How To Save My Relationship And Experience The Magic Of Making Up

Once a person has been spurned the most asked question in their mind is how to save my relationship? The sad fact of relationship break ups is in most cases, someone is giving the marching orders while the other person has to leave still very much in love.

It's one of the most emotional times a person can go through and it's not just coping with the break up, it's leaving behind a familiar life and all that came with it, it's suddenly dealing with loneliness and hurt and it's also dealing with the emotion of feeling like a loser.

We're not saying this to be unkind but only to point out that you're not a loser and that question of how to save my relationship can be answered with a couple of techniques we're going to outline.

Author of The Magic Of Making Up, T W Jackson says that apart from keeping feelings of desperation and panic in check, now is the time for being counterintuitive. What does this mean? Let's look at two counterintuitive steps you need to consider. Jackson says:

1. "The first technique you need to use is to agree with and accept the fact that your ex has broken up with you. This can be very difficult to do and the chances are good that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you're able to do so.

It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together. The main reason is because you need to give your ex time to respect and miss you again. The chances are that they are mad or upset with you at the moment, especially if you've beem nagging them about getting back together."

Jackson then talks about cutting off all communication in the second step:

2. "The second technique you need to use is to cut off all communication. You're probably about ready to close your browser right now! Hold on, because this technique really does work. It helps you to accept the breakup and is the action that shows your ex you are serious.

By not communicating you are allowing your ex time to miss you and time to get over the reasons for breaking up. This space will be good for your mental health as well, and will help you to think clearly. It also sets you up for the next technique."

Jackson has helped over 7000 people worldwide with his techniques in The Magic Of Making Up and says the next technique involves planning an event where the two of you can reconnect.