I wrote an article a couple of months ago asking what age is too old to set goals. Then, this past Father's Day I wrote a post here about my dad and how I had learned from him to never quit, never give up. My sister read that post to my mother, and she liked it. Now, two weeks after my mother has gone to join my dad in heaven, I'll give an object lesson from her too.

As the title says, my mother was 93 years old. That is definitely an age where many people might think that you no longer set goals. They would be wrong!
The Saturday before this past Easter my mother was getting ready to go outside to move her car. The apartment complex needed to plow snow from the parking lot. As Mom related it to me, she sat too close to the edge of her chair as she reached to put her snow boots on and fell off the chair.
Mom broke her left arm, actually the ball in the shoulder socket. On Easter Sunday the doctors put a new one in. Mom needed to go through physical therapy, starting in a nursing home. She had no appetite and wasn't eating. Obviously, she was losing strength and her spirits were down.
My brother, my two sisters, and I all encouraged Mom to eat to get strength so she could do her therapy. She knew she needed to and that she wouldn't get better unless she did. But, food just didn't appeal to her.
After a couple of days, she decided that we were right. Mom told my sister that she was going to force herself to eat whether she wanted to or not. She was going to do the physical therapy she needed so her arm would heal and she could get back to her normal life.
Think about that. At the age of 93, my mother set a goal…she would do the therapy and get her life back.
Do you know what? She did!
After a couple of weeks in the nursing home, Mom went to stay with one of my sisters for two months as she did therapy, healed, and got back to the point where she could take care of herself in her apartment.
She set her goal and did whatever it would take (including eating when there was no appetite), and she achieved her goal. She moved back into her home on June 14. She had her independence back!
If you've read my free report, "6 Letters to Launch Your Goals: CHANGE," you'll notice that my mother automatically followed the principles that I outlined! If you haven't read the report yet, you can get it by taking the link at the bottom of this post!
Mom went to heaven on June 24, after falling ill the previous Saturday. She is missed by all of her family and friends, but she left us with one final lesson. No matter how old you are, you can respond to the challenge and achieve your goal!

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Comments: 26
I think your mother must have been much like her.
10 4 u
My Dad was recently in a nursing facility and there was an 89-year-old very grumpy woman there. She never had any visitors. I took a liking to her and tried to chat with her or encourage her to eat when I was there. The staff told me she'd spit and might hit me but she never did. Once in a while, she'd put me in my place with a tongue lashing. But after dad went home, I went by to see her and she was happy to have a little visit. The following week I went and was told she was ready to pass. I sat on her bed and we talked. She was in pain but she did not seem to know death was near. We said a prayer and I gave her a hug when she told me to go. She died two days later, when I wasn't there. Five people attended her graveside funeral, three from my family and two friends she hadn't seen in years. I think about her and I know there are plenty of other people like her who have no one. It makes me appreciate the people in my life a little more.
To have your Mom for so many years is truly a blessing and the fact you appreciated her was a blessing for her.
Wow! I wish I could drum up the determination your mom had to set goals and stick with it! Awesome!