by Mzzz Sweets - Sandy (Why do I have to add a last name?)
Member since:
September 8, 2006

When you don't feel good...

July 18, 2008 04:42 PM UTC
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When you don't feel good, do you just want to be left alone completely? Or do you like to be cuddled? Or does it depend?

If I have a migraine I can't stand to be touched at all. But if I just don't feel good I like to be cuddled. I hate being left alone if I don't feel good.

Comments: 30

Dan H. Jul 18, 2008, 4:44pm UTC
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Wilma D. Jul 18, 2008, 4:49pm UTC
I like to be left alone. And if I hurt myself, I hate it when someone keeps asking me what happened or if I'm okay. Can't they see I can't talk???!?!
Danielle P. Jul 18, 2008, 4:50pm UTC
I like to be left alone and my boyfriend likes to be checked on a lot.
Katie R. Jul 18, 2008, 4:51pm UTC
I cant stand being left alone when I dont feel good
Kerrell Goolsby Jul 18, 2008, 4:52pm UTC
Alone!
Rob Appell Jul 18, 2008, 4:53pm UTC
Whenever I don't feel well, just get out of my face and leave me alone.
kelldogg ! Jul 18, 2008, 5:03pm UTC
i usually like to suffer in silence all alone!
ʚϊɞ Carol ʚϊɞ Jul 18, 2008, 5:31pm UTC
Alone for sure.
carolyn b. Jul 18, 2008, 6:16pm UTC
Left alone.
Anne W. Jul 18, 2008, 6:34pm UTC
alone
Anne W. Jul 18, 2008, 6:34pm UTC
Thank you for posting to Point Whore! Wishing everyone many, many points!
Dorine H. Jul 18, 2008, 6:42pm UTC
Like you, being left alone is intolerable to me. I want to be coddled, cuddled and cared for. I am very glad to return the favor when you don't feel good.
Teresa W. Jul 18, 2008, 6:48pm UTC
I like to be left alone when I am not feeling well which is a lot of the time. Since I live with 4 other people, alone time is at a premium here but its better this way. When I lived alone I got weird(er) lol and didn't take good enough care of myself
Laura C. Jul 18, 2008, 6:58pm UTC
if it's a migrane I prefer to not be touched but I still want company...if it's just being sick i'd rather have someone here with me...but i'm single so i'm alone no matter what.
Heather W. Jul 18, 2008, 7:08pm UTC
I want to be left alone but if I'm really sick I want someone close by to bring me drinks and chicken noodle soup.
Suze P. Jul 18, 2008, 7:13pm UTC
I want to be left alone ,,,.unless I'm really, really sick and don't have the energy to get up and get stuff.. then I want to be fed, and checked on to make sure I don't need anything. .but then leave me alone. I don't mind cuddling a little bit.. sometimes.. but I hate when people hover and want to talk and bug me.. I generally want to sleep and not be bothered lol
Jennifer G. Jul 18, 2008, 7:21pm UTC
It depends on what kind of not feeling good it is....

If I'm physically feeling ill, then I usually just want to be left alone (who wants people around when they're looking all gross?)
But if I'm just having a "down day" I might SAY I want to be alone, but really, it's a lifesaver when my best friend comes over and curls up next to me on the bed and says, "Okay, I get it. What's going on?" and we either talk, or just watch a chick flick, or something.
Ginny H. Jul 18, 2008, 7:34pm UTC
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Janet H. Jul 18, 2008, 7:44pm UTC
I hate to be alone when I am sick. If I feel miserable, I like for someone to keep me company in my misery--ha!
Chana M. Jul 18, 2008, 8:24pm UTC
It depends on what it is, I guess I am in the middle Sandy. Thank you for sharing this with the Gather Non-Deleters Group!
**AngelEyez** a. Jul 18, 2008, 8:42pm UTC
Gosh,I like to be ALONE,Im already usually miserable enough,that I just want to be left to myself
Vicky P. Jul 18, 2008, 9:18pm UTC
I want to be babied for a while, and then left alone.
Samantha C. Jul 18, 2008, 10:39pm UTC
it depends... i remember when i was pg i wanted my DH close but not touching. The poor guy was such a trooper!
Patty H. Jul 18, 2008, 10:51pm UTC
It just depends on what it is, that is making me not feel well. Most of the time I dont get a choice, because I have two small boys.
Beth G. Jul 18, 2008, 10:53pm UTC
I tend to want the lights out and to be held for a while. I dont get headaches very often, and am, in general, in good health.
Lisa K. Jul 19, 2008, 12:19am UTC
I'm glad for my husband's presence when I don't feel good, but I hate to be fussed over or touched.
Brittney R. Jul 19, 2008, 12:38am UTC
Alone. Go far away so I can sleep.

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