* Warning This is a rant, so if you don't want to want to read a post of complaint please ignore this post. Do me one favor though DO NOT RATE THIS If YOU DO NOT READ THIS POST!
I don't expect many to read this post but for the few that do, I am sorry for not being my usual upbeat but I am annoyed just now.
I have never done this before at least on Gather. I am complaining. I want to pose a question to those who give bad ratings to posts and don't explain why. Do those of you who rate posts poorly even read any of the posts that that you rate? My time is too valuable to just go to a post and give a bad rating. I do not understand how people can have so much time on their hands to do so.
For the record I have never given a rating lower than a 9. My feeling is that the person who takes the effort to post anything deserves a good rating.If I ever feel a need to rate a post lower than 9 I will most definitely write a comment as to why. It is not easy to share a part of yourself with others. I try to comment on as many posts as I can and I always try to comment as positively and as helpfully as I can.
I joined Gather to learn to be a better writer. A bad rating without an explanation hurts my attempt at becoming a better writer. I don't object to bad ratings on my posts because I know that I have written articles that really need a lot of criticism. What I object to is for people to rate my work poorly and then no comment on why. This strikes me as cowardly and a waste of time for the people doing it. For me a writer, it is very frustrating. I wish Gather would require any of us who rate posts to have to include our Gather ID.
I could chose to shut the rating off on my posts but for the most part I find the ratings valuable. I very much enjoy Gather but unfortunately this time of year with annual assessments and IEPs, my creativity and energy for posting much is limited just now. When ratings on one of my posts drop suddenly it really doesn't encourage me enough to drop everything and write.
I don't expect this rant will change anything, but for the moment I have released some steam. Now if I was just able to do so with a few school administrators I would be feeling better all around.


Comments: 56
If I can't give a good rating, I don't rate at all. I think valid reasons for less than a 10 would be poorly written or poorly researched work. Gather has a self-appointed grammar police squad that enjoys embarrassing writers, even when the errors are typos.
On Gather, as everywhere, there are people who think they look superior by putting down someone else. "Blowing out another person's candle does not make yours burn brighter." is an appropriate quote. Your writing is awesome! DB1's are totally inappropriate.
Ratings can give you feed back that someone took the time to say, hey this is really great. But when a troll shows up figure their opinion really doesn't count. Half the time they didn't even read your article. Don't take an insult. That is what they want, guess it feels powerful to anonymously hurt others. Defeat them and ignore it! I gave you a 10!
HERE IS A TEN
Sometimes I rate things high, & don't leave a comment. Because I didn't necessarily have a comment to make, but I wanted to rate it to give some sort of feedback. Ditto for a "low" rating, which apparently you people consider anything 9 or below to be "low." I don't feel that it is my responsibility to leave a comment for every single rating I make, & rating something low without giving a detailed explanation hardly makes me a "troll." It also doesn't mean I am a "chicken," or that I think I am superior. It simply means that I did not really like your post. Suck it up, guys!! If you can't handle people rating your post less than a 10, or doing anything other than giving you comments like "LOL thanks for sharing!," then turn off the ratings, sounds easy to me!
Sorry, I just get really irritated by seeing posts about people giving low ratings & all the comments are like "Oh those people are just stupid trolls!" & etc. No... some people just don't love *everything* but also don't feel the need to go into detail about it.
I took the time to check several of her posts and believe me they were not interesting. I'm not a writer but I am a reader and I hope a descent human being. I've given 2 low ratings and they were purely accidental, your's being one of them. I apologized immediately and left an extra comment.
I haven’t rated people’s work for quite a while, because the rating system doesn’t give accurate results. All tens or fives or drivebys don’t mean much. It’s rather like appearing on Gather as the most popular writers, or most read writers. It doesn’t mean their work is any better, but that they have a large network. Personally I would find it difficult to respond to 1500 people on a daily or weekly basis and I can’t believe they do either. For one thing I’m not interested in cooking, sports, travel, etc. I’m interested in a good story, short or long and if I read it I comment. I know nothing about science fiction, etc. So I rarely read or comment. And, of course, that doesn’t mean there is anything wrong with the science fiction writer’s work. It just means I’m too dense to understand it. So I look for poems and stories I like and try to follow those people’s work.
My advice..and you did want my advice, didn’t you?....it to write because you want to, because you need to. Write and post what means something to you. Only by writing and continuing to write, can we improve our work. If we allow someone’s saucy remarks or low ratings to influence us, we really set ourselves back.
The biggest wilter as a comment that I’ve come across is:” thanks for sharing”….Wasn’t that one time called damning with faint praise. Ow, ow, ow!
And it don't matter all that much.
I had people low rate cute pics of my kids. I think some people enjoy "trolling" by content, don't let it get to you.
I suggest you ignore ratings. Ratings, to me, mean just about as much as the word "celebrity." My husband and I were trying to figure out what some "stars" are to be celebrated for. I truly believe if you want to write and write better, you write from the heart. After all the real reason to write (apart from..."Hey, Maw...look at all these words..Aren't I a clever Clara?) is to communicate. Sooner or later you will communicate to those who actually read and hear and understand you.
First, you are the exception rather than the rule. Most members do NOT want, and are not seeking, an honest assessment of their work. If you were to choose a post at random and rate it a 7 or 8...then state your reasoning in a comment, you would likely receive a negative response from the author...or worse. The same is true for photos or videos being shared in the community.
Conversely, unless you clearly state that you want critical assessment of your writing, you won't receive it. Every comment you garner will offer glowing praise, regardless of whether it is warranted. Gather is a social community, and not comprised of [many] writers. Therefore, you will often obtain feedback which will only serve to undermine your writing.
Second, there is a LOT of misconception about the rating system on Gather. This often leads to hurt feelings and other problems in the community.
Ratings are not meant to be a feedback mechanism for the member publishing the content. That's what comments are for. Ratings are intended to 'bubble up' the "best stuff you've seen on Gather". Therefore, not EVERYTHING is going to be the best thing you've ever read or viewed here...so 10's should be given sparingly if you're going to use the rating system the way it's supposed to be.
Conversely, if some content doesn't even come close to "the best stuff you've seen on Gather", then giving it a rating less than 10 (even a 1) would be appropriate. No comment explaining this rating is necessary, nor would most members even consider leaving one (see my explanation above).
It is important to remember that ratings are meant to be used as an automated way of ranking the greatest content in the community...not for communicating your opinion to the member publishing the content.
Again, if you want to learn to be a better writer, then Gather is likely not the best place to make this attempt.
I pay no attention to the ratings on my post.
I read the comments.
Huh? That tells a writer absolutely nothing about their work. With so many possible reasons a low rating might have been given, it's inconceivable that anyone thinks the writer can retrieve any information from it. I did notice that most people who wrote favorably here of the rating button, are rather younger than older. This resonates with me. A large number of the current crop of social network users have no empathy and are quite self centered. If it works for them it never occurs to them it might not work for someone else and when this is brought to their attention they disavow responsiblity and blame the victim. "You suck it up, I can't be bothered to consider what I do."
Kevin, for your information this so called social site was billed and advertised on NPR as a "writers' gathering place. The first thing it did was run several writing contests and it is sponsored by at least one BOOK store. It's only been after I was here over a year that writers began to be trashed by the newcomers. My personal opinion is that it's because the owner/sponsors went looking for more warm fingers on the keyboards so they could make more money off of ADVERTISING by showing more members. Thus Gather joined the ranks of the other shallow sites where pettiness and viscious swiping at those who take the time to post is cheered by the unwashed masses. Oh, did I say I'm enjoying it less?
As for serious writers, even published writers there are many of us here, but not as many as there were. I think that's sad. Writers and poets speak the truth long before the rest of the world is awake. But they don't suffer fools gladly.
This would all be solved if there were no points earned for rating another's article. These are point-mongers pure and simple. And it's less effort to post a 1 than it is to struggle with the pull-down rating window to get clear up to 10. This accounts for the thanks for sharing commenters, too. Drive-by is a great name for all these useless visits.
Gather moved the rating area so that it's not as easy to remember to rate to save giving out points. sigh.... just BUSINESS as usual in the good ole USA.
I don't understand why anyone would want a rating system in addition to the comments that are left by others. How can you tell if you have been badly rated? What would you consider a bad rating? Why do you feel others must tell you why they rated you the way they did. etc...
I will continue commenting on posts the way I do focusing on commenting rather than on rating posts of others. My hope is that Gather will always be a place for writers, poets and photographers.
Best of luck with your writing, I have seen some good things from you and expect more. Now that I know you want critique, you will have some from me and I hope you will return the favor.
glitter-graphics.com
People will always be either/or -- low raters or high raters, with nothing in between. Why? Who knows. I don't let it bother me and I also don't leave generic comments. Sometimes, joining the writing essentials groups on gather will really help you hone your writing.
Also, putting this (or something similar) at the bottom of each post you do - or in your tagline on here -Critique Welcome- might also help.
You'll still get those who'll low-rate -- that's been here for quite awhile and probably always will be. I've turned off ratings in some of my posts in the past, but now I really don't even look at ratings.
One thing; and you already know this -- write for yourself first, because you need to, because you have to and let the writing speak for itself.
Mark
This site was billed as a writer's site long ago - well before I joined and I've been here for over two years, going on three come this summer. And yes, two (I think) of the advertisers are bookstores, which makes some of the contests they've had turn into popularity contests, instead of actual writing contests, which did upset a lot of people.
I've also turned off ratings on some of my articles; though I don't pay much attention to ratings in general. I do read the comments and try my best to respond and for a long time, I always, without fail, put "Critique' Welcome", in every article I wrote, which I need to start doing again as some of that critique helped me a lot. It's like a gift, being able to accept critique and mistakes and then having the ability to edit your post/article to fix those mistakes, or if you feel truly strongly and it's an opinion thing, defend you right to word things the way you choose.
There were more writers and in the process of change or some say Progress, we lost a lot of them. There are still a fair amount and if you do want to improve your writing, which will actually happen mostly on it's own, you can join the Gather Writing Essential's group, which sometimes/some days, has an open format, and other days, there's a writing assignment; which you can choose to do or not do.
On that group, you'll usually get very constructive criticism and it (so far, to me) has been done nicely and with the consideration of this:
(The comment tells you what they like about what you wrote -- the commenter tells you what's wrong; again, nicely), so it's a give and take thing. The "what's wrong" part usually has to do with punctuation, spelling or just wording, and I appreciate that type of critique - I learn everytime I post there.
First and foremost, as Mark, above says, and he's right and not just because we're married..
Write for yourself. Write because you need to. Write because it's in you and you love to. Don't write for the comments or the ratings.
With those thoughts, I'm leaving you with the Writing Essential's link, in case you wish to join.. you'd be great at it. Writing Essentials There is a list on the group, of who's got what for each day and what they'll be doing. Sandy's got a fiction exercise for writing on Tuesdays, which I'm so behind on it's not even funny and will have some catch-up to do - but since she's open to anyone joining in, at anytime, you're apt to find a new character when you least expect it.
There's Humor Monday, assigned and I haven't gotten the courage to write one of those yet! And so on...
I know you're strapped for time right now, as am I, but there are definitely writers on here that are willing to helpfully share what they've learned.
Hang in there,
Marilyn
I will low rate copyright material that people steal from websites or stuff people don't give credit for. I know of a gather member who came out and said she doesn't care if it is copyrighted or not. She post it anyways. So why tell her, she already says she doesn't care. I also know for a fact one of the rules on one of the sites she snags her content says no one is allowed to use their content. But she does anyways.
Sorry but I do not think someone who steals a picture or article deserves to have their stolen content featured for the highest rating. Over someone who takes their own picture or writes their own content. Do you?
I agree......a person should comment as to why they are rating a post, especially if giving it a very low rating. The rating system here has been a subject of controversy for some time now.
I would tell you to keep writing and don't worry about the ratings, but I know that is hard to do...especially when you put a lot of thought, time, and effort into a post.
A 10 for you, to help your articles, as Kevin stated, bubble up to the top, as it is some of the very best.
Glad you got this off your chest!:)
until i created private groups
and only posted my stuff in them
and i only invite those who seem to read them to the groups
low ratings hurt my feelers
:(
pif
It's happened to me too, but really it's just a form of cyber bullying. An attempt to make someone feel small and insecure. Don't let it get to you. I like your posts! PIF