Growing up I was jealous of the Catholic girls
With their beautiful new clothes for Easter
Getting off of school for their saints day
I thought wouldn't that be great!
I never voiced this feeling I had.
There was no religion in my home.
I didn't even know what Catholic was,
other than the above.
Growing up I learned Christmas carols in school,
pretty and fun songs we sang,
about someone named Jesus and a manger,
about quiet and holy nights with sparkly sky's.
I didn't really understand what they were about,
but I enjoyed singing them.
When I got a little older I realized.
The door flew open and the lights flicked on
I embraced what I was,
what I am.
I am a minority.
With this realization came beauty,
harmony,
my mind and soul were fed,
with the beauty I found.
The quiet spirit and intelligence,
the dignity that speaks to my heart.
Now I cannot imagine a day without it.
Finding my path has helped complete me.
It gives me solace when times are hard.
It lifts my head and lips to rejoice.
It gives my feet the pathway to walk.
Their are many paths in the world to follow,
we all must find the right one,
the one that is deep inside us.
This is my path and I walk it with joy.
To others find your path,
it is there,
you will know it when you find it.
Walk it with pride no matter what,
others may not like it, but in the end
there is just you.
You and your path.

I was talking to a friend and she was asking me a questions about Jewish religious services and other things (kosher foods etc.). I made an off hand remark that most Jews know more about Christianity, than Christians know about Judaism. She asked me Why do you think that is? I told her we can't help not knowing, we are surrounded by Christians. They are the majority in the USA. I don't have a problem with Christianity. (Those who have gotten to know me know this is true) I don't have a problem with any religion. I actually think it is good to learn about other people's backgrounds and religions. It expands your horizons and may give you greater insight into your path. I don't think there is only one path that leads us to G-D. I actually do not have a problem with Agnostic's or Atheist's either. My dad (according to the Catholic Church a lapsed Catholic) was an Atheist, and he was one of the best people (maybe the best person) I have ever known.
So if you are comfortable with it tell us your minority and how you think it affects/effects your life. Otherwise make whatever comment you are comfortable
with.


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but regardless
your a beautiful person!
When Oliver Cromwell allowed the Jewish religion to be practiced openly in Britain in 1656 after a gap of around 300 years it was with the proviso that the Torah and Talmud contained noothing that contradicted Christian teaching. When the idea was picked up around Europe it meant a lot of very interesting stuff was lost from the religion.
You would have every right to be a tad resentful.
Thank you for posting to this group whose only purpose is to thank you for posting to this group.
But my minority status was by choice. I could "pass" when it was convenient. I really benefited more than I suffered from being a minority. It gave me a much broader perspective and prevented me from "running with the crowd" which saved me money and lots of other problems.
Being proud of one's place is a good thing, regardless of whether its religious, ethnic, or whatever. And I do think most of us walk the same path in our lives though we may wander at the fringes a bit, its just sometimes some don't acknowledge it as such.
My daughter is Christian, my mom was raised Protestant, and my grandmother on my dad's side went to a Methodist church.
I believe GOD is all around us, or some type of spirit. As long as I believe in myself and live my life to the fullest, I am blessed. I am blessed with family and friends who are there for me as I am for them.
I do not embrace the religion I was forced to participate in, I am spiritual,bodacious, open minded and in the best of times feel a kinship with all living things.
I also have alot af growing and learning to do......
Thank you for your post, hey I am proud of you, too-- for what its worth...Hugs.
My biological father was a jack-of-all-trades but primarily worked with carpentry (kind of ironic huh?). His family owned a resort hotel. My mother's parent's were artists as was her avocation. To support us she did various types of work, mainly accounting. My stepfather was a writer. If you go to my page I have spotlighted an article about hiim.
When I was a kid, we always lived near a Catholic church, so most of the kids were Catholic. I remember how lonely Saturday mornings were - while they were in confession and catechism.
I played the violin and was a bookworm - both setting me apart from others in my neighborhood.
The door flew open and the lights flicked on
I embraced what I was,
what I am.
I am a minority.
It isn't clear if the light you saw was that you were a Jew or an individual, i.e. a minority of one. I went to Catholic school for eight years and got my share of that collective indoctrination. I have for many years been a self-styled libertarian humanist, that is, I believe in people and I believe in freedom. I am proud to be a member of the smallest minority--me and the largest majority, the human race.
Blessed Be.
I'll see your Jewish female with my agnostic...and raise you a gay. Pair of queens...I win!
As an adult I am embracing new religions and learning as much as possible. But I understand your point completely, even school lunch menus cater to Lent.
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I am a Jewish, divorced woman with two children. I think I qualify for some group! :)
I love how Judaism has the coming of age ceremony with Bar Mitzvah or Bat Mitzvah. Kids need this stepping stone. My youngest son recently attended his cousin's Bat Mitzvah......
I am not affiliated with a religion now nor have I been all of my adult life. I am spiritual, however. One of my daughters belongs to a Methodist church and is Christian and the other is a convert to Islam. I am intrigued by the Jewish faith and did not realize that one could convert either. I wonder if there is a synagogue in my town in Alaska. The Jewish faith seems fascinating to me due to the Jewish people I know. All the people of Jewish faith I know are very intelligent, well-read, and seem open-minded. I find this very attractive.
Thanks for a thought provoking topic.
Also Chana, I wanted to let you know that I didn't apply for that program. Tom finally got his unemployment money and we have an appointment next week to get help for our heating bills. Thanks anyway.
I'm intrigued - not by anything sensible, but who is that gun weilding lady in your profile pic. It isn't Cagney or Lacy but she looks familiar :-)
I'm not all that familiar with Jewish history except there it intersects with British history and the early development of civilisation. What did the Romans really do for us? Not a lot but they were very good at bigging themselves up.
Through looking at the Persians, Babylonians and Assyrians I have come across quite a bit of Jewish tradition but I'm afraid I find Zoroastrianism (the parent of Judeaism according to most sources) more interesting.
I'm sure your Dad was a great carpenter. One of the effects of ghettoisation in Europe was that Jewish communities needed carpenters and other tradesmen and Christian tradesmen were reluctant to work for them fearing the disapproval of the church.
Another irony is how much of our current civilisation we owe to those Jewish comunities. Throughout the medieval era Christianity was opposed to all learning except religious learning. So much mathematical knowledge as well as medicine etc. was preserved in the Jewish communities. Another respository of ancient knowledge was in the Christian monastic sects which always had a healthy disrespect for Papal authority.
It's quite fascinating to devle into but one soon learns that much of the official history we are taught in schools is totally unreliable.
It's True, One way. If you refuse to read and study God's word you will not be sure of anything )l
I was amazed to learn that most Jews know less about God's word than Born again Christians. I think it may be up to 80% of Christians in the USA know very little or nothing about God's word. Thank you for the post
As far myself, unlike you, I didn’t really envy my friends who were tied more into their religions. For awhile I was stuck going to mass and then I kept declaring everything my parents did as a sin so my dad, a man who spent a year in the seminary, bribed me with ice cream and a game of Monopoly and that is how I became a non-Catholic.
I agree though, that Catholic school girls had rocking uniforms if they knew how to work them.
I grew up in a strict catholic household and community - ha. You know they wouldn't allow me to go to their all catholic - run by nuns - kindergarden, because I was a bastard child. One of the first words I learned.
That meant, I was automatically ostracized before I ever entered first grade, they might as well have branded my forehead.
Lucky for me when we switched to high school, I was chosen for the out of towner class (there were a 100 children - so they just split it down the middle) and things got a lot better for me after that for a number of reasons.
Yup, we all got new Easter dresses every year. Religion was taught like a regular class and when in the fourth grade they had their first - heathen - a protestant child, they basically let her out of class.
Chana - Minority is not what I think of when I think faith:)
As far as beliefs - I don't care what other people believe, occasionally I am intrigued by it and want to know more, but overall my beliefs have turned to spirituality in a different sense.
I've moved on from the catholic faith of my youth, but I can tell you that the first time I entered a protestant church (at 13 years of age) I thought God might strike me dead. The day I revoked my authorization to deduct the church tax - a legal practise in Germany - at age 40 - I had the same feeling - God might strike me dead.
Basically I've decided that I am quite willing and happy to donate, but I'm a big girl - I can decide who receives my charity and religion has nothing to do with it.
Funny, when I wrote this just now - it reminded me that I was once denied help and food by a big catholic church in Houston, because I wasn't a registered church member. This Christmas I helped bring a little cheer to someone who just happened to be jewish - well, at least I live what I preach - pun not so intended.
Ah - but the holidays - well if you look close enough they were originally all pagan - right of passage and change of seasons, celebration of light out of the darkness of winter. It's all good and I'll drink a glass of cheer with anyone - muslim - christian - jew - who cares? I don't.
I do wish to go on record though to say that there is nothing more dangerous in this world than a fanatic believer - no matter which faith it is - it's wrong, period!
Shalom veahava, from the very depth of my heart - S.
I think this statement is a generalization that I do not believe to be true . . .
"I made an off hand remark that most Jews know more about Christianity, than Christians know about Judaism. ~ Chana
I do agree with you here . . .
"I actually think it is good to learn about other people's backgrounds and religions. It expands your horizons and may give you greater insight into your path. I don't think there is only one path that leads us to G-D." ~ Chana
This is FEATURED in PROPHETIC PULSE ~ A Paradigm Shift
Yes ) and I love the reading Torah, and Neviim and so on but not the Talmud I have not. I have wonderful Jew friends.
Americans usually name the country of their family's origin, such as Italian, German, etc., My religion is Catholic, but it's not my nationality.
I'll find you some sources on Zoroastrianism.
Interesting point about ghettos. There was a documentary on UK television last year about an Orthodox community in London that obtained permission from Greater London to put a red wire around the area of Noth London where they live as it permits them to do stuff on the sabbath. The aread marked by the wire has a special name but I can't remember it.
At the end of the programme a secular Rabbi commented : "It sums up the Jewish religion, 5000 years ago Moses gave us Gods law and ever since we've been trying to find loopholes."
I educated myself out of my religion (and any other) and am now an agnostic.
I respect any person who has religious convictions as long as they do not try to convert me!
I have a copy of the Tanakh; Christians call Old Testament)
and the B’rit Hadashah (gospels and letters that comprise New Testament which were written by Jews and sent to gatherings of Jews and gentiles believing in Jesus.)
“For out of Tziyon will go forth Torah,
the Word of Adonai from Yerushalayim.”
—Yesha‘yahu (Isaiah) 2:3 Tanakh
I lived in a Jewish neighborhood in Prairie Village Kns. I actually knew the Tanakh better than the women there. But I had no idea about the practise of current Judaism and their Temple culture. I'm still woefully short of understanding current religious culture.
I, and I think most Bible studying Christians, only know how it was practised in times previous to the days of Jesus.
I've learned more since being on Gather and looking things up in response to articles or comments by Gather Jews than I've learned in my life. It's been helpful.
Because of the dominance of western civilisation and its geographical nation states we lost sight of the true meaning of nation. In the original sense a nation was a tribe or super-tribe with a distinct culture and usually its own religion or belief system.
Think of the Native American societies. The Apache, Sioux and Navajo were tribes, also called nations while, taking the Apache as an example because I have information on them available, the Kiowa, Coyotero and Chiricahua were sub - tribes or clans.
Similarly the Nation of Israel was all the tribes (son's) of a real or mythical patriarch, Israel. These tribes included the tribes or clans of Levi, Judah and Benjamin among others. The modern Israeli state was created by the USA, Britain and France after word war two and is a quite different entity.
In between the wars the region was administered by Britain (Palestine) and France (Lebanon) under mandate from the League of Nations because the Turkish Empire which had ruled the area for over 1000 years, partly as the Christian Byzantine Empire, later as the Muslim Ottoman Empire had collapsed in 1918.
One of the reasons Africa has been so troubled is the colonial powers withdrew having created artificial, European style nation states based on geographical boundaries without respect for tribal differences. Thus the Tutsi and the Watusi who have never been able to live side by side were forced to share a nation.
An interesting point is how the way of addressing monarchs changed. Before the Catholic Church became the dominant political force kings were tribal. Vercingetorix, - apart from being the first cousin of Asterix in the comic strip - was the very real King of the Gauls, not the King of Gaul, the area of southern and western France designated Gaul by the Romans but King of all the Gauls ewherever they were.
Similarly Robert the Bruce, when he wasn't palling out with Mel Gibson in Braveheart, was king of the Scots, not King of Scotland. Genseric was King of the Vandals who during his life led his nation on a long migration that took them from central Europe, parts of modern Germany, Hungary, and the Czech Republic, through Austria, France, Spain and into North Africa. but he was always King of the Vandals.
BTW the Vandals did not live up to the modern meaning of their name. They were quite civilised actually.
One of the problems the Jews have always had is they clung to this ancient notion of nationality, of otherness. Wherever they were they considered themselves a separate nation. No political leader was going to be happy with that and the more paranoid ones had no problem seeing it as a challenge to their authority. But I will not go far along that road or it will turn into a book. Modern secular jews have no problem being American or British AND Jewish but some of the more conservative sects still largely secregate themselves socially from the national community they live among.
So you see in the ancient world a nation was something quite different to its modern meaning. Hope that is clear enough as it is all from memory except the bit about the Apache.
best,
Ian
My father grew up in a Jewish / Catholic home, Dad Catholic, Mom Jewish, and he talks of a very rich cultural childhood. Unfortunately, he neglected to share much of the Jewish end with us, and my grandmother probably over time stopped practicing her faith. When she died, her daughter took part of her ashes to the Ganges river to spread them there (my aunt became a Hare Krshna).
Anyway, I suppose I am rambling here, but the gist of all this is, I know we must all learn from each other. That every one hears a call to goodness, to greatness, that is real and not psychotic or irrational, and that when we answer that call, we bring peace and love to our lives and to the world.
Thanks Chana, for posting this, now go to bed and feel better!
I was born in a non-religious house, christened in an Anglican church and sent to a Baptist church. The conflicts in the various beliefs was amazing to me. Since one truth cannot contradict another, I went in search of the true path and found what I think it is.
I just don't know what our eternal father will do about my dad either hew as the best anyone could find, but he was just not religious. (He'll be resurrected, I just can't imagine that someone that great would not be given a chance at paradise)
Thank you for posting this to the Gimme 10!!! Group