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by Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz
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September 8, 2006

Will the Real Bigoted White Voters Please Stand Up?

July 05, 2008 12:07 PM EDT (Updated: December 29, 2008 04:50 PM EST)
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Although the liberal factions that like his policies will never admit to this, I think there are many White liberals who are attracted to Obama just because he is Black. As I recently stated in some commentary, it's usually the liberals who bring up his race. Many like to point out that every person who doesn't want Obama to be the next President is a racist.

Liberals are usually champions of the underdog, which is the reason for their bleeding heart label, of course. I don't think we can entirely preclude this mindset from how they've gone about making him their choice, or they would not be so quick to point the race finger at anyone who is opposed. Certainly, there are those who are dyed-in-the-wool Democrats who will vote partisan lines no matter what, but I think there is a direct, albeit subconscious, correlation to race by those voters supporting him so unequivocally. It can even be viewed as a matter of affirmative action that liberals so strongly defend and promote.

The fact that Obama is Black lends itself nicely to the aura that he projects that's so very attractive to those who want to believe a capricious tale of hope and change. Not only do his ideas project unrealistic expectations; they are being delivered by a Black man, so it seals the deal in a way that no White man or woman could. It's the epitome of the unattainable fantasy. 

I'm not saying that it's the only reason, but from what I have seen from White supporters of Obama, many of them are driven by guilt of prejudice, whether their own from the past or whether it's rebellion from prejudice they have witnessed throughout their lives from family and others in their surroundings. They seem to be trying to prove to themselves and others that they are not racist by showing support. When someone uses the race card to point out why someone who is White doesn't want to vote for Obama, take a closer look at the person with the four fingers pointing back at him, and see if that person might not be overcompensating for a guilt that is his own.

Have you also noticed that many liberal voters who support Obama might be atoning for some bigotry for which they they themselves might be more guilty than any?

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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 12:28pm EDT
I see some bigots have viewed and rated already! As I've said, "methinks thou dost protest too much."
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Anonymous 1. Jul 5, 2008, 12:41pm EDT
So if he wins the Presidency it is because he is black??? OKay lets say that is true...but considering that in previous elections he would have lost becuase of the same reason..I still think it is progress..no matter how you look at it. But just as in the right to vote...women must once again wait to be represented. When JFK won...the nation was shoked that he was first Catholic president...some believed that his religion would influence his decisions...oh how far we have come
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Charlene C. Jul 5, 2008, 12:49pm EDT
No, I think you have just ticked some people off with this rant. I'm white and I'm not a supporter of Obama, but it has nothing to do with race.. and anyone saying I am would not know me at all. In fact I don't think I will vote at all for either of the candidates.. whoever gets to be president.. won't change things at all very much. Gas will still be out of sight, and we will have the same old problems.. just a different administration. The rich get richer and the poor get poorer.. no change.
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 12:52pm EDT
"So if he wins the Presidency it is because he is black???"

Anonymous, you missed the whole point. That's not at all what I said. I said that it is a PART of the reason that people who are unequivocally, meaning without reservation, voting for him, and especially the ones who are saying that whites who do not support him are racist, are the ones that may be guilty of their own prejudice.

From what I wrote, would you be able to point out from where in the article you got such an idea that made you formulate such a question?
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Rob Appell Jul 5, 2008, 12:52pm EDT
I don't support Oblama, not because of the color of his skin, but because I don't think he's the right person for the job. I didn't support Hilly, either, not because of her sex, but because I don't think she's the right person for the job, either. I also don't support Mc Cain...and not because of his age, either. It has more to do with their ideologies and their ways of thinking than anything else. Does that make me an overall people hater because I'm not behind a black, a female or an older person? I think it simply makes me an American voter with the right to make my own choice based upon my own personal opinion.
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 12:57pm EDT
Charlene, the only thing I would disagree with is calling this a rant. I'm merely pointing out what I've observed. There's no rant here at all. What you say is true otherwise, I think. Yes, they don't realize that he is part of the partisan machine, and no matter he says, he is going to do what he feels he has to do and that may be more than somewhat different from what he's promising. That's isn't the topic here, but it doesn't really matter.
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 1:00pm EDT
Charlene, I'm also reading you comment again, along with Rob's. I don't know by your comments if either of you got the point. I'm saying that the people who support him may be the ones who are trying to disguise their own bigotry, not that people who don't support him are bigoted.

The question I asked was "Have you also noticed that many liberal voters who support Obama might be atoning for some bigotry for which they they themselves might be more guilty than any?"

Neither answer from you or Rob was the answer to that question, but I appreciate your comments.
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Katie R. Jul 5, 2008, 1:00pm EDT
I agree ... His goals are definitely unrealistic and had he been a white man ... Hillary Clinton would be the nominee right now.
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 1:09pm EDT
Katie, you do take it one big step further than I do by saying that you believe that Hillary would be the candidate if he were not Black. I don't know if that is or isn't a stretch because it would be difficult to prove, but I think it's a possibility, for sure.
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Apryl Just Apryl Jul 5, 2008, 1:13pm EDT
Sue, I like the way you say whats on your mind and I agree what he proposes is unrealistic. I like the idea of hope, I hope a competent person gets in the white house. I like the idea of change; changes that are going to work. I'd love to see changes in the price of gas, lower prices that is. I don't think Obama is the man for the job. This may be because I am a conservative and my ideals are vastly different than those on the left. My husband and I have discussed the atonement theory and we both think the same as you, good for you for putting this out there.
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 1:19pm EDT
"My husband and I have discussed the atonement theory..."

Thanks, Apryl. I'm sure that a lot of people have noticed this. I saw one too many comments today where a liberal is the person who brought the race issue in when people were clearly giving other reasons for their non-support of him and I mentioned it there, but also thought it worthy of an article.
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Beth G. Jul 5, 2008, 2:59pm EDT
The one thing I have never cared for by the Democratic Party, is the assumption that women will vote for them, because its in their best interest, same with irish catholics, african americans,etc....I find it highly offensive that I should vote for them because its" in my best interest to". Its fearmongering and bigotry at its ugly worst. I'm a grown adult and I can make my decisions thank you very much! I like Obama well enough though.
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Peter Joseph Swanson Jul 5, 2008, 3:13pm EDT
Kinda funny. So ... if white Dems vote for him it's because what they really want is to sabotage the Nation - to get back at white racists and appease their own self-destructive "white guilt" - and psycho crazy stuff like that? That's what white liberals are REALLY thinking these days about the election?
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De (It takes a pillage to raze a village.) M. Jul 5, 2008, 3:16pm EDT
I'm liberal and an Independent...so I need a bit more wooing from a candidate than just his being Black. However, Will Smith....call me, baby.
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Stacey "Yeah, I Said It" H. Jul 5, 2008, 3:20pm EDT
Wow, this is an interesting conversation to observe....this is a new phenomenom for me to witness in my lifetime, one's Blackness being described as an advantage, as it hasn't been our experience in the past.

You might be right in the assumption that some Whites are voting for Obama partially as an act of atonement, but why is that so bad? Isn't atonement a start on the path to reconciliation? Was Rev. Pfleger on to something after all? I'm asking merely out of curiousity.
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 3:47pm EDT
Thanks, Beth. I never paid that much attention to what you said, but it's probably true that they do that since it's a common misconception that a vote for Republicans is a vote for the rich and big business. I think that might have been true before, but the Democrats are as much for big business and the rich as any Republican. It's a tough myth to dispel, so they probably play it up to their advantage..

I don't think that's the only reason, Peter, but when I hear liberal voters claiming that Obama non-supporters are racist when they've clearly given other very conclusive reasons that are not at all racist as to why they don't want him to be the next President, it is probable that it's just a transference of their own guilt.

Funny, De.

"You might be right in the assumption that some Whites are voting for Obama partially as an act of atonement, but why is that so bad?"

That's just not the way you choose a leader. That's why it's so bad. You choose a leader on his ability and performance, on his integrity and policy, not on his skin color. If you're a White who feels he needs to atone, then there are plenty of other ways to assuage your guilt.

The other thing you said is that
"this is a new phenomenom for me to witness in my lifetime, one's Blackness being described as an advantage." Affirmative action programs are certainly another way that Blacks have had advantages over Whites. Ivy League universities will often choose a Black over a White to even out their population, as they will with women over men. I think it's wrong. I just saw an article here the other day addressing the fact that women are still not paid what men are for the same work. I have to wonder if some of the women who have gotten educations from better schools are just not that qualified, so the affirmative action snowballs into the workplace, but now it's a matter of where the men are separated from the boys, so to speak, and when money talks the BS walks.
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Mark-John K. Jul 5, 2008, 3:57pm EDT
Sue B.-

This is an EXCELLENT and COURAGEOUS essay.

If you've read any of my essay's, Sue, (and, You are getting to know me) Your statements here are empirical, and absolutely True. There is neither use nor excuse for this kind of behaviour. Thank You so much for having the gut's to say what needed to be said.

As I've said earlier, Sue; there seems to be an awful lot of "white guilt" going on, these day's..."
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 4:18pm EDT
Thank you so much, Mark-John. The souce of opinion is every bit as important as the opinion itself.
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Peter Joseph Swanson Jul 5, 2008, 4:25pm EDT
I don't think "white guilt" is what white Dems are thinking about these days. It's how to steer this country in a positive direction again. It's about our foriegn wars, economics/debt, taxes, education, equal rights, and health care.
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 4:47pm EDT
"I don't think 'white guilt' is what white Dems are thinking about these days"

I don't think that they'd even admit it if they were thinking about it, Peter. I also think it's more a subconscious process that compels them. Why else is it that those who constantly point out that people who don't want to vote for him are racist? If they really think that I have to think that it's transference of their own prejudicial guilt, either past or present.
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micky d. Jul 5, 2008, 4:51pm EDT
Barack Obama,first black man to be nominated by a party to run for president. If Barack were a white man with the same resume would he have been nominated?.
The "black" Barack was an active member of an anti-white racist church for 20 plus years. Has almost no gravitas in politics to warrant the presidency,former community organizer ala Al Sharpton type. Frienship with anti-American terrorist who bombed bldgs. in America and said he wishes he could do more.
The"white" Barack was a an active member of an anti black racist church. Was friends with someone who bombed black churches and wished he could have done more. C'mon folks the white guy would have had no chance and we all know it. Just be honest, his color got him the candiacy,and may well get him elected. And if it does I hope he does a good job, for America.
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Peter Joseph Swanson Jul 5, 2008, 5:19pm EDT
There's always a lot of subconscious things going on for everybody. But these days the issues are just so huge that I can't imagine the subconscious overwhelming the conscious, as you have suggested that it is.

Your argument would have been genuinely interesting if we were talking about this as John Edwards bowed out. The three main candidates had such similar platforms that it would have been easy to say the Dems said. "Okay then, we'll take the black man version - just to say we can".

But after that it just got too complicated with Hillary's dynamics. It certainly doesn't hold up in comparing Obama with McCain. Their platforms are just too glaringly different.

And I just don't think there's too many white Dems running around feeling guilty. I know I don't. I have no idea why I should.
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 5:46pm EDT
Peter, I've never seen you accuse anyone of being racist because they didn't support Obama. I think you truly like him as a candidate for reasons you deem valid. There's nothing wrong with that.

You can never dismiss the subconscious though. It's far more compelling as to how people act and react than the conscious in so many instances, not just here. If someone accuses someone of being something that they are not, and with no evidence to support the accusation, doesn't it make you wonder what has compelled them to say such a thing? It's usually a case of transference. The accuser, very familiar with the transgression, usually because they have been guilty of it themselves, finds it very easy to transfer it to someone else.

It's a matter of guilt, but even more a matter of hiding the shame and making it a point to let everyone know, including making themselves believe that it could never be them that would think in such a sordid fashion, so it's got to be someone else, thus the accusations.
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Peter Joseph Swanson Jul 5, 2008, 6:00pm EDT
ha ha - I really do think there are Republicans who are voting for McCain, even though they don't like him (really really REALLY wanted Huckabee to win) who will still vote for McCain, not because he's white but because he's a REPUBLICAN and that alone makes his platform closer to theirs (and Huckabee's) then Obama.

If anybody tries to make that a matter of race then they are rather irritating.

I was for Hillary - and since her platform was rather close to Obama's then I'll just now wish him the luck.

As far as how the subconscious works, I won't say I agree or disagree - I just don't know. I JUST don't - ha ha.

HA
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t b. Jul 5, 2008, 7:47pm EDT
I am a white conservative.
If I were a democrat I would vote for Obama
I Hillary was on his ticket as the VP
I would not vote.
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t b. Jul 5, 2008, 7:48pm EDT
If Hillary....
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 8:11pm EDT
You have to love someone that writes an article based on race and accuses some other "group" of being the ones that bring up race too often. WoW!!!!
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 8:13pm EDT
"Barack Obama,first black man to be nominated by a party to run for president. If Barack were a white man with the same resume would he have been nominated?."
Micky D.

Let's see, does the name JFK ring a bell? A short term senator that ran for president. Very similar resume there if you ask me.
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 8:20pm EDT
The "black" Barack was an active member of an anti-white racist church for 20 plus years. Has almost no gravitas in politics to warrant the presidency,former community organizer ala Al Sharpton type. Frienship with anti-American terrorist who bombed bldgs. in America and said he wishes he could do more.
The"white" Barack was a an active member of an anti black racist church. Was friends with someone who bombed black churches and wished he could have done more. C'mon folks the white guy would have had no chance and we all know it. Just be honest, his color got him the candiacy,and may well get him elected. And if it does I hope he does a good job, for America.
micky d., Jul 5, 2008, 4:51pm EDT

Can we have the FACTS that support this? I am a member of the Catholic Church. A church that has covered up Child molesting for years, paid out billions of dollars to cover it up as a matter of fact. Billions of dollars that people like me gave them to begin with. I am sorry but somehow I don't think that makes me a child molestor! In fact I hate the whole concept and think that anyone that does it should be locked up in a room alone for life. or worse!! If only the Catholic Church thought that way, they think that if you do it, you should be moved to another Parish where there are other kids. Or at least that is what they used to think. Now they are finally attempting to clean it up!!!
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Kay M. Jul 5, 2008, 8:21pm EDT
The people who should be feeling guilty and have a need to atone are those who voted for George Bush twice.
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De (It takes a pillage to raze a village.) M. Jul 5, 2008, 8:26pm EDT
Uh, people, getting elected President has nothing to do with one's ability to run a government and everything to do with being the most popular kid on the playground. It's easy to win. Just promise the other kids cupcakes everyday.
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De (It takes a pillage to raze a village.) M. Jul 5, 2008, 8:26pm EDT
Georgie never gave me my cupcake. In fact, he took my lunch money and made me do his homework.
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 8:27pm EDT
Hilary would be the candidate right now if she didn't run such a lame campaign! It has mnothing to do with black or white!!!

Can you explain "white guilt" to me? It is an interesting concept! I have been a white man all of my life and I don't think I have ever felt guilty for anything at all that I personally didn't do wrong on my own. Since I never owned slaves, I never stopped a black man from getting a job, I never was a Klu Klux Klan member, I never said "you can't be here because f your skin color", etc.... I don't think that myself or most other sensible thinking people would do anything out of guilt for something they didn't personally do!!!

That's like saying because you are a Conservative Republican, you owe the whole world an apology for how badly GWB and his gang have screwed things up! Do any of you feel that way?
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 8:30pm EDT
I guess since anyone that ever got elected as the president for the first time never had that job before, it really a tough argument to say that "your resume" doesn't allow us to elect you. I wonder if they said that to George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, FDR, Lincoln, Kennedy, Eisenhower, etc...... Maybe hey should have said it to GWB, since all that was on his resume was the terrible job he did in Texas as Gov. and who his daddy is!!!
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 8:31pm EDT
De, you let a "cheerleader" force you to do his homework? I thought you were tougher than that!!!
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 8:34pm EDT
"You have to love someone that writes an article based on race and accuses some other "group" of being the ones that bring up race too often. WoW!!!!"


No, Bob, the WOW is in your inability to read and understand what I specifically wrote in language for a fifth grade comprehension skill set to
avoid moronic comments like that one. There's no sense even reading the subsequent comments you posted, let alone answer them, since without an understanding of the material, we may as well talk about Rice Krispies. I'm sure you're at least familiar with that SNAP, CRACKLE and POP sound between your ears.
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De (It takes a pillage to raze a village.) M. Jul 5, 2008, 8:35pm EDT
I know! I know! But he hit me in the head with this Mead organizer! (yes, it had dolphins on it)
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Linda G. Jul 5, 2008, 8:36pm EDT
I don't support Obama because he is inexperienced, too liberal and disrepectful to the military and our country. His skin color is irrelevant, but I do objects to his disciples claiming everyone that does not bow down in his presence is a bigot!
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 8:52pm EDT
Sue, thanks for the insults which further prove my point! Peace!!!!
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 8:54pm EDT
"I think there are many White liberals who are attracted to Obama just because he is Black. As I recently stated in some commentary, it's usually the liberals who bring up his race. Many like to point out that every person who doesn't want Obama to be the next President is a racist"

If this isn't an article about race, can someone please enlighten mef what would qualify as such? I mean after all , I do only have a fourth grade mentality, just ask Sue!!!
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 8:55pm EDT
Okay De, now I understand!! Those darn Mead organizers can hurt quite a bit!!!!
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 8:56pm EDT
"If Barack were a white man with the same resume would he have been nominated?"

Absolutely not, Mickey. The resumé shows far too little background and experience, but the white man with the same rhetoric, expressed with such eloquence, would have been nominated, I believe.
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 8:58pm EDT
Just because the article has the word 'race' in it, doesn't mean it's about the Kentucky Derby, Bob. You have to read what the word means in relation to the whole point of the article, commonly called its context.
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 8:59pm EDT
It's all good too though Sue, I am headed to eat my Rice Krispies now. I just love that "snap, crackle and pop". Especailly when it comes from people who are easily angered by someone that disagrees with them!!! Snap being the sound of them being so upset, crackle being the sound of their blood boiling and pop being the sound that their head makes as it explodes :-)
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:02pm EDT
I did read the whole article Sue, in it you mention race or black ad white several times, sorry if I pointed that out to you! You did say that you think it is the reason why people are going to vote for Obama. Yet you also said that it is "the Liberals that bring up race all of the time", in an aricle that you mentioned race many times. I apologize for pointing that out to you and striking a nerve!!!
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LittleMissSunshine - Shel & Barney Rule L. Jul 5, 2008, 9:05pm EDT
Sue this is a good article. I feel very close to the way you feel. Unlike some, I do see the whole white guilt thing.

I put up an article about the tactics of using Clark and Webb to smear McCain. I got called a racist too. My article had nothing to do with race. Some people are stupid. They can't be helped. Worry about those who are reasonable. The rest, just ignore.
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:07pm EDT
Absolutely not, Mickey. The resumé shows far too little background and experience, but the white man with the same rhetoric, expressed with such eloquence, would have been nominated, I believe.
Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz

Who that ever got elected as a first term president had the background and experience to justify them doing the job? I know that any job I ever applied for, they looked for how I had done a similar job in the past. Did any of those that were elected do a similar job to being president in the past? I do know though that the first time I got hired for a different type of job than I had before, I did my best to impress the people that hired me and warrant thei faith in me. It's a shame that GWB didn't do that. Oh wait, he actually wasn't elected the first time was he?
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:08pm EDT
Shelly, are you calling me stupid?
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:12pm EDT
I think it is pretty obvious that even though I only graduated 4th grade, I definitely do ot warrant the term of stupid!! But that's cool if that is what you hae to go on. All I did was say that someone that says "it's the liberals that most aways bring up race" was the one writing the articleabout race. Is that a "stupid" observation? Did I disagree with her that there may be some people out there who are voting out of a "guilt factor"? I don't see where I said that, can you point that out to me? I am stupid you know so I might be missing it. I did also say that personally will not vote out of guilt that I do not have. But I guess that is stupid also... DUH, I really is dumb.....
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:14pm EDT
Hey, I just thought of something else.... I wonder if the Vietnamese Americans are going to vote for McCain because they feel guilty that he was a prisoner of war in a Vietnamese prison camp... Nah, that's just me being stupid again!!!!!
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:15pm EDT
"Just because the article has the word 'race' in it, doesn't mean it's about the Kentucky Derby, Bob"

WHAT???????????????????????
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Brian T. Jul 5, 2008, 9:16pm EDT
What I think is most frustrating for those who don't support Obama is the guy's political smarts and ability to deal with the media. Having a former Chicago news paper man on staff (David Axelrod) doesn't hurt Obama's ability to deal with the media at all. Obama being media smart and politically smart beyond his years is the most frustrating thing for those non- Obama folks. The man just has his stuff together.
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Debra (Gather SiteWarrior Extraordinaire) Jul 5, 2008, 9:18pm EDT
Hahaha!!!
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:19pm EDT
"I don't support Obama because he is inexperienced, too liberal and disrepectful to the military and our country."

Please explain the facts behind him being "Too liberal" or when he was "disrespectful to the military and our country"

I must have been at my remedial reading classes when he did that.
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 9:19pm EDT
Shelley, thank you for that. I guess I feel it somewhat important to try to reach people. Sometimes I can be nastier than I'd like to be because I know it gets their attention. When I just try to explain nicely, they don't get it at all. You're right, they probably should be ignored, but I'm going to give Bob one more chance here and then take your good advice.

Bob, let me remind you that I'm talking about the inanity of this comment. "You have to love someone that writes an article based on race and accuses some other "group" of being the ones that bring up race too often. WoW!!!!"

If you were going to write an article about how some people like vanilla ice cream with salt on it and you don't like that, how would you go about writing about people who like salt on their vanilla ice cream without writing about vanilla ice cream? The article was not at all about people who bring up race too often. The article was about many people who support Obama who accuse others who don't support him of being racist. I don't know what other way to write an article like that without using the words race and racist. The article is not about what you said it's about though.
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 9:22pm EDT
You know, Debra, it's all your fault anyway. He wouldn't even be here if he hadn't seen me on your recent article. I have to assume that because I don't think he's ever showed up before on any article I've ever written. Have a good laugh now, but I'll get you back. :)
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Brian T. Jul 5, 2008, 9:24pm EDT
Part of disrespect to the military is trying to shaft vets out of their benefits in order to save a buck. Obama has never turned his back on vets or short changed them on benefits.
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Debra (Gather SiteWarrior Extraordinaire) Jul 5, 2008, 9:26pm EDT
Okay, Sue, now that I'm done laughing at some of the incoherent responses,

I don't agree with you that "liberals are driven by guilt of prejudice".

Personally, I think people are voting for him because they like him, believe him and want what he offers to be true. He has a huge following of young college students. I don't think this generation is riddled with guilt or prejudice.

I think it's the old farts and the media who keep harping on racial bias.
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 9:31pm EDT
Not all of them, Deb. I'm specifically speaking of the ones who say that anyone who doesn't is a racist. They're the ones I believe are transferring their own feelings.
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:33pm EDT
Please Sue, Debra is so far out of my chain of thought and unimportant to me that I wouldn't even waste my time following her or anyone associated withher around.

I just happened to see your article when I was looking at my feed on my home page. But yet you accuse me of something that isn't true while you are saying that I accused you of something that isn't true.... WOW again!!!

You also say that "you are going to give me one more chance".. Wow, thanks Sue.. I am honored!!!!!
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:34pm EDT
Wow, it is not often recently that Debra and I have agreed! Maybe Terry was right and we do have more in common than we would both care to admit!!
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Debra (Gather SiteWarrior Extraordinaire) Jul 5, 2008, 9:36pm EDT
I doubt it Bob.
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:37pm EDT
Sue, maybe I will agree that you have a point about "some" people if you will agree that there are some people that will not vote for Obama simply because they are racist? I of course do not know anyone that is favoring Obama out of racial guilt. I have however ran into quite a few who are against him because of racism!!!
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:38pm EDT
So do I Debra, and I happen to like it that way!!!!
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Brian T. Jul 5, 2008, 9:39pm EDT
Does anyone out there know how John McCain is doing with his anger management problem now days?
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:39pm EDT
Also would you care to give me an example of anyone in particular that you know that is voting for him out of "racial guilt". I can give you a few that are voting against him becasue of racism!!!
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N. K.* . Jul 5, 2008, 9:40pm EDT
I guess the point is that no one really knows what goes on inside someone elses mind when it comes to this sort of thing. I support Obama because I genuinely like the man and what he says. There's no guilt involved. If he were an older white man, I would still support him. If he were a black female, I would support him. If he were an Asian man, I would support him. It's not about guilt. It's about HOPEFULLY changing the direction this country has been headed for a long while now. I have no idea if he'll win or not. If he does win, I don't know if he will be able to do much either. I really don't. I hope so but I don't know. (That's my serious answer)

Does that mean that any black voter who pulls the lever for McCain is capitulating to the white man again because they feel inferior? (That's my sort of joke answer) Of course not and it would be very wrong to suggest such a thing, wouldn't it?
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:41pm EDT
Brian, haven't heard anything recently, but I may just vote for him because I feel guilty about how I have always felt about people that have anger problems. ;-)
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 9:41pm EDT
"Sue, maybe I will agree that you have a point about "some" people if you will agree that there are some people that will not vote for Obama simply because they are racist?

I'm really sorry, bob. You still don't get it and I can't agree with you on anything because I don't know what the hell you're talking about either.
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:42pm EDT
Nick, summed up without any hatred or insults and in an intelligent fashion. Watch that woul you!!! Somehow that may be viewed as stupid to some people!!!
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N. K.* . Jul 5, 2008, 9:43pm EDT
If he were a black female, I would support him.

Nick K., Jul 5, 2008, 9:40pm EDT

I guess if he were a black female, I would support her. (It's been a long day!)
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Debra (Gather SiteWarrior Extraordinaire) Jul 5, 2008, 9:43pm EDT
I'm specifically speaking of the ones who say that anyone who doesn't is a racist. They're the ones I believe are transferring their own feelings.

There might be some, I wouldn't know for certain who they are, unless I see it for myself. (and bet you ten to one, those people are old farts. lol) The young people aren't paying attention to the racial factor.. they're probably rolling their eyes at it. I loved De's response, " I'm liberal and an Independent...so I need a bit more wooing from a candidate than just his being Black. However, Will Smith....call me, baby." I think she summed it up for most people.
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Brian T. Jul 5, 2008, 9:44pm EDT
I understand that McCain's rep is to go off like a missile and then say I'm sorry later. If he goes off and nukes some one as Prez sorry won't help much.
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:45pm EDT
Sue, at this point all I would say is "whatever" and sorry if my fourth grade mentality is above you!!!
"Sue, maybe I will agree that you have a point about "some" people if you will agree that there are some people that will not vote for Obama simply because they are racist?

Can I put it any plainer than that? That may even be written at a third grade level.. Are you saying that you do not understad that I am saying that there are people out there that will vote against Obama because of the color of his skin, no matter if he is better qualified for the job or not?
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 9:47pm EDT
"Does that mean that any black voter who pulls the lever for McCain is capitulating to the white man again because they feel inferior?"

Nick, even though you say it's a joke, you don't seem to understand either. I don't know of any Black voters who would say such a thing even jokingly, yet there are several White liberals who have called others on this site racist simply because they don't support Obama. I have to think that these white liberals are getting that idea from somewhere. As I said to Peter above, "If someone accuses someone of being something that they are not, and with no evidence to support the accusation, doesn't it make you wonder what has compelled them to say such a thing? It's usually a case of transference. The accuser, very familiar with the transgression, usually because they have been guilty of it themselves, finds it very easy to transfer it to someone else."
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Debra (Gather SiteWarrior Extraordinaire) Jul 5, 2008, 9:47pm EDT
Ignore him, Sue. He's attempting a take over. HA!
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:49pm EDT
Or Brian, let's take that a step further, he is also quoted as saying while on his tour bus "Alzheimer's is not all that bad, you can hide your own Easter eggs"

So we may now have a possible president with an anger issue and potential alzheimer's. So he loses his temper and in that flash says "isn't thisthe red button that hit to call my doctor when i am angry" Ooops, there goes Cuba!!!!! "Sorry about that" Cuban and American public!
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 9:50pm EDT
"Are you saying that you do not understad that I am saying that there are people out there that will vote against Obama because of the color of his skin, no matter if he is better qualified for the job or not?"

I'm saying that the answer to that is irrelevant here because that's not the point of the article. Maybe you should move on, Bob. Thank you for your comments.
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:51pm EDT
Sue, all Iknow is that I have seen to people on here that are showing racism because they are showing racism, not because of who they are or aren't voting for. Can you deny that?
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:52pm EDT
sorry for the typos!
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Rex T. Jul 5, 2008, 9:52pm EDT
Sue, I think Bob is doing a wonderful job of making your point. Good article.
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:54pm EDT
That is the whole point of the article Sue!! People who are voting one way or the other because of the color of someone's skin! Or a guilt factor based on the color of someone's skin. Is it not? Sure Sue, I'll move on, You're getting hammered so that is what you resort to..... Again let me say WOW!!!!!!
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 9:54pm EDT
:) Rex! Funny!
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:54pm EDT
Sue, I think Bob is doing a wonderful job of making your point. Good article.
Rex T., Jul 5, 2008, 9:52pm EDT

Rex, could you explain that, please?
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Brian T. Jul 5, 2008, 9:55pm EDT
Hey I heard that McCain blocked the MLK holiday in his state and also supported the South African government for a long time under the apartheid system. McCain has since done a turn around but this guy can't think 5 yrs down the road. McCain has no foresight or sense of history what so ever.
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:56pm EDT
If the point of the article is that people will vote based on prejudices on both sides, than you are right! I am doing an excellent job proving it!!!
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Debra (Gather SiteWarrior Extraordinaire) Jul 5, 2008, 9:58pm EDT
Was this article written because of some people on Gather? Or is it generic, mostly coming from media reports? I'm trying to understand what caused you to feel the way you do.

It's not something that has ever crossed my mind. It bothers me when anyone uses the race card, whether they're Democrat or Republican.. (and everything in between) To me, race is a non issue, as it should be.
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 9:59pm EDT
Wow! I agree with Debra again!! This is starting to scare me!!!!
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Sue B.© The Sting IS Worse Than the Buzz Jul 5, 2008, 10:00pm EDT
It's midnight or so, you're yawning, haven't offered a drink in the last half hour or so, and you just think that they're going to get the hint. You say, "I have to get up pretty early tomorrow." They agree that they do too. No one moves. You finally go to the hall closet and get their coats. After a full night of dinner, conversation, music and drinks at your expense, someone takes offense and says, "Sure Sue, we'll leave. You don't like our company just because I told you that my steak wasn't rare enough. WOW!"
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Debra (Gather SiteWarrior Extraordinaire) Jul 5, 2008, 10:01pm EDT
go away. you bother me.
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N. K.* . Jul 5, 2008, 10:01pm EDT
No Sue, I do understand and my example may have been in poor taste. I apologize for that. I was just trying to make a point. The issue of transference is accurate. Sure. It's like the guy in high school who accused everyone he didn't like of being gay in the end turns out to be gay himself. Sure; that's classic in psychology. And I have seen some of precisely what you are saying on Gather and in real life. But I don't see it as being as prevalent as you seem to say. It's out there, sure. But I do think that the majority of Obama supporters are supporters because we like his message and we like the man not because we are trying to assuage some cloudy "white guilt" that hangs in the back of our minds.

I have asked repeatedly for people who oppose Obama to explain why. Some are happy to and will say the reasons that have been oft cited around Gather. Inexperience, lack of time in politics, opposition to his foreign policy stance...which are all fine and valid reasons for moving your support somewhere else. I do grow concerned when I see so many people immediately turn crimson when you suggest that he is the best candidate and the best they can come up with is to call you a "moonbat" liberal rather than explain their position.

See, now to me, that says a lot. If we are willing to try and read peoples minds then I can read what I want into how they react. I choose not to, it's too depressing to think that there are still, in this day and age, people who can look at a persons skin and make an immediate decision. I prefer to think that most Americans are smarter than that. I prefer to think that this is all about our feelings on policy and the course and direction of this country and not, as someone above, so wisely put it, "who's the most popular kid on the playground".

And no Debra, I am not interested in a takeover (if that was directed at me - if not, sorry. Ignore the comment).
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Brian T. Jul 5, 2008, 10:03pm EDT
Some people will remember Obama' s past and some will remember McCain's past and will vote accordingly. The temper, MLK issue and apartheid on the McCain side is why i won't be voting for him.
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Debra (Gather SiteWarrior Extraordinaire) Jul 5, 2008, 10:04pm EDT
no, it wasn't directed at you Nick.
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Bob C. Jul 5, 2008, 10:06pm EDT
I love the intelligence that is shown on these streams!!!! Wow, the guest that never leaves. I love it!! Such a good one,

Debra, are you talking to me with the "bother you" comment. If so that is very good, because truth be told I can't bother even half as much as you "bother" me or most other people on Gather. If you do not want me to say anything to you, please refrain from doing the same to me, and it'll work out well!

Nick, yet again for are making the most sense but I think Debra's assinine comment about taking over was directed at me...
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penni d. Jul 5, 2008, 10:08pm EDT
Methinks some didn't quite get the POINT of the article, Sue...I was accused of being a racist because i said i did not trust the man and would not vote for him...i don't care if he was the whitest thing we'd ever seen, nor if he was purple...I stand behind my opinion...:)
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Debra (Gather SiteWarrior Extraordinaire) Jul 5, 2008, 10:08pm EDT
Thanks for clarifying, Sue. I figured someone got your dander up. You may or may not be correct about those you are referring to. ( I honestly wouldn't know ) You're correct, I don't experience what some who do not support Obama experience. I liked Obama before he became a household name. I liked what he had to say.
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