but please be aware she is not without blame here.
If Fancy just answered the question instead of deleting it, this wouldn't be an issue. You don't exactly convince people of your version of events by ignoring anyone who calls shenanigans on inconsistencies.
And I'm not a "Major" Jerk, I am actually a Colonel Jerk. I have high ranking Jerk Powers.
Internet! SRS BIZNESS
How "nice" of you to have an "ignore list". Thank you for putting me on it!!
My last post? You read my last post? Oh, you mean my last "comment". What? Don't like to have your nonsensical crap flung back at you? You are below boring. You are pathetic. Oh, no!! I stooped to your level and called you a childish name. Oh, woe is me!! I have sunk so low. :o(
No, dearie, people do not get more points for multiple comments made on the same thread. It goes by views, one credit per person.
Did you not read anything? No one "demanded" an answer to anything. You really should go read my last "post". You must be one that falls under #20.
That's right, it is her loss. Now why would anyone disconnect from someone who has never said a word out of the way to them?
It she disconnected from me because I was not posting enough on her stuff. Well, that is a bunch of crap. Because I posted on her stuff alot. I also have had alot to do lately and haven't had as much gathe time as I would like. If that is her reason. Than I am glad she disconnected. To me that is childish. Heck, I am connected to some people who I comment on. They have never return one comment. But I am not disconnecting because of it.
Yep, I'm sure that you are. And I'm talking with President Obama as we speak.
This place has really changed in the last month! It was a happy~go~lucky place. Now it seems to be all about DRAMA!
All I know is that come judgment day....I do not have to answer to anyone here. Thank GOD!
she just had to change a few things, like who she had as friends here......
I don't know any of the details about what happened on this post or that......
mostly because I'm not connected to the "soap opera" groups here......
hehehe(((Sorry)))