The End Of a marriage...I will miss him dearly....part 3 of I love you but not in love with you...

Sorry for your loss

I am sorry also.

I'm sorry too. That wasn't nice not to list his wife.

How are you doing, Ellen?

Thank you for posting this to the Ratings Rampage Group

my condolences. *hugs*

that is just so sad, maybe it was an over sight caused from their grief, im sure at a time like that they just were not thinking.

sorry for your loss

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Oh my word! Ellen!! How are you holding up??? I'm so sorry for your loss of your best friend. Some people think it's about them. They just don't stop to think at all.

This was a very hard month for you. I'm sure you're glad it's almost over.

Pain eases after time. Just hang in there, and for the rest of "them" on the other end of the family, it's their loss not yours, you had the best part of everything they could only wish they had.

In my prayers.

I'm sorry for your loss.

How are you?

I am sorry to hear of your loss. That was rotten of his children to do to you...remember stupid is as stupid does...don't let what they did "stick to you". If you dwell on it and hurt about it, their "bullet" will hit the mark and do the damage it was meant to.

My sister did this to my uncles when my Dad died. She left them out of the obit. She thought they gave my Dad advice...it wasn't them, it was me. She told my Dad if he signed his Money market and Ira to her as the beneficiary she would pay his bills when he died and split the rest with me. I told him she wouldn't and she was under no legal obligation to but if he wanted to leave it all to her, that was his choice. He must have called the bank to verify...when he died she ran to the banks and found out we were both listed. She was madder than a wet hen... (according to the people at the banks :) ) and so she dissed my uncles.

What was done to you was disrespectful, wrong, horrible, cruel and not what your husband would have wanted. Don't let what they wanted fully happen...let it go...as it proved something about them...that they were disrespectful, wrong horrible and cruel....

Hold your head up and let the pain and hurt go...and don't give them the satisfaction of their "emotional bullet" hitting the mark and doing major damage...

Take control over it and let it go. Cause the best revenge is living well...

You have enough to deal with in your grief in losing your love, sweetheart and I say this from my heart to help.

Sometimes we are better off knowing other peoples hearts and who they really are, as fakes and phonies can take us.

Take care

I read all your articles about this, it's so sad. I'm sorry for your loss.

So sorry for your loss. And how unkind not to mention you.

Very sad. It's terrible that they didn't consider your feelings when writing the obit.

So sorry for your loss. Hope you are doing okay.