There are guys that the first thing they do when they meet with woman is show her that they understand GAME.
They'll start talking about evolution, alpha males, how women will always cheat on their boyfriends, how they know that women are more intimate than men etc.
From now on, consider that as a nonsense as "The Talk of Death".
Let me explain why, and I will give you a very counter-intuitive idea of what to do instead.
The kind of things I've learned in pick-up generally will make your conversation topics very poor to women. Especially hot ones.
It might work with the anthropologist grad student, but to the woman that any man in his right mind would be attracted to, I don't think so.
There are a few major things wrong with this strategy:
(BTW - if you do happen to run with a woman that loves this kind of stuff, by all means talk about it, I'm just saying it should not be used as an ATTRACTION strategy for the majority of female population)
1. It puts a woman on the defensive. It's exactly like one country revealing it's battle plans to another country that it is at war with.
It shows that you are "thinking too much" about the dynamic, which not only is a huge turn off, but also makes her think you're going to be a mind-trip. Not good.
2. Chances are, her awareness level is about 10% of yours.
Especially if you're keeping up on my newsletters with a concept called "Stepped Awareness".
Have you ever tried played a song you loved for a friend and they just didn't get it?
It's because their awareness didn't go through the same process that yours had - and resulted in you really liking the song...
To a woman who spends the majority of her time thinking about new shoes and clothes, celebrities and her problems with her boss, your talk about "the unique mating patters of the bonobo apes and how it relates to women in the club" is just too alien and weird for her.
This is the same reason why you'll sometimes see the biggest AFC ever with a smoking hot women. He's normal, and she can easily introduce him to her friends without embarrassment!
3. To a woman that DO understand it; what you say seems like a big deal, when it should be plainly obvious.
5-10% of women actually DO get this stuff. It's obvious, intuitive and accepted for them.
These women tend to also like women and capable of open relationships, which is generally a lot of fun.
But here's the thing - the guys they end up dating also get this stuff intuitively.
And when you get something intuitively, you'll never go out of your way to convince another person of it, or explain it like it's some huge revelation!
So the moment you get in that, the women who are most eligible for the lifestyle you're looking for, will automatically disqualify you.
So here's what to do instead...
Well - one of the most powerful techniques I use is this:
• Understand society's programming,
• Understand the woman's specific programming, and
• Appear to be under the exact same programming
Keep your knowledge of reality to yourself (and of course, if you figure out anything great, I would appreciate it if you share it on my forum)
Understand this stuff and you'll see a big difference in your game.
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