I just watched the Bucket List - it was a wonderful movie. These two guys were given a limited amount of time to live. They were hospital roommates. I don't want to give you the whole story. Let's just say that they made a list of what they would do before they "kicked the bucket".
Now, I'd like to ask each of you - if you found out that you had six months to a year to live, what would be on your list? Thank you. Salud
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May 10, 2006 The Bucket List - What Would Be On Your Wish List?
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That's the selfish side, isn't it?
Maybe, on second thought, do something to help the world's forgotten children.
I would spend more time playing the piano. I just love playing the piano.
Looks like I'm good to go.
I just can't seem to wrap my mind around that "if I only had a year to live" thing. My mind doesn't work that way. I'd like to think I've done "enough."
I think I would do some travelling... Scotland, The Netherlands and Australia would be at the top of my list. I also think I would want to make amends with anyone I had wronged over the course of my life. I'm not a real thrill seaker and am scared to death of heights - So skydiving is absolutely out ;-)
I just posted this to make folks think! I notice many folks just aren't time conscious. If you want to write a novel and have not even thought of a title for it - believe me, that process takes about ten years for your first novel from brain stem to shelf...please proove me wrong!
Thanks folks! Salud
Looks like I'm good to go.
d.g. let's pretend that you only have 30 years left on the planet - can you show me how you divide these years up to do all of the above. I thought you were already married, by the way...lol...Salud
On my list would be many travel destinations. Thailand, Singapore, Costa Rica, Brazil, Australia, etc.
I would also love to work with women &children in Costa Rica, helping them to read, learn skills, etc.
- I'd visit once again those special places of my youth and childhood - the woods in Illinois, Michigan and Minnesota, being sure to take my daughter and husband along to tell them the stories.
- I'd gather my friends, and spend a couple hours a week just singing together.
- I'd get my little family together and talk & talk, label some photographs, cook together.
- I don't think I would go for visiting new places or trying something I had never done before - creating new memories doesn't seem right. Finding ways to cherish and hold the special times already shared appeals to me more.
- And, I would spend a good amount of time alone, talking with God before I 'went home'.
Thanks for asking this.....
Blessings!
Maybe it would give me a kick in the butt to finish some things I've started........
I have seen this movie twice and loved it both times. The bucket list becomes interesting when you have a rich and zany friend like Jack Nickelson (One of my favorite actor).
My bucket list is in the Bucket ;)
One on that list is to spend a couple of weeks in Italy and Santorini island.
Salud
What was important to me was getting "my affairs into order."
That meant making sure -- you know -- the will was what I wanted. Then there was someone that I needed to tell something. I wanted to say, "thank you", for everything that he had been to me over the years.
Realistically speaking, unless you are physically capable of all the other things -- well, even if you are, they seem relatively unimportant. What does become important is the love and closeness of family and friends. Then too, I pity those who have done a bit of evil in their lives. To face death with these things in them? It would be better to die instantly, than to endure lingering death, where you might have to reflect on all the wickedness, hurt, and pain you've inflicted over the years, knowing you were not in a position to resolve it.
I thank God a million times that at least I did not have to face that. The torment of one important "thank you" left unsaid was enough.
I am not presenting an hypothetical situation, here. Doctors really thought my lights were going out, and so did I, or so I had hoped. It turned out to not be my time, though.
"The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone."
It also works in the reverse. In my mother's wisdom, she made sure that her children resolved all issues with our father, and with her before they both died. My mother called her OWN death, called a meeting a few months BEFORE it to resolve all issues, even though her health was fine at the time. I didn't attend, because I was in denial -- that is was all morbid. Still, I had the opportunity to say my goodbyes to her. It makes a world of difference.
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I also enjoy my friends, I write, read, sing and laugh a lot. When my body needs to rest, I do it.
Extravagant wishes and dreams are nice, but the things that are most important are the ones that own your heart.
Blessings.
I agree Sharon - Extravagant wishes and dreams are nice, but the things that are most important are the ones that own your heart.
beautiful!!! Salud
I would want to spend my last six months with my Family and Friends. I would want to talk to them, love them like never before, make any amends to anyone who may have felt slighted by me, and make sure that my will was in order. That is all that I would want. I would hope and pray to be able to go quickly so as not to have my family upset or sad.
Greetings
I will check this movie...
I do not think I would do anything different except every minute with my family and dear friends....they are life to me!!!