by F. Jeanette c.

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A tribute to a friend.

June 30, 2008 04:22 PM EDT

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I would like to take a few minutes to tell my fellow writer's that my favorite group the Hampton Roads Writer's has just lost one of our own. Barbara "Bobbie" Hartin, was a lovely person with a friendly soul. She enjoyed people and touched most that came in contact with her.

In 2000 she started writing and really developed a passion for that part of her creative life. Some of her work is shared on the pages of Moondance: Celebrating creative women, an E-Zine for readers and writers. When you have the time visit the site and read her work.

I attended her memorial service on Friday the 27^th of this month. This memorial was all about Bobbie. There were contributes, a bagpiper, prayers and tears. I came away knowing how much I'd missed not having a closer relationship with her. If you have someone that you care about reach out to them before it's too late.

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Comments: 26

Chris E. Jun 30, 2008, 4:28pm EDT

Sorry for your loss. I know what you mean about reaching out. My husband lost a friends and co worker this week. He will be doing the fly over for his funeral Thursday. It really gives you a reality check about what is important in your life when you lose someone.

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Tory H. Jun 30, 2008, 4:37pm EDT

I'm so sorry to hear that.

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Risa G. Jun 30, 2008, 4:55pm EDT

So sorry for your loss. I agree that a lot of people do not reach out before it is too late. Tell your loved ones how much you love them before you are gone and can't do it anymore.

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Anne W. Jun 30, 2008, 5:05pm EDT

It's good that you learned a good lesson in your time of loss and thanks for sharing!

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Beth - Doing God's work Daily J. Jun 30, 2008, 5:06pm EDT

I am sorry to hear that... Prayers for peace during this time of loss

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Marianne M. Jun 30, 2008, 5:43pm EDT

Sorry for the loss of your friend ... thanks for the good advice!

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Jean, just the teensiest bit odd, F. Jun 30, 2008, 5:50pm EDT

That's good advice for all of us, Jeanette...

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Randall C. Jun 30, 2008, 6:05pm EDT

Reach out and touch someone.....very good....

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meg pattinson Jun 30, 2008, 7:15pm EDT

i'm so sorry for you loss !

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Stephanie A. (On vacation) Jun 30, 2008, 9:59pm EDT

Sorry for your loss. You give some very good advice.

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F. Jeanette c. Jul 1, 2008, 2:44pm EDT

Thanks everyone for taking the time to read my article and make such nice comments.

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F. Jeanette c. Jul 1, 2008, 8:43pm EDT

Marianne, I just sent you an email.

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Angela <:3---}~~~~ M. Jul 3, 2008, 2:59am EDT

dropping by to leave you a 10! have a happy 4th!!

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necee t. Jul 7, 2008, 6:39pm EDT

oh dear... i'm sorry for your loss...
what a lovely tribute... Blessings...

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Angela A. Jul 8, 2008, 1:28pm EDT

I am very sorry for what happened. I wish you all the best in the future and hope you find a way to fill that whole in your heart. I've lost many close relatives of mine, the pain subsides but never truly goes away. I just hope you can find a way to heal and fulfill every day.
Live your life with vigor, that's the way to pay great tribute to your friend.

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Sarah (I want points) Jul 8, 2008, 1:48pm EDT

Life is usually too short. Great tribute.

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Curt L. Jul 10, 2008, 2:10pm EDT

A lovely tribute and good advice!

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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Jul 11, 2008, 9:04am EDT

That is so sad. This is a wonderful tribute, Jeanette.

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samantha b. Jul 24, 2008, 9:30am EDT

I am sorry for your loss.
This is a beautiful tribute.
My prayers are with you now and always.

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☀ Aunt Shanny Jul 24, 2008, 9:41am EDT

Wonderful tribute...

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lena k. Jul 25, 2008, 8:42am EDT

iam sorry for your loss i just read about it

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Terry M. Jul 25, 2008, 8:00pm EDT

I am sorry. Thanks for sharing this.

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