So Freakin' Upset at My Husband

Gosh! I am so freakin' tired of always having to do everything myself. My husband just does not think to help. I am the one who always have to remember when the next oil change or required inspection is coming up (for *HIS* car). I always have to remind him of the trash days or take out trash myself. I always have to remember all the due dates for whatever it is. I always have to search for the airfare when he decides to take a trip. If I don't, he ends up overpaying because he does not know to search for a good deal. The few times when I got really tired and just "let him go do his own thing", we ended up losing thousands of dollars from his stupidity. He can't even do the simplest thing. When we came back from the hiking trip, I put away half of the stuff and asked him to put away the others. But they sat on the stairs for almost two weeks. He finally put them away last night after my continuous nagging. It's driving me nuts because he just can't seem to motivate himself. It is really exhausting to have to pull everything together all by myself. There! Now I feel better. Thanks for letting me vent.