I watched Dr. Phil today, which is something I do just for amusement because I hardly agree with the worldly teaching and views on life. Today he had a matchmaker show on...there was a 24 year old girl looking for help finding her mate. She said that she was a virgin, and she couldn't stand how guys usually soon turn to the topic of s*x.
The matchmaker said that "in today's world, there is no man willing to wait until their married to have s*x because if the s*x is bad then they're stuck."
Just let that soak in for a minute....WHAT!!!!!
Dr. Phil cleared it up by telling the 24 year old that if those were her morals she should stick to them!! I say props to Dr. Phil!! I was shocked!!
...and to the matchmaker...wake up honey!! If you can get themilk for free why buy the cow? Men don't want to marry a woman who will sleep with them right away...they want to know they're woman respects themself, and won't just pull her pants down for any tom, dick, and harry!!
Girls I'm 22 (soon to be 23) I married my husband at the age of 19, and guess what he was still a virgin!!!
It is totally not true that guys will not wait for the wedding night...if those are your expectations, don't settle for anything less! Don't give in, you are the person who has to live with yourself! Show that man you respect yourself, and wait!!