There's a place in Maine that I consider my own...it's a small little point that juts out into the sea...during low tide, if your brave you can wander out to Goose and Gander Island and if you are terribly brave you can go as far as the Lighthouse on Green. But you have to be wary of the tides...because you only have a short time before the tide comes rushing in with a force that can sweep you away.

The Inn at Flye Point....one can see Goose, Gander and Green Islands. During low tide you can walk out to them. (This is not my picture. I have permission from the owner of the Inn to publish it.)
Flye Point is in the town of Brooklin on the Blue Hill Peninsula. It has been the home of many famous writers...E.B. White and his wife Kathryn lived here in a two story house by the sea. Robert McCloskey, who wrote many of the books I read my children, resided down the road. Unlike the Bar Harbor Peninsula, Blue Hills is laid back, easy going, and for the most part free from tourists. It's a place where you can hang out with a good book on a huge boulder by the sea...or wander through the gardens and fields of The Lookout, an old country inn that graces the Point like an old maternal aunt. At low tide you can gather a bucket full of mussels for dinner that night...and at night you can toast marshmallows on a fire by the sea.

I took this picture two years ago in June from the hill behind the Inn.
Papa and I discovered Flye eighteen years ago. A colleague at Papa's work told him about a place in Maine that their family had been going to for years. At the time, it consisted of the Inn and several beach cottages. That first year, sight unseen, we rented the "Lean-to", a small two bedroom cottage. As we drove on to the Point, Aaron, our second son, leaped out of the car with his cousin Neah and ran willy-nilly past the Inn, through the gardens and grass to the rocky shore. Although we did not know it at the time, it was low tide, and Aaron and Neah made it all the way out to Goose Island. Coming back to the cabin, they were so excited...it was a whole new world to them. As for Zach...he was just a little tike and he loved walking the rocky shore and making his collections of feathers and shells. During our stay that first year we read Zach McCloskey's book, Blueberries for Sal and then we went blueberry picking on the real Blueberry Hill. Zach was on constant lookout for bears. That week we also read Charlotte's Web and went to the Blue Hill Country Fair where Charlotte had made Wilbur famous. Meanwhile the adults were reading The Colony by Anne Rivers Siddons, a novel about a wealthy colony down the road from Flye, inhabited by Boston Brahmins. It was a glorious week in the sun...with little rain or fog and we were hooked...and decided a week in the summer at Flye was going to be an annual thing.



That first summer we also met Buff and Herb Brigham, an older couple from Denver, Co. and Los Cruces, New Mexico. They inhabited their own cottage, The Flying Jib, up the hill from the Inn. Buff had inherited the summer house from her aunt Helen who had bought the place in 1920. We chanced to meet when their big St. Bernard came bounding through the screen door of our cottage one morning when he smelled bacon frying on the stove. Within minutes, his mistress knocked and casually said, "Oh, I'm lookin' for a St. Bernard dog...hey you people should tell Butch to fix this door, the screen is all torn. This wouldn't happen under Lottie Flye...but Butch, he's another story...letting the place run down!" This was our introduction to Buff, an amazing wonderful lady...a bit eccentric...sometimes trying...but always meaning well. At home in Denver, Buff wrote book reviews for the newspaper as well as taught English and French at a college. Her husband Herb was retired chemist who had worked all over the world with Gates Rubber Company. Both had contracted polio early in their marriage...and although they had many years "polio-free", the effects of the polio were coming back. Buff favored her left side but it didn't get in the way of her hiking and visiting around Flye; whereas, the polio had really affected Herb's hip and he did little walking except with a cane. During the day, Herb would be on the porch of the "Jib" reading his newspapers and books...Buff, gadfly that she was, would be visiting all over the Point and bringing little tidbits of gossip back home to Herb. After the screen door incident, Buff would come by each day and we would meander through the gardens and down to the beach as she told me the history of the Flye Family. We would stop and visit with other long time summer families who came from all over the country...and I would learn their stories. In the evening, Papa and I would be invited to the Jib for wine and conversation. Herb loved the fact that we were "hippies" and had lived with the Inuits of Alaska. Over the next five years, as our family returned to Flye Point, a strong friendship developed between the two families but that is a story in itself and can wait for another day.

Those first few years we rented cottages from the Lookout...although ramshackled on the outside, they were spotlessly clean inside. Wild lupines in purples, pinks and white grew everywhere. When you arrived at your cozy cabin on a Saturday noon, wild flowers in vases on antique oak tables greeted you. If it was a cold, foggy day, a fire would be burning in the fireplace. You really felt as though you were coming home. Some years, when we were small in number, we rented the "Lean-to" or "the Dorit" and other years we rented the "Boulders", a four bedroom cabin overlooking the rocks. During the summer of '93, the Boulders was bursting with our family: Grammy, my Mom, had one bedroom, Will and Michi, his Japanese girlfriend, had another, Aaron and Sara Jean in the third, Papa and I in the fourth bedroom and Zach and his cousin in the living room in sleeping bags. But because Flye is so open, we didn't get under each other's skins...the older guys would go off to Bar Harbor or out to the islands or into Blue Hills for dinner. THe two little guys were having their own adventures...and Gram was happy going to old cemeteries and reading headstones. She also liked going into Stonington and Castine and spending quality time in old bookstores. Being a newspaper woman herself, she fell in love with E.B. White. Papa and I loved to go over to Cape Rosier to the stone home of Scott and Helen Nearing. Scott and Helen are the great grandparents of the back to the earth movement. As peace activists and practical conservationists, their book, Living the Good Life, is a Bible to many in my generation. We also did a bit of kayaking around Naskeag and many days Papa would wander over to the Wooden Boat School.

Fran painting on the porch.
After we had been going to Flye for a number of years, Buff and Herb decided we were "keepers" and had us stay at the "Flying Jib" with them. The Jib is an incredible huge place. On the main floor is the living room, dining room, new kitchen and master suite, and all weather porch; on the second floor are three bedrooms and a huge old fashion bathroom with a claw-foot tub. The walk-in basement has two huge rooms with couches. Ten years ago, Buff and Herb put in the first swimming pool at the Point. Although many people at the Point thought them crazy at the time, they have all come around and enjoyed the warmth of the pool on a foggy, cool day when swimming off the Big Rock would be brutal to your wellbeing!

The Flying Jib (Buff and Herb's cottage).
Six years ago Christmas, Herb died of a massive heart attack and we wondered whether Buff would come East. But that May, we received a phone call asking us to pick her up at Logan Airport and drive her the six hours to the Jib. She was a bit dismayed when I told her I could drive her but that I had to come back to Massachusetts to finish school and the earliest I could get up to stay would be the middle of June. Having taught college courses all those years, she couldn't conceive how schools could go into June!
When we arrived that week-end in May, Flye Point was abuzz with controversy. Butch, the owner of the Inn had a brilliant idea of hosting an annual folk concert on the Point. Some people thought it would be good for the area...others were downright hostile. "A folk concert...you'll be inviting every druggy in the United States here. Our summer places won't be secure...they'll litter the place up...we don't want hippies here!" While we were with a group of diehards, Buff asked me what I thought of the idea? She always liked controversy! I laughed and said, "Look it's a folk concert. Butch has Judy Collins, Odetta, Pete Seeger's grandkid, and Arlo Guthrie coming. Buff, the people who will come to see them are old hippies...hippies like Papa and I...people in their late fifties...do you really think we are still smoking dope and having sex wherever.
It will be a great time...and the people who will come, will have a respect for Flye."
The First Annual Flye Point Music and Arts Festival took place on Saturday, June 26, 2003 on the grounds of The Lookout. It was a huge success...the sun was shining, the music was sweet and the food abundant and the following day, Flye was back to normal. Since then, every year at the end of June, Flye once again blooms with music, laughter, great food and art. As yet, we don't know the date for the 2009 Festival but come June 20th, we will be in residence at "The Flying Jib". Yesterday I called Lonny, Buff and Herb's son to see if they are still renting the Jib when the family isn't using it, and he said we could have it for a week anytime in the latter part of June or July for FREE. Yes, FREE. He said we were good folks and helped his Mom and Dad all those years and he was pleased to offer it to us. And what do you know, the Jib is connected to the Internet....it has DSL....yahoo....I'm in business. What a wonderful Christmas present. I can't wait to show Julia and Sage "my little piece of heaven".

So come the end of school in June, you know where I will be....sitting in this steamer chair reading or just day dreaming or maybe wandering down to the beach with two little girls discovering the wonders of a Maine morning.


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Someday, I will have to get out your way come summer.
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Strange how you find a place that just captures your heart. Our family has great memories of Flye and this summer we can create new memories. Although Herb is no longer "sitting on the porch" making us all smile with his dry humor, Buff is still alive and living in a nursing home. She suffered a stroke in 2003 shortly after we left Flye. Lonny reported in his email yesterday that the doctors say she's doing extremely well. That was good news.
Maine has some incredible beautiful spots. The Blue Hill Peninsula is one down from Bar Harbour. In less then an hour you can be at Arcadia National Park climbing Cadillac Mountain. Rockland is 45 minutes south of Flye.
Just came in from the post office and grocery store. It's nasty out there...freezin' rain coming down right now. But I'm glad I went early and beat the crowd.
I lived in Hull's Cove one summer (worked in Bar Harbor), so I can just picture this.
MERRY CHRISTMAS!
Much love to you. I'll meet you in Maine and we'll go out to this lovely place of yours...
Yes, I know of your love affair with Maine...you hold it close to your heart as I do. Yesterday afternoon when I told Zach of Lonny's generous offer, he was so excited. One summer, when Zach was probably about 14, he wanted in the worst way to go out to Goose Island and sleep there overnight....although I wasn't too hot about the idea...off we went during the next low tide. We had a grand time on the island and went to sleep with the stars.
Then you can understand how excited we are about going to the Jib in June. Maine is one of those places that just tugs at your heartstrings.
Thank you very much for stopping by today....yes, you would know the "real Maine".
I remember you telling me that story. You know I never have been out to Mohegan...maybe this summer. Been to the art museum in Rockland for a Jamie Wyeth show and been down to Cushing to see Christina's World...but never out to Mohegan.
Took a break from wrapping presents to check Gather. Isn't fabulous, the Jib has DSL...just think the stories I can post.
Since yesterday all I can think about is Maine in June. I am just so excited. What a Christmas gift Lonny has given us. He certainly takes after his Dad...Herb was probably the most generous soul I have known.
You would love Flye Point...it's just the most incredible place. I'm glad you are going to be with family over the holiday...share memories...drink wine....create new memories.
I enjoyed quietly exploring this as I sit here this Christmas Day morning ... it is already Christmas Day here in West Oz, despite the incorrect date-time stamp that Gather will put on this comment.
Thank you for this Christmas gift, Bob.
MERRY CHRISTMAS to you, Papa and family.
When we go to Flye Point it's like traveling back in time....putting your feet up and letting the day take care of itself....the way vacations should be.
You would absolutely love Flye! I just know you would. And guess what...over on Cape Rosier there's a llama farm we could visit.
God bless you and yours always...
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I can't wait to share it with the girls. I can just see us at low tide collecting mussels for dinner. The girls will absolutely think that's wonderful. Both girls are great eaters....fruits, veggies, fish, etc. I can't believe how willing they are to "eat everything on their plate".
I do remember you writing before about the music festival and was happy to read a bit more about this place how special it is to you.
Yes, it would be exciting to once again share it with small children, it seems. So many things are best shared with a child. I find they are often not nearly as exciting without being able to witness the wonder of it all in a child's eyes.
Thanks for sharing this, Bob.
So many memories are wrapped up in Flye...from the moment we laid eyes on this place, we knew it was one of those places you keep close to your heart.
I just love you, girl. Your one beautiful woman.
blueberries..
the ocean,the cozy quaint found mixed throughout the wilderness..it all lives side by side or melded together.
lush wilderness and weather worn grey clap boards...so perfect..!
Flye doesn't change...or it doesn't change that much. Although Butch Smith, the owner of the Lookout and a direct descendant of Henry Flye, who built the Inn, has made some renovations at the Point, he has always been thought in terms of restoration rather then modernization. Several years ago he restored all nine rooms in the Inn as well as the sitting and dining areas downstairs. He did an amazing job. To see the Inn google "The Lookout/Maine". He has some really neat videos of the Inn as well as the environment.
As for Buff and Herb, they too, except for the Master suite and kitchen, have kept the "Flying Jib" just as Auntie Helen had it in 1920. At the Jib, my special room is "the owl's nest" , the bedroom at the head of the stairs. When I'm there in June I will take pictures of the view you see from my room.
I think everyone who has spent some time on the rugged seacoast of Maine yearns to go back. It's a whole new old world where things move at a much slower place. Here you are surrounded by this incredible beauty...wild lupines and strawberries growing everywhere....delicious blue mussels waiting to be collected at low tide...wonderful storytelling in the evening....what more can one ask for?
Yes, the people at Flye Point are just your kind of people.....eccentric, perhaps a little crazy....creative and downright friendly.
I love Rockport, Mass. as I love Rockport, Maine....both places provide inspiration to artists.
These are beautiful scenic photos, Bob.
I especially like the various blues of water.
Yes, you would love Flye....it has that damn "Down East flavor" that just binds to your heart and soul.
Hello, my name is Evan Brigham, I am Herb and Buff Brigham's youngest grandson.
I happen to be bored at my computer (while I should be doing homework) and searched 'Flye Point' in google and came upon your article, 'Flye Point, Maine, My Little Piece of Heaven.' I didn't travel much when I was young, but every couple of years my Grandma and Grandpa would wisk me away to Maine. I really connect with your view of Flye Point, I too followed my Grandma Buff around to stranger's houses and became acquainted with the peninsula as a close-net community, tied together by my Grandma's fearlessness in making friends.
I'm sad to say that I feel the Jib slipping from the family's grip. None of my family visits there anymore, and my father and Uncle Lonny are moving to sell. If I was ten years older and a half a million dollars richer I wouldn't hesitate to buy it from them, therefore keeping it in the family, but alas, I'm only twenty and not even in a position to visit the place unchaperoned. It's a big bummer and truly tragic. I was raised with the Flying Jib as my oasis, I lived to visit Maine, and now I'm forced to adjust, grin and bear it. Anyway life goes on, one day I may be able to create my own Flying Jib. I intended on sending some pictures, but couldn't e-mail you without signing up to gather.com, and now can't figure out how to. If you send you're e-mail, I have a few pics of the Jib you might want to check out. By the way I was searching 'Flye Point' to find out about the folk fest. How is it? Maybe if I talk Lonny into it he'll let my girlfriend and I stay there a week.
Anyway, Just thought it was cool to see someone online who I relatively know.
Evan
...Flye Point...where do I begin? Evan... I knew Buff and Herb and visited with them for many, many summers. My family summered at Flye Point most years while I was growing up. It is hard to believe somewhere close to 40 years ago I used to explore the shores of 'The Point' - my parents rented the Boulders for years and years. My Dad was a teacher/educator/administrator in Massachusettsa and we would pile into the station wagon with 4 kids, one dog and 2 parents and spend July and August on "the Point." There I have most of my fondest memories.
I introduced many friends to Flye Point, including...I believe, the poster "elizabeth e."...If I am correct...she and her family are my 'neighbors' in Massachusetts and I used to work with her husband, Bill. I believe that I am the 'colleague' who introduced them to the wonders of Flye Point! If I am correct, hello to Bill and his wonderful family! I am so glad my passion for Flye Point has infected you and yours! I lost contact with Bill years ago and would love to hear how his wonderful family and beautiful family are doing!
Now, I raise my own 3 children...children? my oldest is at Cornell...a junior, my second is researcing colleges for next year and my youngest starts high school in Sept!! My youngest can't stop asking about our return to Flye Point...as we haven't been able to visit since my Dad passed in 2006... Flye Point was
Dad's favorite place on Earth and until this year it was too difficult to contemplate visiting. But...now I am researching our return and can't wait to explore and revisit the most beautiful place on Earth. Bob will be thrilled...
Evan...find a way to keep the Flying Jib in the family...what a gem! I don't want too many people to know of the beauty and magic of the Jib and the 'Point' but to 'lose' it would be a crime! I have a feeling we have met in the past - and hope to meet in the future. Buff and Herb were a special couple who I was forever intrigued with!
I have many, many pictures of growing up summers at Flye Point, though not many of just the "Jib"! I hope to hear from my fellow fans of Flye Point!
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Bob, I am revisiting this through another post. It does not disappoint the second go round :) Happy Friday to you and congratulations on your spotlight.
This is a slice of Heaven! No wonder you love it. I'd love to have seen that concert. I've always wanted to see Maine. Thanks for showing me such a lovely part of it.