Dear Gather Friends,
As some of you may have noticed I have been rather scarce on Gather lately. If I have been here at all, it has been very brief. I'd like to explain some of it, but the reason for this post is also a request for help.
We have only lived in Idaho since May of 2006. We relocated here to help my mother after my younger brother passed away. My other siblings all lived here already, but mymother has pretty much burned her bridges where they are concerned, and my husband and I are the only ones left willing to live next door to her to help take care of herproperties, which are in very rough condition. My husband gave up a very good paying job to do this, and financially it has been a major strain on us since we moved here.
My husband worked for several companies before finding the one he most recently worked for. All of them had either shut down or been shut down by the county or state. Well at the beginning of December the company he works for, laid off their entire crew. (They laid off all their men just before Christmas, but they had built a 5000 sq. ft. addition on their 5000 sq ft house, purchased a half million dollar motor home in Sept., and made several other expensive purchases right up to the point that they cried poverty and laidthe men off).
When my husband filed his unemployment, the person handling his account had neglected to do a few things(we still haven't been able to understand what the supervisor was saying), and we have not received a single check from unemployment yet. We have been without an income since the last week of November.
We were already struggling because of the expense of repairing our water system, and a few other major unexpected home and auto repairs. Needless to say, we were not expecting, nor did we have much of a Christmas this year. The only one we did for was our daughter, and that was extremely limited. Fortunately for us she is old enough to understand, and was even sweet enough to tell us that we could skip it for this year.
On the Monday before Christmas we got a call from my Father-in-law, notifying us that my husbands brother had passed away that morning. He was only 49, and though his health had been bad, this was totally unexepected. We explained to dad that financially we could not get to Kentucky for this, but he said there would be no services, he was just going to be cremated on Christmas Eve, so we would not have to feel like we let the family down. It was hard on all of us, and our daughter took it very hard because this uncle had lived with us off and on since she was born. Uncle "Wally" loved her and spent lots of time with her over the years. This was just another incident among many just in December that have about brought me to my knees. I won't bore you with details of the others, and I definately wouldn't consider that my problems are any worse than those faced by some of my Gather friends.
I am writing this to request any and all ideas for legitimately making money online, or other ideas for creating some desperately needed income. Because my business is creating and selling jewelry and photo items, my business has dropped of significantly. Obviously this economy has not left many with money for non-necessities. The job market here is almost non-existant, we have been unable to find jobs.
I am desperate now, my husbands layoff, then inability to get the unemployment started in a more timely manner, has put us into a financial position we may not recover from and because of all this, if I do not come up with at least $2000 by Feb. 1st, my husband, daughter and I will lose everything we own.
Our belongings are all still in storage units in MA. We did not take it with us immediately when we left, as we were unsure of what we would have for space. At that point I had not made the decision as to whether I would move into my mothers other house, but if we did (which we did do) we would be going from a very large
11 room home on 10 acres, into a very small 2 bedroom with just a yard. Once we made the decision to stay in her other house to be close to her, we intended to make a trip back and get our things. Well because of fuel prices, and the costof either renting a truck on our own or hiring a moving company, we were not able to do this.
We have gotten behind on the payments to the storage company, because of all the financial hits we have taken for the past several months, and if I cannot come up with the money, our things will be sold. I have family heirlooms, and many irriplacable items stored in these units. My husband owned a wrecking yard and garage, and all his tools are in there (which explains why he hasn't started up his own business here). Even my daughter has heirloom items that cannot ever be replaced.
If any of you have any ideas as to websites where I may promote my jewelry, photography, and craft items, as well as other ideas, I would be ever so grateful.
If I lose all of this now, it will be the final straw for me. I have lost everything on 2 other occasions in my life (through no fault of our own) and I am in no frame of mind
to deal with losing everything we own this time. It is incomprehensible to me to lose over $60,000 worth of belongings for a bill of just over $2000. We have a friend who will go in and remove our things from the units, as soon as they are paid current, and they will be stored in a large building they own, until weather permits us to make the
trip to pick up the things.
Please help in any way you can.
Thank you all for reading this, I have no place left to turn. Several family members are struggling almost as much as we are, including my mother, so we cannot turn to them now.


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Do you have anything in the units that your friend could buy, for paying the unit current?
As for the Unemployment, he will get it, backdated to two weeks after he filed, and that may be enough to keep your stuff.
I'm interested in the online work myself, as I lost my job last week also.
Good Luck!
You choose the hours you work from hours available. They pay weekly. How much you makes depends on how much you work, but it can be quite profitible. You can check it out here:
http://www.liveops.com/become-agent/
You can go to Gazelle, if you have any old electronics you want to sell. You just input what you have and they will get you a quote in seconds. They even pay for your postage.
You can work online with ChaCha or Weegy. If you have a landline phone, as well as internet, you can work with Arise or LiveOps.
Lastly, if you haven't signed up for an email points program, I would sign up for MyPoints. I have been with them for a few years now, and if you have a good memory, or are willing to write stuff down, you can rack up points by doing a lot of their free trial memberships and then canceling before the end of the trial membership. You will still get your points, and no one loses out. I would use a free email service, like Gmail, Yahoo, or Hotmail, though, because you will be generating a lot of spam after you sign up for offers. If you sign up for webmail, if doesn't get downloaded to your computer and it can go to your spam folder. You control what goes into your inbox.
There is another paid email one, but it takes awhile to get paid - it's called Inbox Dollars. Same idea as MyPoints, but you get paid cash instead.
So, there you have it, some of my best ideas. God Bless, and let me know if you need help with anything.
What types of work can you and/or your husband do? Put an ad on craigslist for your services. Driving? Personal shopper/personal assistant? Baby sitting? Handyman type work?
1) If his former employers (the ones that claimed poverty and laid him off) claim he quit, he isn't eligible. SO VERIFY or better yet go IN PERSON to verify WHY no check yet. It may be due to something they (former employers) have reported. You can usually clear things like that up.
2) E-Bay for selling things online. Once you have sold a few items request (it's free) a Paypal Debit Card. Then you NEVER have to wait for pymt and can use it ANYWHERE Visa or Mastercard are accepted. Your earnings are always IMMEDIATELY on it and available.
3) Are there any corner spots, farmers markets or Flea Markets in the area? Any of those could be utilized on the weekends.
4) Most places have at least ONE newspaper where you can place an article for FREE. You and hubby sit down and work on a cute eye catching article about "Hubby for Hire". Have a set of pricing ready, and list can help with Yard Work, Taking down Christmas Decorations, Moving Etc.
It won't be all you need, but may be enough to help a bit.
Good Luck!
In the meantime, deal with the unemployment office and keep at it until your husband can start collecting his money.
You might see if you can babysit also to make some money from home.
http://www.bonanzle.com/
You can also make some extra income doing Amazon Mechanical Turk
http://www.womenforhire.com/advice/good_morning_america/great_american_job_fair
go to this site, scroll down to the bottom where it says Atlanta---you will see Freelance Marketplace and a bunch of links. Try some of these...they are legit, and all are work at home. Hope this helps.
This is another place to check out. Clark Howard is a financial expert and he has looked into some work at home stuff and made sure they were on the level.
I can empathize with your situation as I've been there before! I sincerely hopt that you find what you need and retain your possessions.
An informative and interesting thread.
I just wanted to say I am finally going through what is now under 7,100 pieces of gather new mail that is in my inbox on here. So with that in mind I have finally come to a piece of mail that was addressed to me in regards this article submission you have created to share with the gather community. Thank you for taking the time and sharing your piece with us here at gather. :o)
And as well Merry Christmas... and Happy Holidays... as well as I hope you have a Happy New Year... in 2009 :o)
I think Donna F's advice is sensible. Check with family members. Someone may be waiting to be asked for help.
I do want to clarify something though:
My mother was the first one I turned to, because we did give up so much to come here for her, but she has gotten into a financial situation that none of us had been aware of, and now owes even more than her properties are worth. She even has a second mortgage none of us knew about. As for my siblings, one is going through a divorce, one just filed bankruptcy, and the other is currently unemployed (we helped him out too, until the money ran out.)
I have tried all other avenues, before I took this step.
We can't even sell any of our own belongings because they are all in storage. What we do have here is not even worth trying to sell.
We went to the unemployment office today and found out that the problem has to do with the employer, but not that they have claimed he was fired. It seems that so far none of the 38 men have received a check, and no one is telling us when we will get one, or the reason for the problem.
a place for people to sell their crafts ... I love this site.
Maybe someone there can help!
glitter-graphics.com
how does swagbucks work exactly?
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Invite friends or family to join under you and when your friend wins a Swag Buck so will you! Win what your friends win, up to 100 Swag Bucks for each friend you invite.
There is no restriction on the number of family members that can join, but you might have to clear cookies or use different computers to maximize the possibilities of winning swagbucks. I have read where some people do a few searches in the morning, then afternoon and again in the evening to win multiple times per day. I win multiple times in one day, if I log in say morning and evening.
There are other "sister" sites that offer some of the same rewards as well as specific gifts for that site (like the soap site has posters and key chains for some soap operas). I started using Soaptown but found that some rewards cost more (like the Amazon GCs costs 60 swagbucks using Soaptown). I believe that swagbucks won using Swagbucks can be used at the sister sites, but not vice versa. Prizes available also include Target GCs (only for Target.com), gas GCs, Sears, Gap, Starbucks and tons more.
I would love it if you would sign up under me. I am committed to have a cash free christmas this year and with amazon gift certificates, that should really help.
http://swagbucks.com/?cmd=sb-register&rb=259624 (referral link)
http://swagbucks.com (non-referral link)
I hope this helps. I earned a $5 Amazon in 7 days.
We are just barely hanging on and living from day to day, on credit cards, of all the UnGodly things to have to do.
I'd definitely check out some of those sites mentioned above. Maybe, I'll do the same myself. I hate selling anything on ebay, as it's costing more all the time.
Cafepress.come can put photos or your pictures on lots of items and you set the price. But, even though the clothing and other items are of good quality, it makes for expensive items. Cafepress, is the one making the bucks, mainly.
I am so sad for you and all the others above, who are barely scraping by. And Col. .. your remark was entirely uncalled for, ya arrogant a-hole. Perhaps one day YOU will find yourself destitute or in dire need of help. ( OH I DO HOPE SO!! ) Don't come here asking for help.
Ann, I will be praying for you and your husband. I have many good people on my prayer list and I am dreadfully sorry that I can't be of more help, than just being a friend.
God Bless you, my friend.
You might try westathome.com. They're like the previously mentioned liveops. I'm hitting all your material now in hopes of sending some points your way.
Also, I can't promise they'll sell because the economy bites everywhere, but I manage a small flower and gift shop here in my town if you'd like to send down a few pieces of your jewelery to put in on consignment. If you'd like to give it a try, please just send me a message and I'll give you the address and we'll work out the details.
I'm so sorry you're having such a rough time. I wish I could do more, as I've walked a few gazillion miles in your shoes. Big hugs and many blessings.
I've been going through the rest of your photos too, sending 10's and commenting so I hope it helps you some. Maybe when people see my comments scroll through their feeds they'll want to see what I was talking about and come take a look too. That's what I love about the feeds on Gather!
I wish you all the luck in the world... it's so hard to be stressed out -- I know how that feels. I have been looking for legitimate ways to earn money as well and have posted some of my own articles asking people for advice so you might find some tips on my pages too... who knows.
I'm going to read through everyone's comments here now to see if anything can help me out. Thanks again and good luck!
I'd check out the site Modest Needs. Here's some of what it says on their site: Founded in 2002, Modest Needs is an award-winning public charity with a simple but critical mission: we work to stop the cycle of poverty BEFORE it starts for the low-income workers whom conventional philanthropy has forgotten.
We do this by empowering compassionate members of the general public to safely and securely help hard-working, low-income households to afford the kinds of short-term emergency expenses that we've all encountered before: the unexpected car repair, the unanticipated visit to the doctor, or the unusually large heating bill, for example.
Stuff comes and stuff goes. Money is only a tool.
Instead of steak eat hamburger, and who needs two cars anyhow.
Do not fall for fast talkers and there scams, and if it sounds to good to be true, it usually is a lie. Learn to be happy with little then when something falls in your lap who cares if it is gone.... You can not take it with you when you die.
When one is desperate as you appear to be this is when the wolves will circle, then they may attack.....
I must agree with Donna though. Selling some of that property, and forcing your siblings to do their share.
Good luck.
Some of the sites listed are good ideas - but will not raise the kind of money you need.
I understand the storage company won't let you get your stuff out until you're paid up - but if and when you can do that - I would suggest that maybe some of those heirlooms, which you obviously don't have room for anyway, could be sold at auction. Not the best of times to try to sell, but something to think about for future - I am sure you have friends in your old area who could help.
My boyfriend got laid off / quit/ fired, at the end of September - unemployment kept 'losing' his paperwork (he did it all online), and he didn't get his first check til late November. And then only in bits and pieces.
We are trying to get by in the meantime with my $700 pension check. Barely covers mortgage and utilities.
You may be able to get some help through assistance (even if only food stamps), but may clear up some other expense, so you could then use that cash to redeem your things. I would definitely think the storage guy would accept what you can give him and maybe work something out.... unless he is looking at the big picture and what your things are worth - then I guess you're just out of luck.
Sorry, pretty much in the same boat here.
i will view what i can to help you.
One online money making resource I did not see mentioned was associatedcontent.com - you write 400 or more word poems, product reviews, stories, news articles, or how to type articles and they offer you cash via paypal and pay out about once a week. They only pay a few dollars per article but if you and your husband (or even your daughter if you feel that she could) can write a lot in the next few weeks, you can earn cash quickly. It should be in your name and not your husbands not to mess up his unemployment checks once they get straightened out.
I will visit your content tonight and this week to attempt to gain you some points and I will email if I think of anything else. If you have any questions about associatedcontent please email or ping me. Best wishes to you and your family Anne.
P.S. I wish I could write you a check too! :0)
God Bless
This economy really sucks. I've been wanting to move my jewelry making from "hobby" to "business", but I think that's a few years off. And I used to have my mom living with me. So I really do understand where you're coming from. Hang in there.
I'll go check out your stuff
If you have any technical skills, even data entry, or if you're willing to write, you could try oDesk.com. They're legit. You pick your jobs and they pay well and on time.
I wish you the best! Bless you and your family.
Oh, check in to TwitterMoms.com as well. I'm not sure, but I think they are into promoting their interests as well.
Looks legit to me though probably not a fast money maker and I have not been paid by them.
Read several positive reviews and one negative