My normal level of skepticism is reaching paranoid proportions. Who can one trust, truly trust?
Can you trust the regulatory agencies charged with protecting you from thieves like Bernard Madoff who got away with his Ponzi scam for decades?
Can you trust the idiots in Congress who allowed Fannie and Freddie to get away with buying mortgages that were clearly credit unworthy, while the executives of these institutions enriched themselves with giant-sized compensation?
Can you trust the incompetent government intelligence services who failed to detect the truth about Saddam HusseinÂ’s weapons of mass destruction programs?
Can you trust the bankers and brokers who sliced up credit unworthy mortgages, packaged them with allegedly more secure mortgages and sold them off to other banks and investors who are equally guilty of stupidity?
Can you trust the pharmaceutical companies who pay off doctors to plug their wares, doctors who donÂ’t reveal their ties to these companies? Worse, can you trust them to advertise their products on television with the absurd caveat to consult their doctors on the basis of their advertising claims? ShouldnÂ’t it be the other way around?
Can you trust the endless barrage of propaganda coming from governments that manipulate photos and create vast fictional accounts to promote their point of view?
Can you trust the media to tell you the truth about anything?
Can you trust most of the advertising with which you are bombarded on a daily basis, especially those who use celebrities as spokespersons who are merely paid to lie about the wonders of the products they are endorsing?
Can you trust the endless stream of misstatements and a vast array of misguided opinions proliferating on the Internet, where anyone who can speak or type can offer anything as if it were the truth? (I yield to the judgment of the readers of this blog. Nevertheless, I cling to the belief that my essays are more questioning and cautionary rather than bombastic or ideological.)
Unfortunately, buried in this clutter of outright lies, half-truths, obfuscations, exaggerations, canards and deceptions are some genuine bedrock truths that get short shrift in the avalanche of what passes for information. How is one to separate the wheat from the chaff?
Remember the days when most of us gave our unqualified trust to priests, politicians, stockbrokers, scoutmasters, teachers, doctors, and a whole array of authority figures? Who has not been shaken by recent revelations and discoveries of malfeasance, manipulation and downright cruelty and deception by those who once basked in our confidence?
This doesnÂ’t mean that there arenÂ’t people out there: our parents, grandparents, siblings and others in our extended families and social circles who have our interests at heart and whose trust and love we treasure. Nevertheless, even in these relationships, trust often goes awry and there is enough evidence of horror and betrayal to question oneÂ’s absolute devotion to the idea of the loyalty of friends and family. IÂ’ll drop anchor on this one. It is just too scary and dangerous to surrender to total cynicism. Once you lose your optimism even Little Orphan Annie wonÂ’t be singing about the sun coming out tomorrow.
Short of dispensing truth serum to the chattering masses or planting a lie detector chip in everyone now living, I offer my own protective prescription.
Believe nothing at face value. Do as much due diligence as possible. Attempt verification. Ask questions. Get second opinions, third and fourth if you are not completely satisfied. These activities are time consuming and perhaps wasteful, but think of yourself as being a perpetual target who must protect yourself from harm and the deliberate rifling of your money and trust.
Beware of the proverbial “man on the white horse” who has the solution to all the ills of mankind. He or she doesn’t exist. Everyone is fallible.
Recognize that human nature has its dark side. Think of yourself as a human junk filter, not unlike the junk recognizer in your computer program. It may not catch all the junk, but at least it tries.
Of course, you are still subject to be fleeced and manipulated. I know IÂ’m being preachy and have painted this essay with a very broad brush. Sometimes I feel that IÂ’m baying at the moon, merely making sounds of anguish into the night sky.
So who can we trust?
I call your attention to the motto on our money, “In God We Trust.” Substitute whatever non-human supernatural force that suits your faith or fancy and keep your eyes open and your fingers crossed.
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Warren Adler
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January 12, 2009 09:48 PM UTC
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Comments: 48
I have been the constant skeptic, even in things told me by family and friends, I do not trust anything but my own councel, and even then I can question.
I take a bit of what I believe from this one and that one and make my own reality!
Well written, Warren.
You can visit www.nopom.info (no ads there) to read all about it or you can read Invisible Hand here on Gather (along with the comments of others).
Don't trust me. Judge for yourself. If what I suggest isn't a major improvement then you will have at least read an interesting science fiction novel with a really unique idea you won't find anywhere else. But if it is what I say it is, perhaps you should get your own horse?
Family will screw you over and so will friends.
(Money is so often behind betrayals of all kind.)
Trust your dog, but only if you treat him well.
Hibiscus
It really helps to find people of like mind. Common interests, etc...to work with.
And I do recommend reading Larry's book. He really does have a good idea that would solve many problems. Besides, it's a great story.
You can still trust others without believing they will fail you.
To say that you must go out there with a mindset of mistrust is not truly a good thing.
You have to believe in something, sometime. Or else, there is no hope in the world. Nothing to look forward to..
And, that would be very sad indeed.
In the end, you have to trust what your heart tells you. If something seems too good to be true, then, it usually is.
But, somethings even good things, can be true. You must trust yourself to differentiate between the two.
So, I guess, we do that because we think we can trust that most people are stupid! ;-)
I am right in there with you Warren. However, we must cling to ourselves. That is what is left to work with. If we do it individually first, and "hopefully" run into one another, maybe we have a shot at saving ourselves as we were. Thanks for the article, it is a truthful look at what is out there with us everyday..and everywhere.. Ellen B
I recently found out that someone I have always respected and trusted did something dishonest. Although it wasn't a terrible thing, this knowledge has caused me to wonder what else this person has done...and to wonder if he was responsible for certain occurences for which I've never had an explanation.
Although I am a realist, I actually wish I had not heard about his deed.
I do trust the press...just not all of it.
Why was Madoff allowed to get away with this? It began with Reagan and deregulation and the american public swallowing the bigotry of "the welfare queens" and not seeing the "welfare kings" of corporate america that Ronnie was letting in the back door to rob the bank. And lets not forget to give a big thankyou to Phil Gramm on his lapdog status with the finance industry.
The incompetent intelligence forces?????? NO--it was what Chimpy Mcflightsuit wanted so he lied us into a war...and allowed 9/11 to happen by not acting on what the intelligence agencies were telling him! Oh...wait a minute...he didn't read the reports. Just like his america---cuz way too many people are too lazy to find out what's going on, they just listen to Fox Noise and parrot the lies.
I learned to question authority very early on. Most people I know don't--cuz...its not polite, it makes them uncomfortable, etc. America is not a place where people question, its become a place that many just go along...and then blame only politicians for failures. A lot easier than actually paying attention instead of watching the newest reality show.
You hit the nail on the head.
I have been saying this to friends and family for so long - they now just look at me and roll their eyes.
I am very cynical. Always question everything and every motive - and my gut instincts usually come out right.
There's a Hebrew saying: "A pessimist is an optimist with experience." I guess I'm very experienced.
On a different note: your motto "In God We Trust" on your currency-How long before they have to drop : 'GOD' from it? I ask this because it seems these days governments are bowing to those of other affiliations incase we insult them. Don't get me wrong, I am not by any means religious or care what others are. I just feel it is a good question.
;-)
I just wanted to stop by since I am finally going through what is now listed as under 4,300 pieces of gather new mail that is sitting in my inbox on here.
With that mentioned I just came across either a mailing from you yourself, or someone else brought this piece to my attention. You or they felt that your creation should be shared with the gather community, which I am very glad that it was passed on to me to view. So I wanted to say Thank you for taking the time out of your busy day to publish it here on gather for us to all view. :o)
As well before I leave you I wanted to wish you a Happy New Year... in 2009 :o)
Trust to God first. Family/friends next and after that it gets shaky though despite its problems the Church is still one I have faith in. Various private sector entities I trust from personal experience. The only government agency I have much faith in is DOD simply because in the end, it actually works from my personal, family and friends experiences. Not to say that overall trust is high but compared to any other government agencies, it rates high.
Thanks to the Bush/Cheney Bozo Corps the monkeys have been running the zoo for the past eight years. Hopefully that situation will be remediated in the near future.