"Dashing through the dough..." It sounds a lot like a Christmas song doesn't it?
As the weather turns cooler, our thoughts tend to naturally turn to the holidays. As the economy continues to nose dive, everyone is worried about money or "dough" so to speak.
My heart goes out to those people who are spending too
much for Christmas gifts. Each of us have a different level of "too much," but
all of us know when we have hit our own "too much." It comes with
that icky feeling in our stomach when we are paying for something or
that half-hearted laugh when we admit that we are not looking forward
to new years credit card bills. It's OK to NOT spend too much. The
retailers, marketers, and advertisers do not agree , but your pocket
book and budget will.
Remember: NO friend or family member expects you to go into
debt to BUY them a present.
Far too often, people spend more money or "dough" than they can afford to spend. They will put it on their credit card, that way it does not see like we are over spending.........until the bill arrives. Then it hits them....... "I spent way too much money".
What do you do?
How do you track your gift giving money?
Do you draw names with family and friends?
Do you set a price per person, per family or total amount to spend?
Do you pay cash or charge it?
Suggestion: Try singing the song "Jingle Bells" only sing it like this:
Dashing through the dough.....
It will keep your thoughts on saving instead of spending.
Personally, I would rather have a homemade gift than a store bought one any day. How about you, do you like homemade gifts?




Comments: 25
I have a limit on each child and each grandchild. I am pretty even among the kids. The ones up north get money. They love being able to go buy what they want. The grandkids locally get gifts to unwrap.
I buy and make gifts at Christmas time. I've become far more modest in my purchases as I have been on a roll for the past four or five years, trying to instill in my family the true importance of the holiday.
We're on a tight budget, and what my hubby and I do is simply have a jar of money, saved up from the change that we toss in it starting in the summer (usually). This year it's slim pickins - we'll probably not get each other anything, and just buy a couple of little things for the kids, like coloring books, play-doh, and the big gift will probably be a box of legos.
Early this year my husband and I decided that for each other, we would decide on one thing we wanted for the house, and we would get that together. Then we will get just a couple of small things for each other just to have something to open--and little stocking stuffers--those are always fun/practical things!