by Tabitha M.
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January 27, 2008

Today my daughter moves to her dad's.

August 12, 2008 09:40 AM EDT
views: 134 | comments: 56
Just a little post to ask for positive vibes today as this is the day I give physical custody of my 14-year old daughter to her father, who lives three hours away. 

I have resigned myself to what is happening, but I am still really sad.  Be thinking of me, okay?
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Comments: 56

Marianne R. Aug 12, 2008, 9:41am EDT
Hang tough, girl.
Mrslisae Photography E. Aug 12, 2008, 9:43am EDT
Sure will Tabitha..
JoAnne D. Aug 12, 2008, 9:45am EDT
I hope things work out for you. I know it's a rough time.
Beth - Doing God's work Daily J. Aug 12, 2008, 9:45am EDT
Hang in there Tabitha. Will be praying that you have peace over this situation.
Vicky Duggins Aug 12, 2008, 9:50am EDT
I think I can understand how upsetting this would be. Good luck reconciling with the decision.
Sensational Sadie Sexy Senior Sitizen Aug 12, 2008, 9:53am EDT
I will be sending up prayers for you and your daughter Tabitha.
Denise B. Aug 12, 2008, 9:53am EDT
hope everything goes ok
Priscilla (wishing I was in Costa Rica) ~. Aug 12, 2008, 10:01am EDT
I'll be thinking of you all today. I hope it goes smoothly~
Carol Lloyd Aug 12, 2008, 10:07am EDT
Hang tough
I'm hoping for the best, Tab, you know that. -hugs-
Elizabeth H. Aug 12, 2008, 10:27am EDT
Sending postive vibes your way.
Anne W. Aug 12, 2008, 10:44am EDT
Best of luck to you!
Anne W. Aug 12, 2008, 10:45am EDT
Thank you for posting to Point Whore! Wishing everyone many, many points!
Chris E. Aug 12, 2008, 11:00am EDT
I don'tn't know the story of what happened but you are her mother and you know what is best for her.
Robyn F. Aug 12, 2008, 11:02am EDT
good luck Tab.......
Dan (open minded conservative) K. Aug 12, 2008, 11:16am EDT
Not sure of the circumstances that led to this, but I hope it gets worked out. Remember that this is tougher on the child than on either parent.
Tory H. Aug 12, 2008, 11:26am EDT
I hope things work out for the best.
Debby O. Aug 12, 2008, 11:33am EDT
We are all behind you Tabitha.
Kerrell g. Aug 12, 2008, 12:03pm EDT
Roger that, T.
juley g. Aug 12, 2008, 12:06pm EDT

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juley g. Aug 12, 2008, 12:06pm EDT
Hang in there, Tabitha!
Eclectic Bird Aug 12, 2008, 12:07pm EDT
Good luck!
lena k. Aug 12, 2008, 12:08pm EDT
good luck
sheila ~the hapless housewife~ j. Aug 12, 2008, 12:18pm EDT
That's rough. I'll be thinking of y'all today.
Samantha V. Aug 12, 2008, 12:23pm EDT
*HUGS* Thoughts and prayers going your way today!!
Ang, wandering aimlessly, G. Aug 12, 2008, 12:24pm EDT
Keep your chin up. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Donna Hammett-Tooker Aug 12, 2008, 1:20pm EDT
My older stepson wanted out from under his mom one summer and begged to come live with us - it was the longest and most miserable summer I have known as he fought us on every issue, refused to participate in the family activities except for meals. He got us in trouble with his excessive downloading, he wanted to call his friends - all long distance, of course, and wanted us to let him drive one of our cars when we were both working and did not have the funds to sponsor his driving wanderings as we were still paying support for the other stepson and he would not go to bed at night. Maybe your daughter will have just as exciting an experience with her dad and will be back to her mom. Just pray for the best thing to happen, don't spotlight for whom, just that the best thing happens.
Rachael G. Aug 12, 2008, 1:23pm EDT
Good luck. Karma makes sure that everything works out in the end. I'm sure everything will be ok.
Austin Cushing Aug 12, 2008, 1:26pm EDT
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Sammie B. Aug 12, 2008, 1:30pm EDT
-hugs- I'm sorry. I'll be sending positive thoughts your way!
Chelsea R. Aug 12, 2008, 2:26pm EDT
try to stay positive!! :-)
Sarah (I want points) Aug 12, 2008, 2:28pm EDT
I'm so sorry.
Katie R. Aug 12, 2008, 2:32pm EDT
Hang in there
Jennifer F. Aug 12, 2008, 3:40pm EDT
I'm thinking of you! I am also hoping she will be back very soon too.
Holli G. Aug 12, 2008, 3:58pm EDT
hang in there...i will be sending postive thoughts your way
LaRue B. Aug 12, 2008, 4:25pm EDT
This will be hard, but with God's help you can make it through. He will be with you and give you strength and courage through the coming days. This may not be a permanent thing. She may come back to you. God be with you and give you blessings each day!
tina stiles Aug 12, 2008, 4:35pm EDT
i will be thinking of you tabitha! i truly hope everything works out for you and your daughter.
Heather M. Aug 12, 2008, 4:40pm EDT
I am sending positive thoughts your way. Sorry you have to deal with this. I am sure it's really tough.
Brenda (square peg in a round hole) H. Aug 12, 2008, 4:51pm EDT
Sending positive vibes and a hug your way.
Connie C. Aug 12, 2008, 5:54pm EDT
Tabitha,
Stay strong. I will be thinking of you
Elaine S. Aug 12, 2008, 6:00pm EDT
Hang in there Tabitha........My thoughts and Prayers are with you.
Hugs,Hugs and More Hugs...
**AngelEyez** a. Aug 12, 2008, 6:49pm EDT
Hang in there,stay strong.
**AngelEyez** a. Aug 12, 2008, 6:49pm EDT
Thank You for posting to my group Tryingfor3000
Patty H. Aug 12, 2008, 8:23pm EDT
Hang in there Tabitha, I am thinking of you.
Steph-in-NE ..... Aug 12, 2008, 11:32pm EDT
tabitha she still loves you ans she will alway will, just remember phone and internet are so ever so close...
we will be thinking of you
Lesli B. Aug 13, 2008, 1:06am EDT
Thoughts and prayers are with you.

Hang tough, all will work out.
Bridget ♥ Aug 13, 2008, 1:07am EDT
I will be thinking of you.
Valerie Roars Aug 13, 2008, 1:09am EDT
Hugs.
Suze P. Aug 13, 2008, 1:12am EDT
I'm so sorry to hear that.. I know you must be very sad and worried but she'll be fine, and she'll be back. We're here for you if you get too sad and need a shoulder ::hugggss::
April H. Aug 13, 2008, 1:50am EDT
A big hug to you. And my thoughts and prayers are winging there wy to you
Frank McGinty Aug 13, 2008, 4:13am EDT
Tabitha, it sounds as if your heart must be breaking! But I would endorse what Donna said in her longer post above: although you may not feel like it right now, try to be optimistic and, above all, pray (to whoever/whatever you hold to be most Sacred) that the best outcome for all will happen.

Maybe you and your daughter need a temporary break, maybe she'll be back and you'll have a great life together. Keep in touch with her meantime, and... Just let go your fears and worries, trust in the BEST outcome - and let it happen. We're with you! Let us know how things are going.
~*~Danyale~*~ N. Aug 13, 2008, 8:33am EDT
hugs
Sandy (back in Ohio...blah!) Aug 13, 2008, 11:46am EDT
I remember your article when this all started and have been wondering how things were going. I have been praying for the best for both of you. I really don't know what to say. So here is a big cyber hug to you :
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I know it isn't much. But I hope it helps. I am hear to listen if you need to talk.
Marsha S. Aug 18, 2008, 9:44pm EDT
Thank you for posting to ~3,000 Here We Come!~

I don't know the situation but I hope you are doing ok with it. That would be a very hard thing.
Marsha S. Jan 23, 2009, 11:43pm EST
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