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by Esther IS Flesh and Blood S.
Member since:
May 8, 2007

Smiling Faces Sometimes

October 13, 2008 07:00 AM EDT
views: 156 | rating: 10/10 (31 votes) | comments: 94
Smiling faces sometimes pretend to be your friend
Smiling faces show no traces of the evil that lurks within
Smiling faces, smiling faces sometimes
They don't tell the truth uh Smiling faces, smiling faces
Tell lies and I got proof
The truth is in the eyes Cause the eyes don't lie, amen
Remember a smile is just A frown turned upside down
My friend let me tell you Smiling faces, smiling faces sometimes
They don't tell the truth, uh Smiling faces, smiling faces
Tell lies and I got proof Beware, beware of the handshake
That hides the snake I'm telling you beware
Beware of the pat on the back
It just might hold you back
Jealousy (jealousy) Misery (misery) Envy I tell you, you can't see behind smiling faces Smiling faces sometimes they don't tell the truth Smiling faces, smiling faces
Tell lies and I got proof Smiling faces, smiling faces sometimes
They don't tell the truth Smiling faces, smiling faces Tell lies and I got proof (Smiling faces, smiling faces sometimes) (Smiling faces, smiling faces sometimes)
I'm telling you beware, beware of the handshake
That hides the snake
Listen to me now, beware
Beware of that pat on the back
It just might hold you back Smiling faces, smiling faces sometimes
They don't tell the truth Smiling faces, smiling faces
Tell lies and I got proof
Your enemy won't do you no harm
Cause you'll know where he's coming from
Don't let the handshake and the smile fool ya
Take my advice I'm only try' to school ya

The Undisputed Truth 1971 version

"Smiling Faces Sometimes" is a soul song written by Norman Whitfield and Barrett Strong for the Motown label. The song was originally recorded by The Temptations in 1971. Producer Norman Whitfield had the song re-recorded by The Undisputed Truth the same year, resulting in a number-three Billboard Top 100 position for the group. "Smiling Faces" was the only top 40 single released by the Undisputed Truth, and was included on their debut album The Undisputed Truth.

Both versions of "Smiling Faces Sometimes" deal with the same subject matter, "back-stabbing" friends who do their friends wrong behind their backs ("Smiling faces sometimes...they don't tell the truth...smiling faces sometimes tell lies")
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Comments: 94

Cindy B. Oct 13, 2008, 7:02am EDT
Good post! =)
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Kushal Poddar Oct 13, 2008, 7:04am EDT
It is a truthful reflection of life

Spring and yellow shine*:
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mary bryant Oct 13, 2008, 7:06am EDT
thanks
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Elaine A. Oct 13, 2008, 7:19am EDT
Great post ;-)
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Robert - just a simple man - B. Oct 13, 2008, 7:36am EDT
This should be sung every election year. But it should be the national anthem THIS election year.
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Carol Lloyd Oct 13, 2008, 8:05am EDT
thanks
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Bert Van Essen Oct 13, 2008, 8:06am EDT
Lots of work to copy this. Good message.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 8:12am EDT
Cindy - Thanks!
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 8:13am EDT
Poddar - Yes it is unfortunately so.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 8:13am EDT
Mary - Thanks!
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 8:13am EDT
Elaine - Thanks!
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 8:14am EDT
Robert - Huh? Politics? Elections? Am I missing something?
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 8:14am EDT
Carol - Thanks!
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 8:14am EDT
Bert - Long time no see my friend. ;)
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Charlene K. Oct 13, 2008, 8:36am EDT
thanks for sharing
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Jules ~ Oct 13, 2008, 8:53am EDT
First Manilow and now the Temptations???? Oh, my. Esther we are musical twins. ;)

This song reminds me of something my mother used to tell me (and dammit all I've just had a reminder shoved under my nose recently)..."People don't tell you how they really feel. They put a smile on their face and tell you what they think you want to hear. How they really feel, they show you in their eyes and with their actions."

When a smile is genuine it reaches right up into the eyes. Always a good indicator. Too bad we can't really 'see' online, eh?

So true. So true.
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Pamela O. Oct 13, 2008, 9:05am EDT
Wow, great post!!!
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Heather C. Oct 13, 2008, 9:06am EDT
Hmmm, it's something to think about....isn't it?
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 9:06am EDT
Charlene - Thank you!
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 9:09am EDT
Julie - When a smile is genuine it reaches right up into the eyes. Always a good indicator. Too bad we can't really 'see' online, eh?

Now ain't that the truth? Of course I have an uncanny way of reading between the lines...and of course other times I am so naive and am taken for a fool by hypocrites. I absolutely abhor hypocrisy and hypocrites ~ don't you??
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 9:10am EDT
Pamela - Thanks hon!
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 9:10am EDT
Heather - Indeed. I woke up with this on my mind and had something else planned to post today but uh well EVS.
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Heather C. Oct 13, 2008, 9:15am EDT
See, I knew those people at the high school weren't smiling at me because they liked me!!! I am not smiling at them or shaking their hand anymore!
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~Sia McKye~ Oct 13, 2008, 9:30am EDT
Funny thing Esther, My 13 yr old and I had a discussion on this very thing. Talking about how your enemies don't harm you quite as easily because you know who they are and are on guard against them. But people that pose as friends, smile and are nice, you don't consider that they can have a hidden agenda, based on jealousy and envy. When they seem to pat on you the back, you may not always see that knife in their hand. He's coming up against that a bit now in 8th grade. A hard lesson for anyone but especially a teen.
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~Sia McKye~ Oct 13, 2008, 9:33am EDT
Jules, good advice from mom. Both you and Esther got in on the head. it's in the eyes. Genuine smiles not only effect the eyes, but the body language as well...
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Jules ~ Oct 13, 2008, 9:39am EDT
Hypocrisy and hypocrites...sigh. Life is full of 'em, eh? I hear you, girlfriend. I've learned the hard way to abide by a hard an fast rule in life an in love:

"If it ain't fun, I ain't playin'."

Rather than a smile, I'm sending you a big, heartfelt hug.

And smiles don't get much more genuine than Sia's...right through the eyes and out a photograph. Always makes me smile.
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~Sia McKye~ Oct 13, 2008, 9:43am EDT
Awww, what a sweetheart you are to say that Jules!

Hey Esther, maybe we should adopt Julie's philosophy? "If it ain't fun, I ain't play."
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Bounder .. Oct 13, 2008, 9:43am EDT
The world has never had a fair playing field and many are taught what to do to get ahead. False friendship is one of those unwritten rules. Use and abuse with a upward curl of their lips and twinkle in their eye, some people are no less than human predators, sharpening their claw on one hand while patting you on the back with thei other. Et tu brute?
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Elaine S. Oct 13, 2008, 9:43am EDT
This is so very true
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Lisa Frost Oct 13, 2008, 10:20am EDT
You have always believed in the good in people and it is sad to see you so hurt by these that have wronged you. It is their sin and theirs alone to deal with, don't let it become your burden, keep looking for the light behind the smiles that is the light of love and goodness. God's children make mistakes, and have to face them, we all must learn to forgive to forget and go on. If they don't realize their mistake, it will be theirs to answer in the long run. Blessings and love my friend.
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Randee "The Court Jester of LaLa Land ! ! !" always and forever, I just want to celebrate Oct 13, 2008, 10:28am EDT
I remember this one too Esther..........
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Denise W. Oct 13, 2008, 10:53am EDT
Thank you for sharing
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Jean, just the teensiest bit odd, F. Oct 13, 2008, 11:09am EDT
Yep... I remember the song WELL...
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Ron B. Oct 13, 2008, 11:18am EDT
It was a great song...
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Jennifer R. Oct 13, 2008, 11:38am EDT
Great post. This has a profound meaning even now. Thanks for sharing.
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Peter Joseph Swanson Oct 13, 2008, 11:42am EDT
Yeah, some people have such great smiles that they "use" it all the time.

Good teeth DNA doesn't make good people !!!
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Kimberly Ripley Oct 13, 2008, 11:53am EDT
I remember this one well.....but Esther, you don't look old enough to recall a Temptations song from the early 70's!!
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Ladybounty ~. Oct 13, 2008, 12:10pm EDT
I remember this song sooooo well. Thanks for bringing it back to mind, Esther!
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Charles Temm JR Oct 13, 2008, 12:19pm EDT
few songs really get it right like this one did....
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Marge H. Oct 13, 2008, 2:08pm EDT
Now I've got this song playing in my head. Thanks for the memories.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 2:25pm EDT
Heather - ;)
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 2:32pm EDT
Sia - Ya know hon, it is a difficult lesson for anyone to learn.

It comes with being so free and trusting that people will harm you sometimes without realizing it. I am always open and as a result, it sometimes comes as such a shock to find out that someone who I cherished, loved or trusted has gone behind my back and stabbed me. It is very painful and worse to me than if someone were to actually slap me or physically attack me.

I certainly hope that your Son doesn't have to endure too much of this in his life. I am lucky that I haven't, but for the less than handful of times that it has happened I have been scarred.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 2:34pm EDT
BB/Denny - I haven't heard the song by Joan Jett but I will check it out later today.

This song was to be dedicated to someone here on Gather who has left an indelible scar on my heart. Funny how people say that others on Gather can not affect you personally, but they do my dear. They do.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 2:37pm EDT
Sia - It IS in the eyes and the body language. But on the internet, it is in what is said behind one's back that hurts regardless of what one may think.

The hypocrisy can be accepted but when one reads the actual words written in black and white on this forum ~ well, lets just say that they bite.
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Donna T. Oct 13, 2008, 2:39pm EDT
I have come to realize that there are more "smiling faces" that cannot be trusted than I ever realized before. I'm so cynical. I don't trust anyone anymore.

Ester - I'm sorry someone hurt you. I've said this before, but it is worth repeating:

This is the problem with the internet: People can say mean hurtful things more easily, and it hurts just as much. Words, spoken and written, can hurt. The internet makes it too easy to hurt people.
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Donna T. Oct 13, 2008, 2:41pm EDT
And Ester, I used to be like you too -- I trusted everyone.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 2:45pm EDT
Jules - You are such a sweetheart! I needed that hug today. I have had this pain for almost two weeks and it has remained in my heart and on my mind.

"If it ain't fun, I ain't playin'." ~ I'm going to follow this philosophy. Of course one never really does know if they've stopped playin' with you do we??

As for the beauty and shimmer in Sia's face and eyes ~ they do come right through and one can't help but be stopped in their tracks by her stunning beauty and kind, kind heart.
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Donna T. Oct 13, 2008, 2:46pm EDT
After 50 years of watching people - I've come to the realization that everyone plays games.



Not to change the subject, but what do you think about this? ---- A man started a lie when he knew a woman - he told her that he graduated college. Not a huge lie, but he was trying to impress her. The date, and get engaged and married, and he never tells her the truth. She, of course, tells people that he went to this college, and he has to make up stories about it. She asks where his college yearbook, ring, etc is, and he says he never bought that stuff. 15 years go by and someone that the husband works with says this: "It's a shame Tom never went to college, because he won't get promoted without that college degree"...to which she says of course, "yes he did"....which starts a discussion, and then she confronts her husband, who finally comes clean. She feels quite betrayed. He kept this secret all these years. Is she over reacting?
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Donna T. Oct 13, 2008, 2:47pm EDT
Two years, Ester? I thought this was something that just happened. It must have really hurt.
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Larry H. Oct 13, 2008, 2:48pm EDT
thanks for sharing...
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David H. Oct 13, 2008, 2:52pm EDT
When you become as cynical as I am you never get fooled by smiling faces. You just expect the lies. What a way to live.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 2:53pm EDT
Sia - You know I live my life by that philosophy already. I don't fall in with hate-mongerers, gossips, or negative people in real life. I can not be a party to that whatsoever. I avoid people like that like the plague.

I do believe that the reason why most of my life I have had more MEN as friends is because they usually don't go around talking about people and would much rather talk about sports or sex or other stuff.

I am glad for such wonderful friends like you and Jules and everyone else on this thread. Ya'll all mean so very much to me.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 5:19pm EDT
Elaine - Yes my dear sad but true.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 5:24pm EDT
Bounder - I have been given many passes in life to step over others that I have turned down. I don't believe in that. I DO believe that we do live in a world where it isn't necessarily what you know but who you know and how you look that will get you places that you would never have been able to get to had you not had that look or known those people.

I am NEVER a hypocrite and as a matter of fact I am just too honest and perhaps considered bold at times because I am honest and pull no punches when it comes to speaking my mind. My life is an open book as are most of my thoughts. I have the unfortunate habit of carrying my heart in my hand and as a consequence it gets squeezed an awful lot.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 5:26pm EDT
Lisa - You are an eternal friend and you must know how special you are to me. You have taken the time to get to know me and have accepted me for who I am and what I am inspite of differences of opinion. Between you and Heather Campbell my Angel, you two inspire me to be better always and for that I am grateful.

Thanks for all of you love and understanding Lisa.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 5:32pm EDT
Randee - I know you had to remember this song too hon as we are like one year apart in age if I recall correctly.

In 1971, my Father had just gotten back from Viet Nam the second time and we were living in Copperas Cove, Texas where it was off base from Fort Hood as we waited for Government Housing. That summer my two best friends were Barbara Lofton and Gayle who were black girls. They taught me all about soul music and Al Green, the Temptations and so many different things. I was invited to all of the hip parties and went and saw all of the cool movies back then of the time like Superfly and Shaft and all of those cool films back then. My Dad worked part time as the Manager of an on base movie theater so we got to see everything for free back in those days. It was a cool time.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 5:33pm EDT
Denise - You're welcome!
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 5:33pm EDT
Jean - How nice to see you around. Glad that you remember the song WELL.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 5:34pm EDT
Ron - It's still a great song. ;)
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 5:35pm EDT
Jennifer - I'm glad that so many of you have been able to hear the message. If only we could avoid being hurt by those smiling faces it would be a much better world.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 5:39pm EDT
Peter - You said

"Yeah, some people have such great smiles that they "use" it all the time."

I use my smile all of the time not because of some special reward that I will receive but because I am a happy person and feel that smiling at people, even at strangers makes for a great introduction for anyone and everyone. I have never been called a sour puss in my life and never will. It is nice to put your best foot forward whenever one can. At least that is my belief.

"Good teeth DNA doesn't make good people !!!"
I don't know what you meant by this remark but will say that I am a good person, good teeth or bad teeth.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 5:43pm EDT
Kimberly - My friend, I have been listening to music on my own record player since my very first one when I was five years old.

In 1971 I was but a mere 12 years old but had been listening to this type of music and everything in between for all of my life. My Mom listened to classic guitarists like Segovia and Spanish and Mexican and Bobby Rydell and rock when I was inside of her so I guess that I naturally grew to love music of all genres just like my dear ol' Mom.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 5:46pm EDT
Lori - You are very welcome!
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M & M. Oct 13, 2008, 5:57pm EDT
So true, excellent posting Ester.
Here is a big (((HUG))).
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P.W. Dowdy Oct 13, 2008, 6:16pm EDT
And on this subject, do you remember...?

They smile in your face
And all the time they try to take your place--
Back stabbers!

Life has it's share of good and evil, doesn't it?

I want to say, The O-Jays recorded this but I'm not sure.

The words to the song of your post are ones to which we can all say, Amen!
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John Philipp Oct 13, 2008, 6:33pm EDT
Really interesting, Esther. Thanks.
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N. K.* . Oct 13, 2008, 6:39pm EDT
Great track - thanks for reminding me of it.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 8:46pm EDT
Charles - It seems that a lot of music from the late 60's and 70's had great emotion within its lyrics because of the times. Now I can see that same type of emotion being brought back.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 8:47pm EDT
Judi - I'm always glad when I can take you back to those days. They seemed to be kinder, gentler less stress times...or at least they did to me since I was just a young pre-teen.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 8:48pm EDT
Marge - Glad that I gave you a song to sing in your head today! ;)
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 13, 2008, 9:02pm EDT
Donna - I feel better now that I let my emotions regarding this issue out. A release is always good for the soul and having good friends that care really means a lot and helps a great deal.

I agree that there are people on the internet that can hurt you. We are all flesh and blood and I feel that you can be more hurt here because people find it so easy to insult you or belittle you because a lot of people hide behind their icons and feel that they are invincible and untouchable; some even act holier than thou almost as if they can do no wrong either. Quite remarkable to me.

In the end, they are the ones who are watched more closely as normal people don't usually go around doing what some do on this site.

I appreciate your kindness hon.
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Ken K. Oct 13, 2008, 9:21pm EDT
How true! This summer of 1971 song says a lot..
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necee t. Oct 14, 2008, 1:16am EDT
oh yess... this song rings true especially during this political crap... oops...
i do enjoy the song and the beat... thanks Esther... love ya...
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 6:14am EDT
Donna - I still trust most everyone until proven different. I would hate to go around with a wall around myself. Part of life is experiencing the good and the bad and to carry around a shield just wouldn't be me.

I am just going to keep my eyes open a bit wider from now on.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 6:19am EDT
Donna - You said "After 50 years of watching people - I've come to the realization that everyone plays games."

I don't play games at all. What you see is what you get without any hidden agenda here or in my real life off of Gather.

"Not to change the subject, but what do you think about this? ---- A man started a lie when he knew a woman - he told her that he graduated college. Not a huge lie, but he was trying to impress her. The date, and get engaged and married, and he never tells her the truth. She, of course, tells people that he went to this college, and he has to make up stories about it. She asks where his college yearbook, ring, etc is, and he says he never bought that stuff. 15 years go by and someone that the husband works with says this: "It's a shame Tom never went to college, because he won't get promoted without that college degree"...to which she says of course, "yes he did"....which starts a discussion, and then she confronts her husband, who finally comes clean. She feels quite betrayed. He kept this secret all these years. Is she over reacting?"

Donna, I do feel that she should feel betrayed. He lied to her and a life as a couple should begin without lies the very foundation should be based on truths as without it you have no trust.

I wouldn't leave him because of that lie alone but it would take me some time to regain the trust that I once had for him. If she can overcome that fact than they will be able to make it and if she can't forgive him this lie then the marriage is dead because of dishonesty.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 6:22am EDT
Donna -

Two years, Ester? I thought this was something that just happened. It must have really hurt.
Donna T., Oct 13, 2008, 2:47pm EDT

No hon, not two years. Almost two weeks ago. I never find anything to be upset or angry about for more than that moment but this situation with the backstabbing did effect me enough to remain in my heart and on my mind for this period of time.

Thank you so much for your concern.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 6:22am EDT
Larry - You are very welcome! :o)
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 6:26am EDT
David -
"When you become as cynical as I am you never get fooled by smiling faces. You just expect the lies. What a way to live." David H., Oct 13, 2008, 2:52pm EDT

I can't live my life like that. It's just too much work to think that everyone is out to get you or to use you or to gain anything from their deceiving you. I honestly can not so I continue to trudge along in this life learning every time that I get used and abused. I feel that I can indeed learn a lot more about human nature this way.

Relax, don't be such a cynic. Let your guard down sometimes, you'll find that it really is a good way to live.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 6:27am EDT
Margieanne - Thanks for the hug sweetie! You have been a good and loyal friend since I met you here over a year ago and that is super with me!

Thanks! (((hugs))) back to you!
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Lawrence U. Oct 14, 2008, 6:30am EDT
An interesting piece! Well done, Esther!! :)
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 6:36am EDT
P.W. - Of course I remember "Backstabbers" as a matter of fact I thought about posting it and thought that I had as it too was one of my favorites from that time...

Great songs came out back in the early 70's. "Backstabbers" was indeed released by the O'Jays in 1972. Excellent lyrics as well.

(What they do!)
(They smile in your face)
All the time they want to take your place
The back stabbers (back stabbers)
(They smile in your face)
All the time they want to take your place
The back stabbers (back stabbers)
All you fellows who have someone and you really care, yeah, yeah
Then it's all of you fellows who better beware, yeah yeah
Somebody's out to get your lady
A few of your buddies they sure look shady
Blades are long, clenched tight in their fist
Aimin' straight at your back
And I don't think they'll miss
(What they do!)
(They smile in your face)
All the time they want to take your place
The back stabbers (back stabbers)
I keep gettin' all these visits from my friends, yeah, what they doin to me
They come to my house again and again and again and again, yeah
So are they there to see my woman
I don't even be home but they just keep on comin'
What can I do to get on the right track
I wish they'd take some of these knives off my back
(They smile in your face)
All the time they want to take your place
The back stabbers (back stabbers)
Low down... dirty...
(What they do!)
(They smile in your face)
Smiling faces... smiling faces sometimes tell lies (Back stabbers)
(They smile in your face)
I don't need... low down, dirty bastards (Back stabbers)

Yes the words to Smiling Faces Sometimes is definitely fitting...more often than sometimes.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 6:37am EDT
John - Thank you!
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 6:38am EDT
N.K.* - Sure thing. Glad you liked it.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 6:38am EDT
Ken - Yes it does, doesn't it??
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 6:40am EDT
Necee -
"oh yess... this song rings true especially during this political crap... oops...
i do enjoy the song and the beat... thanks Esther... love ya..."

Yes it does ring true for many reasons and the political ones are definitely big on this song for sure.

Love ya too kiddo!
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 6:41am EDT
Lawrence - Thank you! I love the music of this genre and of this generation. Awesome and powerful lyrics to social situations that are fitting and never go out of style.
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Jules ~ Oct 14, 2008, 7:02am EDT
Esther, just remember one thing: what someone else does or says, isn't a reflection of you. It's born of their own fears and insecurities and has NOTHING to do with you. As long as you know in your heart that you are not harming anyone...carry on.
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 11:43am EDT
Julie - You are a wonderful lady and I am proud to call you my friend.
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Donna T. Oct 14, 2008, 4:03pm EDT
Oh, I misunderstood -- I thought you said this happened two years ago somewhere.....you must have said two weeks.

Tell me who is it is -- I'll beat 'em up for ya. lol
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Esther IS Flesh and Blood S. Oct 14, 2008, 6:52pm EDT
Donna - No worries hon. It seems that everything always comes out in the wash.

Next time, I will call you and we can beat them up together.
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donna h. Oct 25, 2008, 1:46pm EDT
We ran into this last spring!
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Ruth Luce Nov 2, 2008, 10:43am EST
Mmmmm, sweet, you in my neighborhood now. Motown had the best.
Mean people suck, I won't play with them in my yard, even if they've never done it to me, I notice they don't play well with others, they don't get in my yard.

"I know a place. Ain't nobody crying. Ain't nobody worried........I'll take you there!!"
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Janie E. Nov 30, 2008, 11:48pm EST
You just reminded me of my sister's husband!!!! He fooled me, bigtime, Esther!!!!! Check out my latest post, if you wish!!!! Still like the song!!!!
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Krystal Harwell Mar 24, 2009, 2:54am EDT
going thru your stuff to replay your kindness, even if i've seen it before!!

<3 Krystal
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