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by Ann Weaver Hart
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April 10, 2007

Prop 8 Donors Want to Hide

January 19, 2009 06:30 PM EST
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Some people thought it was a good idea to prevent gay and lesbian couples from marrying in California. In fact, they thought it was such a good idea that they gave money to help pass Proposition 8. Now that their addresses are public record, these people are having second thoughts.

The battle over Proposition 8, which specifically defines marriage as existing only between a man and a woman, is not over. People from all over the United States donated money to the battle over Prop 8, some in support, some in opposition. No election besides the presidential election has ever involved as much money. On election day, supporters won, passing the measure by a small margin.

According to the New York Times, an organization called Protect Marriage (NYT) has filed a lawsuit to keep donors' names and addresses a secret. Opponents of Prop 8 have published Google maps showing addresses of contributors of at least $100 to the cause. Donors claim that they have been harassed, threatened, and boycotted because of the publication. Now they wish to challenge the California law that makes their names public record.

Most people can probably relate to their discomfort with having their addresses and employment published for all the world to see. James Bopp, Jr., a lawyer for Protect Marriage claims that the "cost of transparency cannot be discouragement of people's participation." Transparency is the one thing most needed in government, especially in cases involving people's rights. When donors wish to hide their support for Prop 8, their desire for "privacy" begins to resemble that of a fully robed Klansman.

Americans value standing up for one's beliefs. When donors want to support Prop 8 and maintain their anonymity at the same time, they are manipulating the system rather than standing up. They should reap the results of their campaign.

Laws protect these donors from physical attack and harassment. Those laws absolutely must be enforced. Those who have harassed the supporters of Prop 8 should stop immediately. Hate speech, name-calling, and anger accomplish nothing. There are legal, nonviolent actions that will accomplish more than threats. No laws protect donors from the business consequences of their position nor should any. If the gay and lesbian community and their supporters simply refuse to do business with supporters of Prop 8, they will give supporters a powerful reason to change their minds.

Marriage is a legal state that establishes property rights and certain personal rights. American society allows all heterosexual couples to marry, regardless of their character, economic status, or mental fitness. Those who support denying others the right to marry enough to donate money ought to be willing to bear the consequences. He who pays the piper gets to call the tune. Then he has to listen. Supporters' money bought exactly what they asked for. They cannot expect anonymity as well.

The boycott is a venerable and legal action that targets a person or company, usually for political reasons. People in a free society have the right to do business with anyone they please. This right presumes the right to refuse to do business with anyone they please as well (Wikipedia). Donors who spent money to prevent gays and lesbians from marrying should have thought about this possibility the day they wrote the checks.

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Comments: 182

Peter Joseph Swanson Jan 19, 2009, 6:36pm EST
Nasty bigots should be ashamed of themselves !!!
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Ron (in complete sheeple overload) W. Jan 19, 2009, 6:37pm EST
Hmm.... it occurs to me that prejudice has always operated better in the shadows. Publish it, all of it.
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Ann Weaver Hart Jan 19, 2009, 6:39pm EST
Peter, they ARE ashamed of themselves, and they want you to keep doing business with them.
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Dorothy H. Jan 19, 2009, 6:41pm EST
Seems they want to live in a closet, now. Closet bigots.
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sharon SugarMomma is a wise woman, Jan 19, 2009, 6:42pm EST
All donor names for all political agendas are public records. "Come into the light."

Haters - they will reap what they sow.
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donna f. Jan 19, 2009, 6:45pm EST
I can't wait to see the names on the list, so I will know exactly whom to boycott.
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Danielle P. Jan 19, 2009, 6:47pm EST
What comes around goes around. They will get theirs.
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Larry M. Jan 19, 2009, 6:54pm EST
Even bigots need protection from radicals on either side. I can't feel it appropriate to demand that these donors be exposed to possible retaliation from hotheads.
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Andrea (Ms. Conservative) L. Jan 19, 2009, 6:55pm EST
Ann, please explain to me how, logically, you got from donors wanting to hide their names to standing up for boycotting. Your article does not flow well enough to get from a to b.

I also have this problem:

You seem to have no problem whatsoever with the people who donated to oppose Prop 8 having their names publicly exposed. Why are you NOT jumping on the bandwagon when the Republicans and others are asking for President-elect Obama to release the names of the people who donated to his campaign? And before you go there, no, ALL the names have NOT been released, and there are hundreds, if not thousands of discrepancies that the campaign still has not cleared up. Why are you not writing an article about that? Are not the two equal? In fact, is it not MORE important for the people of the US to know where the money came from for the presidential campaign?

I ask this question - you brought it up - look at your article.
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Ron (in complete sheeple overload) W. Jan 19, 2009, 6:56pm EST
I can't feel it appropriate that they get to hide their bigotry, Larry.
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Lee P. Jan 19, 2009, 6:57pm EST
Interesting. Thanks for sharing.
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Ann Weaver Hart Jan 19, 2009, 6:58pm EST
Andrea Ms. Conservative L.: Political donors' names are public record, period. So your question is answered.

As for point a to point b: Donors are complaining that they are being boycotted, as if that is some kind of injustice being done to them.
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Rob Appell Jan 19, 2009, 7:00pm EST
I agree we all have the right to our opinion; even the right to vote their conscience on various issues. I don't appreciate rights we were given to be taken away after they were granted. I don't approve of harassing or attacking those who go against what we are for. We drop ourselves down to their bigoted, homophobic levels. I wholeheartedly agree with boycotting these people, their businesses and anyone they work for. I recommend everyone who support equal rights for all to look these people up and target them by not putting any money in their pocket...so they can take and use it against us in the future. Drive them out of business. Bankrupt them. They'll be wishing they hadn't donated; not just because it was against gays, but because when they're broke; they'll wish they had spent their money on something so ridiculous as voting against equal rights. Many of them are probably the same ones who have been against civil rights in the past and we'll never change their prejudice minds. The only thing that will stop their stupidity is when they die. One less hateful soul in this world...and they get to face the music all on their own when they reach judgment day. No amount of cash will help them then.
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Ron (in complete sheeple overload) W. Jan 19, 2009, 7:00pm EST
I hadn't heard that, Andrea. Reference?
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Andrea (Ms. Conservative) L. Jan 19, 2009, 7:04pm EST
Um, Ann. My question is NOT answered - please research before you shoot off an answer.

I KNOW that donors are complaining that they are being boycotting. I watched on the news a few months back when this story broke and saw that not only were they being boycotted, they were being harassed. Those are two ENTIRELY different animals.
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Dan E. Jan 19, 2009, 7:06pm EST
Problem is Ann,
Your call for non violence will not be headed, we all saw what the radical side of the pro homosexual marriage community did after the failure of the prop.
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Andrea (Ms. Conservative) L. Jan 19, 2009, 7:06pm EST
You haven't heard what, Ron? What do you want a reference for?
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Georgiana S. Jan 19, 2009, 7:12pm EST
Put your money where your mouth is! You are right ann, these people are no better than the KKK or the IRA, hiding as 'regular folks' while harbouring hate and bigotry.
If they are so proud of their views and opinions let them stand up openly for them!
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Nancy Biri Jan 19, 2009, 7:20pm EST
Thanks for sharing
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James C. Jan 19, 2009, 7:20pm EST
Andrea,

I hve to agree that there is a difference between boycott and harassment although I'm sure some who are boycotted would consider that and complain of it being harassment. Sometimes the line is fine but generally, those with strong feelings on a subject such as this are willing to subject themselves to whatever the fates may bring because they believe that their stand, popular or unpopular, was morally right!
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Sarah A. (I KANZ B UH RITUR!!!!) , YEZ!! Jan 19, 2009, 7:23pm EST
My mother told me never to do anything I wouldn't want posted on the Internet...
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Charles Temm JR Jan 19, 2009, 7:27pm EST
Oh yes, support something, anything that some don't like and sacrifice your livelihood or safety for it? If anything this proves is that tolerance is a one way street. You tolerate what "I/we" want or we'll get you. Yeah, makes one proud to be part of such a tolerant/personal rights group.

Tolerance, you'd better agree with such the tolerant ones or else.
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Marilyn M. Jan 19, 2009, 7:33pm EST
If this were merely about boycotting, that would be one thing. But people are being harassed. They are being physically threatened. Their homes and businesses are being called repeatedly. I'm sorry. That kind of behavior because someone voted for or against anything IS WRONG, WRONG, WRONG. And anyone who thinks otherwise should have to go through that him/herself.
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Teresa A. Jan 19, 2009, 7:34pm EST
There should not be different sets of rules.
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Carolion Grailbear Jan 19, 2009, 7:36pm EST
All I know is what I understand from having met various gay couples, some who've adopted special needs children, many of whom are absolutely upstanding citizens, partnering well with each other and with communities they serve -

I understand that marriage commitments, in working reality, have no gender requirements. They come closer to being SOUL FRIENDSHIPS which can include sexual sharing and parental responsibility, and raise the vibration of both partners and hopefully all family members.

That's the ideal. That would be a high-vibrational marital partnership.

As currently practiced in the USA and many other places, however, there are a lot of low-vibe marriages which are really relationship addictions and enemy camps, and drag the soul down. A lot of these low-vibe partnerships are heterosexual.

So the marriage law change we need has nothing to do with restricting gender expression, but everything to do with encouraging thoughtfulness and lovingkindness and development of better support systems for understanding the challenges of soul friendship.
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Marilyn M. Jan 19, 2009, 7:39pm EST
Remember what happened right after the vote, when the biggest ads had come from the Mormon church? Mormon churches all over America were targeted. Their worship services were invaded. Their churches were defiled. It's no wonder that anyone else would like to see their names kept out of the public eye if this is what they can expect to happen to their homes, their families, their children?
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lynn a. Jan 19, 2009, 7:40pm EST
Maybe this will help some of those folks who think denying freedoms and a sense of safety to a group that has been harrassed forever feel and understand why GLBT's are trying so hard to get their legal rights. I'm sorry. I just can't feel sorry for people who use religion to take away from people who they think should not be treated equally. I wouldn't advocate violence but boycotts absolutely yes.
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Marilyn M. Jan 19, 2009, 7:40pm EST
And Andrea is right. If you're so for having these names where everyone can see and harass, let's make sure all of Obama's donors are also identified. That's only fair. But he has refused.
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Claudia (kitty-cat) K. Jan 19, 2009, 7:43pm EST
This is just another interesting discussion that goes nowhere.
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Ann Weaver Hart Jan 19, 2009, 7:44pm EST
Marilyn, there are laws in place to protect these people from harassment and physical harm. They should take appropriate measures if they are being harassed. If they are not happy about being boycotted, then they simply do not want to deal with the consequences of trying to deprive others of rights they themselves enjoy.
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Jack E. Jan 19, 2009, 7:47pm EST
They tried the same thing in my state after gay marriage was made legal . Our governor said she did not like it but she would abide by the law and then hurried up and wrote a proposition similar to that of California to get it on the ballot only it failed here.

The so called Christian right is nothing but a group of hypocritical bigots that constantly profess their religion and in the second breath spit on it.
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Kim J. Jan 19, 2009, 7:48pm EST
Hmmm....shouldn't the bigots be glad they are being boycotted??? Aren't they afraid that there might be "gay germs" on gay money????
On Andrea's "point": the campaign did give out the information that they were required to--they did not have information on anyone that gave them less than $25 at one time because there is no requirement for campaigns to keep that informationsince it is such a small amount.
This information (on the small donors) is available if you go to all the different states and bring up the public record.
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Larry M. Jan 19, 2009, 7:49pm EST
Those laws punish after the fact. They don't prevent violence or other law breaking. If boycotting were the only "retaliation" I would not object. But this issue has raised emotions to a level that will make far more than boycotting probable. I would oppose revealing the names and addresses.

I also prefer secret bigotry to overt bigotry. I would like people to be ashamed of being bigots.
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Kim J. Jan 19, 2009, 7:51pm EST
Oops, forgot--I have gone through harrassment and death threats and property damage from those good law-abiding christians who can't stand it that I do not believe in religious mythology--I've had my windshield broke, my car keyed(with the inscription of "burn in hell, bitch"), notes left in my work mailbox and at my home. I still stood up for what I believed in--of course that might be because I was right and they, like these bigots, were just plain wrong.
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David W. Jan 19, 2009, 7:52pm EST
It is a shame that money can influence people, but it happens. Maybe this should have never gone to vote. The courts should have stopped it or invalidated the petition. It's time for the Fed to get involved.

How in the world does two people of the same sex getting equality affect my life? Will we all become Gay by association?

Arrgh! I get angry and there is no one to take my temper out on.

Pardon me for a moment while I put my fist through the wall.
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sharon SugarMomma is a wise woman, Jan 19, 2009, 7:57pm EST
So it's okay for me or my daughter or my son to be attacked and denied equal rights because of our sexuality and it's okay for people of color to have their churches bombed their homes vandalized and to be jumped on the street. But heaven forbid that anything happen to Heteterosexual bigots who try and pay their way to hatred?

Sorry - too bad and tough sh*t, walk a mile in my shoes.
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Kathryn E. Jan 19, 2009, 7:58pm EST
It passed in Massachusetts with very little fanfare, and it is a shame that there is so much ballyhoo over it in CA.
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Kathryn E. Jan 19, 2009, 7:58pm EST
Featured in the Triple Name Club.
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EM JAY (Gather Director of Chaos & Uprisings) W. Jan 19, 2009, 8:03pm EST
If you can't support something fully out in the open, then ask yourself why you feel you've got to hide.

These people came up with the money, now let them explain their hate.
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EM JAY (Gather Director of Chaos & Uprisings) W. Jan 19, 2009, 8:06pm EST
Maybe these people should have a hooded costume uniform of their own designed so they can march and spout their crap without anyone knowing who they are. You know we take the KKK so seriously because they're dressed so well.
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Tammy N. Jan 19, 2009, 8:07pm EST
This is concerning....

Am I to understand that many people believe it is appropriate to boycott a business because they supported Prop 8? Would these same people be willing to accept boycott of business based on their opposition to Prop 8? It's a double-edged sword.
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Aniko     Jan 19, 2009, 8:11pm EST
I think we should look at this not as a Prop 8/bigotry issue, but as an internet privacy issue. (You know where I stand on Prop 8--and those of you who don't know me can probably tell from my icon.)

The question, impartially stated, is whether political donors' names and addresses should be available online for anyone to view. The current interpretation of the law is that "public record" means it can be posted on the internet as is, even though that creates a very different situation from the physical record being available for viewing in a brick-and-mortar location for those who dedicate the time and energy to going there. So, if you've donated over a set amount for a campaign, anyone who knows your name can find your address on the internet at the click of a mouse. (Or a few clicks.) If you have a not-too-common name, they don't even have to know the city you live in. I don't think this is a particularly good idea. I think listing the name and the city (as the SFGate site does) is perfectly enough for transparency.

That said, boycotting businesses that gave money to a cause you disapprove of is perfectly legitimate, and yes, some commentators around here have suggested that since it's meant to financially destroy the owner, it should be illegal. They never quite acknowledged that they were really saying that if you're gay and want to get married and you've found out that your dentist donated money to make this impossible, you are obligated to keep seeing the same dentist forever. Or they never explained how this was not what they meant.
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Andrea (Ms. Conservative) L. Jan 19, 2009, 8:28pm EST
Kim - shall I direct you to some of those so called legal donors by the name of Mickey Mouse, Donald Duck and their friends? DO YOU ACTUALLY BELIEVE THOSE WERE LEGAL DONATIONS? And those weren't the small donations of $25 or less on Obama's campaign either. Money came in from overseas from people who cannot be proved to be US citizens. All of this is highly unethical not to mention most likely illegal. Is it any wonder that Obama decided not to take federal money? Did you know that his website was set up to purposely skirt most protective measures, not even asking what country the donor came from? BIG RED FLAG!!!! It is now next to impossible to separate those receipts out to determine who gave what.

So, all of you liberals who are getting your butt on your shoulders over some people who would like a little privacy because they are getting harassed because they gave money to defeat a statute in California - how about you do a little bit of research before you start writing articles getting upset over such things. People have a right to expect not to be harassed over how they vote and how they donate money, if they do if legally. Obama's team most likely did not raise their money legally. If you want to scream about an injustice, why don't you scream about that????
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Jan 19, 2009, 8:28pm EST
I agree with Aniko: "I think listing the name and the city (as the SFGate site does) is perfectly enough for transparency.

I agree with MK: "If you can't support something fully out in the open, then ask yourself why you feel you've got to hide."

And I don't think these hateful people have any room to talk about being harassed, when the people they support harass others for being born the way they are. The duplicity is nauseating.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Jan 19, 2009, 8:28pm EST
Andrea, your butt is the only one showing on this thread.
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jeni e. Jan 19, 2009, 8:30pm EST
Confucious say: He who slings sh*** should not object to walk in it. First, I am straight, secondly, so what? The people who voted against gay marriages should not have to be afraid for any reason but the bottom line is they did in fact do it, and should stand by it, not hide. If one has the bigotry to make these decisions they should know what comes with it. Personally, I do not care who marries who, man joining with man, woman joining with woman. It is a personal choice. None of us have the right (and I am not even sure it should be or is a 'right) to vote on a decision that involves the happiness of two humans. I truly believe one is born with these tendancies, if not, why would anyone want to subject them selfs to such pain? or bigotry? or hatred? We must all (or try very hard too) try to keep the word 'Love' in all of this, and isn't it all about 'Love?' When two people make a decision to marry, or join what ever you want to call it, why should anyone care as to their sex? I consider myself a Christian and I would never thump a bible at anyone and scream, 'deviant!' Do unto others as you would have then do unto you or is this something I am confusing with Nazi germany? Do good-ers get over it! Gays and lesbians are here to stay. They will continue to fall in love whether anyone liked it or not.
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Karen G. Jan 19, 2009, 8:36pm EST
They should have the courage and conviction to stand by their decision.
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Andrea (Ms. Conservative) L. Jan 19, 2009, 9:14pm EST
I would be happy to show anyone what money I gave to a cause I believe in. If someone wants to boycott me, then that is fine. HOWEVER, I take issue with people being harassed and that is exactly what happened and no one here can deny that that is exactly what happened. Boycotting, as MLK did it, and stood by it, involved peaceful demonstration, which I wholeheartedly agree with. I myself have taken part in such demonstrations. But, that is NOT what happened in California to those people. They were harassed to the point where some had to quit their jobs. Some were afraid to go to work - and they were not even the ones who had donated the money!!!

So, yeah, I AM going to get MY butt on MY shoulders and STAND up for THOSE people because they happened to be in the right.

I am still waiting on some lib on here to answer my charges about Obama. I see that no one has tackled that monkey yet. Perhaps it is because you know I am right?
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EM JAY (Gather Director of Chaos & Uprisings) W. Jan 19, 2009, 9:26pm EST
I did boycott you, Andrea. I removed you from my list and blocked your emails from my inbox after you sent me a particularly nasty ping one day because I don't agree with you.

Those people aren't IN the right, they ARE the right and they're wrong about most issues that affect an individual's life. They need to spend more time working on their own lives and stop obsessing about others.

No one's answering you on Obama because it's off topic and I find it interesting that you chose the word "monkey."

There are products/companies I don't do business with because they've made public the contributions they've made to organizations I don't wish to fund in any way. I haven't seen any of them go out of business, but I feel just fine about my choice.
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Marilyn M. Jan 19, 2009, 9:27pm EST
Andrea, you forget. Obama can do no wrong. The rules were not made for him.

As I said before, boycotting is fine. But there is no excuse for interrupting worship services with hatred. There is no excuse for harassing people. There is no excuse for threatening bodily harm.

Of course the people who voted that way should be able to stand tall and proud for voting the way they believe. And you should accept the way the votes went. Go ahead and boycot. Bring it up for a vote again later. But don't threaten people with hurting them. Don't trash their churches.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Jan 19, 2009, 9:33pm EST
I do the same, MJ. I want to know who I do business with (including my doctors) so I can choose people who I believe will have my best interest and the best interest of my (world) neighbors at heart.

Interesting that she chose that word maybe, but not surprising.

Marilyn, you look pretty foolish talking about Obama can do no wrong and the rules were not made for him when your guys admitted in public this past month that they broke the rules/laws, they don't care (so what?), and one of them is "disappointed" about lying us into killing hundreds of thousands of people for no reason. Please, focus on your own wrongs and leave everyone else alone.
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Marilyn M. Jan 19, 2009, 9:36pm EST
People who voted for traditional marriage and against gay marriage are not spewing hate. They're just voting what they believe is right. That is what this country is about, right? We voted on quite a few propositions in our local area. Some we liked, some we didn't. If the vote didn't go the way we wanted, no one went out and tried to hurt people.
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Christos G. Jan 19, 2009, 9:55pm EST
Release their names. If they are businesses, we ought to know and it is our right to not do business with them if we disagree. Or do more business with them if we are like them. This was political. It should be public. Those who harrass should be prosecuted but that should not be a reason to keep those not public.
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EM JAY (Gather Director of Chaos & Uprisings) W. Jan 19, 2009, 10:07pm EST
People didn't believe it was "right" for races to mix. Good thing we beat that notion, yes?
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Jan S. Jan 19, 2009, 10:13pm EST
I think it has more to do with fear than shame. Americans who vote their consciences are to be admired, not threatened. Our balloting system is a secret ballot to protect voters from harrassment. It would be a terrible state if Americans were afraid to vote due to fear.

The only other issue I can think of now that has a similar situation is abortion. A lot of pro-lifers boycott companies that support Planned Parenthood. It just doesn't get as much press coverage. I have not seen any coverage to indicate that individual supporters and donors have been threatened.
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Linda B. Jan 19, 2009, 10:21pm EST
Boycotting is a time-honored and completely legal method of expressing one's views. This is called free speech. Those suffering the effects of a boycott are free to hire attorneys to address any slanderous/libelous statements made about them....or a public relations firm, if it is irrefutable that the donation to the unpopular cause was indeed made. Spin is expensive but corporations will pay big bucks for it as a survival tactic.

Lists of donors are public record. This is legal--even more, it is REQUIRED by law. Let's have a reality check on why that data has not been released: just how many entities (individuals, organizations, businesses, etc.) donated to Obama's campaign? Half a dozen or so? That donor list is probably long enough to circle the globe; no way has the information been categorized and filed by now. His campaign lasted YEARS, people.
Sheesh.

Our votes are private--a protection guaranteed by law. Donations are NOT, in order to protect against undue influence and election tampering--another protection guaranteed by law.
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EM JAY (Gather Director of Chaos & Uprisings) W. Jan 19, 2009, 10:34pm EST
Hmmm...I voted my conscience and have been called anti-American for 8 years. I exercised my free speech at peaceable assemblies where the topic was "end the war" and got hassled by the cops and called un-American some more. I started supporting Barack Obama last winter and was called un-American and told to get out of the country and worse.

Did I stop? Nope. If you believe in something enough to write a big check or to put your work into it, then you better be willing to go all the way and face down the fear.
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Gisela S. Jan 19, 2009, 10:37pm EST
Voting by secret ballot and donating funds to support legislation are two entirely different creatures.

How are we to identify when corporations or other organizations are bankrolling an initiative if that information isn't made public?
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Ron (in complete sheeple overload) W. Jan 19, 2009, 10:50pm EST
"I am still waiting on some lib on here to answer my charges about Obama. I see that no one has tackled that monkey yet. Perhaps it is because you know I am right?"

Well, I"m still waiting for your reference to this material on Obama contributions, and I doubt you didn't know what I was asking you for, the first time.
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Ron (in complete sheeple overload) W. Jan 19, 2009, 10:56pm EST
http://www.snopes.com/politics/obama/donations.asp
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Ron (in complete sheeple overload) W. Jan 19, 2009, 10:58pm EST
Also, Campaigns do not have to identify anyone that donates less than 200 dollars throughout the campaign cycle. Your concerns are nada.
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Ron (in complete sheeple overload) W. Jan 19, 2009, 11:03pm EST
I think you might be confusing those Mickey mouse references with the voter registration allegations on Acorn, a matter they self reported, and was just another propaganda piece from the right.
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Ron (in complete sheeple overload) W. Jan 19, 2009, 11:05pm EST
So now you're not waiting any more, Andrea. Sorry I didn't get to your BS earlier, but I had to go feed my brother.
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Andrea (Ms. Conservative) L. Jan 19, 2009, 11:17pm EST
Ron - you are just blowing smoke. Those references just HAPPEN to be true. Yes, campaigns do NOT have to identify donations less than $200. Obama's website ENCOURAGED people to donate less than $200 as did his campaign manager so that it would be harder for the US government to track donations. This is ALSO why he reneged on his promise to accept government financing. I am NOT doing your research for you. If you want to sit on your lazy bum and throw out stuff, go right ahead. I KNOW that of which I speak. I have done my homework. I have read up on my characters; if I hadn't I would not be putting it on the Internet.

Oh, and MJ, you did me a HUGE favor when you boycotted me. Not that I was ever on your friend list that I recall. But, I do not have anything in common with you, and would rather spend my time with my conservative friends and those who are not conservative who can be nice.

See, I am not being mean per se to Ann. I just did not agree with her article.
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Andrea (Ms. Conservative) L. Jan 19, 2009, 11:19pm EST
What am I waiting for Ron? You? To show up and grace me with your presence? I think not.
I'm gone for the night. I have better things to do - and you have some stuff to research.
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Marilyn M. Jan 19, 2009, 11:35pm EST
Ron, this has been rehased and proof was given before. Obama went back on his word about how he would finance his campaign. Then he went back on his word when he said he would release names.
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Cena W. Jan 19, 2009, 11:50pm EST
Wow!
Ya'll Christian Republicans sure are a loving bunch. . . .

Ann,
I stopped to read and post as support......dove right into the hornet's nest.

Keep fighting

I live in the very conservative center of the our state, still I was hoping for a no vote on this rotten bit of work.
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Michael the #2 Ninja Kitteh Jan 20, 2009, 12:07am EST
Andrea, Marilyn: This is not an article about President Obama. This is an article about Proposition 8. I'd like to invite you to write your own articles or visit Google if you have questions.
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Ron (in complete sheeple overload) W. Jan 20, 2009, 12:16am EST
Andrea,

There is no basis in fact for the foriegn donations, as noted by Snopes, or for the mickey mouse, donald duck crap, other than donations made that occur in any campaign, and are returned. Campaigns do not control who donates, but they do control what is done with those donations, and they have to make reports to the FEC about those cases. There is nothing illegal about that, and frankly, Andrea, I don't care if you wait for a reply or not, you're drawing on highly partisan sites that take the same BS stories, and change the details a smidgen, and make it look like there is something where there is nothing. You don't want to come up with reputable sources, fine, but until you do, you're the one blowing smoke. I referenced my info. If you think anyone is going to take your word, just because you said it, you're on the wrong board, and need to go back to your partisan blog chats. They'll love you there.
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Ron (in complete sheeple overload) W. Jan 20, 2009, 12:18am EST
Marilyn,
No it has not, at least as far as there having been anything illegal done. I know the conservative blogosphere may have trumped it up to true believer's satisfaction, but that don't make it so. As for going back on his promise to accept public financing, I don't see that as a problem, it's his decision. Not to mention McCain had already broken the campaign finance laws he himself had passed on that, so there is no high ground for you folks on that score. He wasn't, then he was, and then he wasn't going to accept matching funds before he finally settled on taking them. Once you take funds, which he did when his campaign faltered and almost went bankrupt during the primaries, you don't get to go back on it. He tried before finally realizing he couldn't. Broken promises about releasing names of donors? Give me a reputable reference on that one too, will you? I hadn't heard that either, but it only took two seconds and Google to find the error of Andrea's claims. I figure it will probably be the same on this one. If not, I'll learn something, I guess. I'm not afraid of that, like some here.
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Peter Wimsey Jan 20, 2009, 12:35am EST
This is a great article, Ann.

The requirement to disclose all donors over $100 in California referendums was a previous Proposition adopted by right wingnuts who did not want "outside" money tainting their anti-tax reforms.

Now that the shoe is on the other foot (they are being confronted about their bigotry and ignorance), suddenly the disclosure requirement is scary and un-American.

I hope that California sticks to the disclosure laws, and the media gets a chance to examine just who is opposed to Civil Rights in these United States.
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Peter Wimsey Jan 20, 2009, 12:40am EST
Ron, there is no arguing with ideological kooks who cite the "facts" from internet rumors that have already been disproven.

I'm sure that ACORN registrars, who are paid to enroll new voters, padded their lists on occassion.

But, this was reported by ACORN itself. And, there is not one claim of a fraudulent vote being cast from phony registrations.

The same can not be said of the Republican enrollees in Orange County, where the Republican Committee chair is going to jail for outright fraud.

Once again, Republicans make wild and inaccurate accusations, while they are actually committing the sins about which they complain.
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Sandy (Site Psychic™) Knauer Jan 20, 2009, 12:57am EST
People who voted for traditional marriage and against gay marriage are not spewing hate.

Yes they are spewing hate. "Traditional" marriage included paying men to take daughters off the hands of the parents who didn't want to support them any more. "Traditional" marriage included teaching women to allow husbands to insult and beat wives. "Traditional" marriage teaches people to live lies. "Traditional" marriage leaves women helpless. Can't be much more hateful than that.

Since I'm back, I'll play with your title, Ann. Prop 8 Donors Want to Hide because they're used to living in closets.
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Mark-John K. Jan 20, 2009, 1:01am EST
The Liberals of California said YES to Prop 8. They FINALLY got one right. Deal with it.
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Marilyn M. Jan 20, 2009, 1:02am EST
Here's a question for y'all. Barak Obama and Hilary Clinton are both against gay marriage. Should people start harassing them as well?

And why has everyone (like today Tom Hanks?) gotten all riled up over the Mormon Church being against gay marriage? So is the Roman Catholic Church, the Eastern Orthodox Church, and the Union of Orthodox Jewish Congregations of America. Perhaps it's because the Mormon church is an easy target?
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Marilyn M. Jan 20, 2009, 1:04am EST
In November 2008, California put this issue to a vote. The results reinforced existing law to prohibit gay marriage. 52.3% of voters — including 70% of blacks — supported keeping the ban. Why not go after voters, not just people who donated money?
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Cena W. Jan 20, 2009, 2:02am EST
Mark,
Democrats, have not had frontal lobotomies, we retain our own judgment and viewpoints.
WE do not follow a party line and talk and act exactly as directed.

It has caused the party much grief. . . . .The passing of this proposition is one of the sad tragic things, not one of the good things about life in California.

The ban won't stick., but is it a problem now.
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Cena W. Jan 20, 2009, 2:19am EST
Well I had to come back,
I looked at the most viewed list
Top is some point whore freebie list
Your post is #2 most viewed
that puke Berf is no. 3 with his obvious lie, point grabbing title
"Is MLK day going to be a paid holiday??" . . Unless he is really dead and an actual zombie.
He has to know it is a paid Federal Holiday. . . .
I decided to post my comment here. I will never clidk on a Berf, Marliyn M or certain other
consevative point hogs. We all know exactly what they have to say anyway.
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Flex Colby Jan 20, 2009, 2:28am EST
I think I deserve to know who voted away my right to marry. I'll forgive them only if the California Supreme Court destroys prop 8!
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Cheri Cabot Jan 20, 2009, 2:33am EST
Well said, Ann. And you have to know, these same people wanting to hide behind a new law would be the first to want the names of those with opposing views made public.
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Bruce K. Jan 20, 2009, 3:05am EST
That's the best point I have read Cheri.
I do respect legitimate concerns over having one's name and address
posted publicly, particularly on issues to do with terrorism, whether it
be abortion doctors, critics of Islam, opposers of gay marrigage or
whatever. There are a lot of crazy people out there that will do
crazy things if a target is close enough and cheap enough. It is a
legitimate problem.

Can you imagine a place like Iraq posting names and political
affiliations publicly? So far we do not have problems like Iraq.

Tough problem.
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Ron (in complete sheeple overload) W. Jan 20, 2009, 7:36am EST
Marilyn,
Laws protecting people that financed this should be enforced to the limit of the law, but letting those people hide their bigotry, no, no way.

"In November 2008, California put this issue to a vote. The results reinforced existing law to prohibit gay marriage. 52.3% of voters — including 70% of blacks — supported keeping the ban. Why not go after voters, not just people who donated money?"

Because many of them only voted that way because of the media campaign of hate and fear that was financed by those people, and that church. Breaking the law, targeting anyone for violence is not to be condoned, but those that financed that witch hunt should, and will be exposed. As for Hillary and Obama, and those other churches, how much did they contribute?
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Jennifer R. Jan 20, 2009, 9:32am EST
It was my understanding from reading the article and from what I read of the disclosure of the Obama campaign contributers is that on the Prop 8 your name wasn't published if you donated less than $100. The same is true for the Obama campaign. It wasn't that he refused there were so many of such little denomination amounts that they weren't kept track of and that was admitted by the Obama campaign and I belive there were going to be new rules in place in regards to disclosure. Also on this particular instance it was required that these be disclosed in the Obama instance it was not. It was a voluntary process that people who didn't want to vote for him jumped on as he was trying to hide something.
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Jennifer R. Jan 20, 2009, 9:33am EST
Also I think boycotting is good and fine but absolutely not harrassment. I think I understand why the some members of the gay community would feel so angered to do such things but I hope that they know deep down if they do so they are only bringing themselves down as low as the people who are denying them their basic rights. The high road is the road to take here.
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Ann Weaver Hart Jan 20, 2009, 10:08am EST
About the churches: The Knights of Columbus, which is an all-male organization for Roman Catholic men contributed a great deal of money, which is legal. I'd love to know if any churches donated money. Any church that donates money to a political campaign should lose its tax-exempt status immediately.

I think it is a dreadful irony that Mormons and Roman Catholic men would interfere with anyone's right to marry.
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Sheryl O. Jan 20, 2009, 10:56am EST
"When donors wish to hide their support for Prop 8, their desire for "privacy" begins to resemble that of a fully robed Klansman."

The irony is astounding. The very people who push and push for transparency when the opposition raises money for a cause are the ones screaming the loudest when they are put out in the light for their causes. Doesn't it occur to any of these hypocrites that there is a reason why they are so unpopular? Abortion doctors' names and addresses and private family information have been splashed across websites for years now..with messages inviting people to harass and hound these people.

I do not condone the harassment, but it is so ironic that people are having a problem NOW with the very law they helped put on the books.

Great article, Ann.
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Shing Wedzi Jan 20, 2009, 11:05am EST
www.dontbuyfrombigots.com

Donor lists by state.
My goodness, there are a lot of churches on those lists. These wouldn't be tax-exempt churches, now would they...?
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Marilyn M. Jan 20, 2009, 11:40am EST
If you take away the rights of churches to contribute to political campaigns, I believe you'll have to take the rights to do that fromi any non-profit organization. I'd be careful saying that any non-profits cannot contribute to political campaigns. That would mean some of the very groups who want gay marriage could also not contribute. I don't think you want that.
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Ann Weaver Hart Jan 20, 2009, 11:44am EST
Marilyn, I want churches OUT of the government. Period. If they want to be political, they can pay taxes like other folks. It might help erase the federal deficit, in fact, if all the money the churches collected were taxed, once when the people earned the money, and once when the churches collected it.
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theresa s. Jan 20, 2009, 11:51am EST
wow, thank you for sharing
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Dan (open minded conservative) K. Jan 20, 2009, 11:53am EST
I'm sure there are just as many opposed to Prop 8 that didn't want their views public. I guess only certain people are entitled to privacy, right Ann?
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Nippy Katz (not his real name) Patriotic Troll of Gather Freedom Jan 20, 2009, 1:31pm EST
"You seem to have no problem whatsoever with the people who donated to oppose Prop 8 having their names publicly exposed. "

Campaign donations are a matter of public record.
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Ann Weaver Hart Jan 20, 2009, 1:46pm EST
Dan, Where on earth did you get that idea? Those who gave money to both sides of the argument are public record. It is only the supporters of Prop 8 who want to change the law and keep their identity a secret. When anyone gives money in support of a political cause, it is public record, above a certain, very small amount.
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