This is a true story from the memories of Christmas's in the past. My husband
Bill and I had four children, three sons, born in 1951, 1953 and 1955, and then
we had our only daughter born in 1961.
My husband worked for the State while we had our sons, and there was always
a steady income coming in. It wasn't much as he was a school bus
driver/custodian. By the time our third son was born, he wanted to do
something to make more money for our family, it took giving up a lot of the
security of a State job and benefits, but we were in our early thirties, and
decided if we were going to do something, that was the time.
In 1955 just before our third son was born, he went into business
for himself as a painting contractor which made us a very good living.
He was very talented with his hands and people liked him, and he had
recalls on the jobs he did and recommendations by word of mouth. He
soon had a regular following. In 1961, our daughter was born and things
were still good for us.
Somehow after Kennedy was assassinated work began to fall off. It was in
this year that things became really rough on us and we had just moved into a
bigger home. We had a mortgage and when he started not to get work,
I began to worry about not just Christmas, but about feeding our family.
He was digging ditches on the side to help take up the slack, but the ground
was getting hard, and that was falling off too. In late September, I went to
where they were opening a new supermarket within walking distance of home.
I applied for a job as a cashier in the evenings so Bill could still do what ever
work came along and it did, just not at the rate it had been, and I was hired.
When I reported the first night to my new job, I was given a badge with the
name Elsie on it. I had been called by my middle name Virginia all my life.
I was going to say something about it but decided, what the heck, I was
Mommy or Honey at home, so what difference did it make what strangers
called me.
Elsie became me, and I became a cashier for just awhile as they learned of
my office experience and I was quickly promoted to the office and soon was an
assistant to the front end manager. I loved the job. I was about 37 then, I
believe, and as I am now, I was a very outgoing and talkative person. Anything
good about me people knew, and if there was anything troubling me, they knew
that too.
With the $23.00 a week I was bringing home each week, and don't forget this
was early in the sixties, inflation hadn't gone wild yet, we were doing quite well.
It was coming close to Christmas and they sold toys in that supermarket,
much as they do today, they were up on top shelves, and were reasonably
priced, and as an employee, I was allowed to pick out toys for my kids and
put them on a lay a way and pay something each week on them so it
would be easy to get them out on the payday before Christmas.
There was a doll Tracey wanted so bad, one that took a bottle and wet its
diapers, I can't remember the name of it, Betsy Wetsy sounds familiar but
that may have come later, I don't know. I had one of those on layaway and
what the boys wanted too, and they were almost paid for.
Christmas happened to fall on a Friday that year, payday, and the stores
were not opened. The week before I began to ask when would we get paid.
The store manager thought we might get the checks on Thursday or if
not on Saturday. Well, I became fearful my kids were not going to have
their Christmas that year, at least until the day after. I had a couple of
friends there, and told them about it of course, my mouth runneth over,
and I also was friends with the store manager, as I was working in the
office most of the time. He told me not to worry, but that was like telling
the rivers to flow backwards.
I wasn't on the schedule to work on that Thursday, and the checks usually
came in around one o'clock in the afternoon, I made myself wait until
two o'clock as I didn't want to appear too anxious. They hadn't arrived.
They told me to check back in about five o'clock, something had gone wrong
with payroll but they were working on it as fast as they could.
I called before I went at 5 and they told me to come down the checks were
in. I went in with such a smile on my face. The manager cashed my check for
me himself, and told me he would get my things from lay a way and I gave
him the tickets and he told me to meet him at the back of the store, and
he would put them in my wagon for me when I came there. So, I merrily
went about picking up hamburger to make meatloaf for Christmas dinner,
and all the other stuff I needed for the next week to eat, I didn't mind that
I wouldn't have a turkey, as long as I had those toys for our kids.
When I finished picking up the things I needed I went to the back of the store
and the manager was there with his assistant , and they had my toys in a
wagon all set to go and I went to take it, and they said wait, here, this is
your's too. They had filled up two more carts with some smaller toys
for the kids, and some socks and mittens and hats, and then another wagon
with a turkey and all the trimmings, and pumpkin pies, and ice cream, all
the stuff I would have bought years before when things were better.
I said but I don't have enough money, and they said to me, just wheel
everything out the door, it has all been paid for and I said but I can pay
for my things and they said everyone in the store had contributed to our
Christmas that year. I couldn't help it, I cried like a baby.
It seemed like the heavens had opened up with miracles for us. We had the
most perfect Christmas of any year ever, because some people loved us
enough to do that for us. They wouldn't let me pay for the stuff I wanted
to buy either, I had my paycheck in hand.
You know, life turned around for us that night. Bill's work picked up, our kids
never knew about any of it, because they still believed in Santa, and there
was one that night. We had that little extra money to give us a little lift,
and I felt like I was walking on air. I had found out what real friends are
like, and that there are caring compassionate people in the world that don't
have to know you very well to do something wonderful to help you when
you are down and out.
I feel I was blessed that night, and I have been blessed for all of my life
before and since then. If there is anyone in need that I can
help, I do it, it always comes back to you two fold. Perhaps you have
to have been on the receiving end to believe it, but since I have, I know
it to be true. I hope anyone reading this, and those that don't, have
wonderful Holidays whatever one you celebrate, there is a Santa Claus and
a God.
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God has always given me what I need when I needed it.
Hugs and blessings in a plenty - S.
thank-you for sharing with us and I'm glad you reposted it as this is my first Gather Christmas and I deeply enjoyed it...
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I also believe that the more we give, the more we get but isn't it funny........ people who like to give don't care about what they may get back.
Merry Christmas!
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Such a wonderful story!!
I had something like that
happen to me too.
The lady from the grocery store put a box inside
of my house when we were gone. In it was a beautiful
ham and apples and oranges and candy canes and nuts.
Inside she had a card that said "Thank you for sharing your
family with me this year" It was so nice of her to put it that
way. I of course cried and cried. That was also in the '60's.
I will never forget her and the feeling she gave me.
You commented on not knowing if Betsy Wetsy came later...I don't know if you mean for your daughter or was created. If you mean the latter, she was around in the mid 1950s when I was in kindergarten, and the much coveted doll that year.
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