Now before anyone shouts at me please read..
I have an 18 month old daughter and we started teaching her sign language because we had heard how much it helped stop/slow down the tantrums as she can explain what she wants.
She can do thinks like milk, juice, peaches, apples, shopping (yeah maybe teaching her that was a mistake), go (as in go out) , drive, cookie and I am sure there are more things.
Oh she does the sign for X , her 17 year old brother is Cameron X and she cant say Cameron so he taught her to do a X when she means him.
Someone made a snotty comment the other day about how she won't talk because she is being taught sign language, and I know it is stupid to get upset about it.
My attitude is that sign language is talking and we are lucky that she can talk as well, she says mama, dada (constantly), doggie, sit, get (she clearly spends to much time around me and the dog), nanna and she makes a lot of chitter chatter.
Is it just a case of sour grapes (the person has 3 kids and "didnt bother" with any of them) or should we be pushing elizabeth to speak more?




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Please don't worry, or get upset, about that. Sometime I would love to learn how to sign.....think it would be so much fun!
I knew a deaf couple whose children could hear. Those kids could sign and speak before they were two years old. Their signing skills have helped them get very good jobs.
All 3 of my kids were/are late talkers. My middle child was off the charts in signing - he was so good and had a huge vocabulary! And just like someone else commented- I *SO* wish he had an off switch now. He is the one who talks incessantly! I mean even if no one is listening or around.
Now the 20 month old has about a dozen or so and is just now starting to talk. One eval she had she did not qualify for services. I called back a few months later and they were using a different standardized test that did not count signing at all and she qualified for services.
Basically it is a refresher course for me each visit - things I had forgotten I should be doing (like doing alot of sound effects "moooooo says the cow" etc) and her speech is improving.
Unfortunately stubborness is coming into play. Now when I insist she do a sign (like drink before I hand her a drink) she will shake her head and decline to do it. I'm a mean mommy and make her do it, though. She eventually does.
Stick to your guns- you know what works best for your family and just smile when folks try to offer "advice".
My two year old grand daughter only says about thirty words. She's been tested and everything is fine, she just has no interest in talking. She has a speech therapist come out a few times a week and this is helping her.
Thank goodness insurance pays for it, I would imagine it's very expensive. Her mother didn't talk until about two or a little after. She had a very limited vocabulary, "happy, happy, happy" was a favorite phrase, LOL. Well, anyway, she went on to graduate from Penn State on scholarships!