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Right now, the life change I want to make is to become healthy, which includes changing my diet a bit, adding in some exercise, and seeing a doctor.
Everyone has a different schedule here and I cannot eat gluten and alot of fruits and nuts, make it even harder to cook healthy meals,
I am trying to do better
Yeah, I'm kinda quick on the draw (0r keyboard). Lol.
In 2008, I managed to maintain my weight.
For 2009, my ultimate goal is to lose atleast 25 pounds. My first goal is to lose 10 pounds before my 10th anniversary, March 20th. If I lose 25 pounds, that will put me at my "GOAL" weight! If I can lose a little more than that, I wouldn't complain! LOL!
Why did I choose my goal weight? If I reach my goal weight, I will weigh 1 pound LESS than my hubby! :)
I'm not going on a "diet" because I don't think diets work. I'm making a lifestyle change. By making small changes in my eating and activity level, it will simply become habit. It's all about balance, moderation and support!
In addition to shedding some pounds, it will give me an overall healthier way of life. I want to be healthier and happier not only for myself but for my kids and my husband as well! By doing this for myself, it will make me a better mother and wife!
My husband was laid off unexpectedly a month after we purchased our first home and ever since then money has been extremely tight.
The very first thing we did was stop going out to eat at restaurants. Not only was it expensive, it wasn't healthy. Now that we're on an entirely different budget I've become a lot more creative in the kitchen and have been making healthier choices at the same time.
It's a great feeling when you know for sure what is going in your body because you made it yourself.
My New Year's Resolution was to "Get Fine In '09!" I am making little (yet completely doable) changes in my everyday lifestyle to help better myself physically and mentally. Physically, I'm eating better and working out more. I've been running 3 miles 3 times a day and incorporating the Wii Fit into my routine. If I can't run outside, then I'll hit the gym for an hour or so. I've cut back on sweets and am eating more fruits and veggies. Mentally, I am taking a more positive attitude towards life and love. I've met a great guy and am thinking about future goals as well! Little changes day-by-day will eventually add up in the long run! It's best to make one achievable resolution, then to bog yourself down with so many that you just get overwhelmed. I've just taken the "small changes" approach!
I'm doing good on all of it so far, I just have to maintain it.
Fast food is but a distant memory. Although the teenager does still ask for it, I can usually sway him by making more or less the same thing at home. We make our own "Big Macs" or Kentucky Fried, using olive and canola oil if something needs to be fried, which isn't often. I can't remember the last time I purchased 'frozen dinner' type meals, which last year would have topped my shopping list.
Now, for me. I'm quite happy and contented with just about everything, but like many women my age, we tend to suffer bouts of depression (losing loved ones doesn't help).
I do not like doctors or pills unless necessary, so I've gone back to doing what I did years ago, and I allow my creative side to come out. I do crafts. I work with paints and wood pieces, wreaths and flowers. I just lay everything out and work with what strikes me. Of course, I purchase my supplies on sale! There is nothing like the feeling of having taken nothing and create something of beauty. There is no better therapy for the psyche that I've ever come across either.
The most important thing, is not a new resolution, but one I promised my husband 12 years ago when we married.....I promised him the day we married in front of all our family and friends that since he was the only person who was able to make me laugh and smile after the death of my daughter, that everyday, I would return the favor. I have and I will continue to do so. There's always something to smile about, no matter how hard or bad things are.
I have a book that needs finishing and lots of revising and I have a household that needs lots of work.
I focus on three areas. Spiritual. I don't belong to any church, but I believe in guides and ghosts and angels. I do prayer walks every day. I want to learn more about the spiritual side of life. This is difficult because it takes introspection.
Mind is easy because I am always reading lots of books.
The physical life comes easy too because I stay healthy and I do eat lots of great things. I think the best thing i can do here is to be vegan instead of just vegetarian. It is just so hard to avoid those cheesy snacks. A vegan diet would also help the spirit.
While trying to stay within our budget. This isn't for the "looks" but for the feel. I want to still be able to get around and do things, enjoy my nature walks and beach.
OhCats! I've got one day left to write that letter.
I'd better get to it.
My New Years Resolution was to STOP cursing. It's the one bad habit from childhood I have struggled with all my life.......when I get on a roll, I actually embarress myself even. I just want to stop it period. I never do it in front of children, but I do young adults/teens and that is not setting a good example so I have vowed to once and for all make IT my NYR and stop completely.......so far I've been successful about 75% of the time, so I am getting better. :0)
I have never been organized, did not know how to cook, I am kin dof lazy... well over the last 3 years I have learned the basics of cooking/baking. I run a household of 6 with a husband who works 10 to 12 hours a day, so I am doing it all here, even hauling trash to the curb and hauling wood for the stove.
I want to be able to schedule better to keep it all done without feeling like I need to run around and play catch up and clean up before company comes over.
I think I will resolve to promote enjoyment in my life, in some small way daily.
In my effort to get back in balance I'm going to start exercising, eating better, reading for pleasure and saying no thank you when I start to feel out of balance.
So, this year, I want to get back to listening to my body and following the lead it shares with me.
I guess I just feel that if I want or need to change myself in some way, the calendar is irrelevant. When I am ready to make a change, I will -- no matter what time of year it is.
My life change for this year is too better myself. What I mean by that is spending more one on one time with each of my children(so far so good!), cooking more meals at home instead of eating out all the time, and my number one life change was to get a job and be able to pay for the things that my husband isn't able too. So far so good on that one also!I have a job and even though we are still struggling, it makes me feel better to know that I have an extra dollar in my pocket if my children need something. As before we had to ask my parents or grandparents to borrow money from them and thats not something I was proud of. I can actually say that in 2 weeks when its time to get a paycheck again I still have at least $1.00 left in my pocket from the check before. Thats something I am very proud of as before I was known to spend my whole check within a few days of getting it. I have also bettered myself because it makes me feel great to be able to help my husband out with bills and such around our home. Happy Mommy = Happy Family
2. Stand financially on my own two feet. And I'm not even talking 'financially fit', just not on crutches. Yes, I do have a profession. Being a freelance translator is something that I actually enjoy. It gives me an opportunity to be also a stay-at-home mom, to go to work in my pj's and being pretty much my own boss. Sadly, a freelance translator also means (in my case) a starving translator, having-my- bills-in-collection translator. I know that there are certain steps that I can take to change that and hopefully I will have enough guts to do it.
Typing my fingers off is good for my hands and mind. I love my gather.
to help the community and strive for peace in my home:)
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I'm reading again ,and I want to read 50 books.
I want to lose 22 pounds .
I want to be a better husband to my long suffering wife ,who has had to endure my " pity parties ". That should be enough for one year.
To be the best at the things I'm already committed to before taking on extra obligations. This isn't going to be another year of "just one more thing".