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by Dan H.
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August 9, 2007

Congrats to the CA newly weds!!!

June 17, 2008 12:59 PM EDT (Updated: June 17, 2008 01:01 PM EDT)
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I am very happy to say that I am from a state that has finally taken a step forward for the equal rights of humanity. CA has become the second state to officially recognize and allow for gay marriages, a right that should be afforded to all legally consenting, of age couples. Gay rights are human rights. I am proud of my state!
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Comments: 120

Sharon B. Jun 17, 2008, 1:07pm EDT
congratulations
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Donna S. Jun 17, 2008, 1:11pm EDT
woot! woot!
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Elaine B. Jun 17, 2008, 1:12pm EDT
Thanks for posting!
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Bob B. Jun 17, 2008, 1:14pm EDT
Way to go California!!!
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Ronald D. Jun 17, 2008, 1:19pm EDT
Another sad day in our history of the US, our downfall will be coming, when did things change that "good became evil" and "evil became good"?
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Diane N. Jun 17, 2008, 1:20pm EDT
good going about time!!
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EM JAY (Gather Director of Chaos & Uprisings) W. Jun 17, 2008, 1:37pm EDT
I'm hoping this time they uphold the marriage certificates issued!

Nothing my GLBT friends do with their consenting GLBT partners has any freaking effect on what I do with my guy. They work, they pay taxes, raise families, and go to jail when they break the law just like everyone else.
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Kim J. Jun 17, 2008, 1:39pm EDT
Yes--why should GBLT not suffer through marriage along with the rest of us? };->.
"evil became good" when we let neocons in our bedrooms to regulate what we can do privately, but they don't regulate corporations so corps get to screw us anyway they feel like it!
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Mary C. Jun 17, 2008, 1:41pm EDT
i totally agree...
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Dan H. Jun 17, 2008, 1:48pm EDT
Luckily, another person's love doesn't affect those who disagree with it. Further, we're fortunate to have a country in which you do not have to agree with something and yet you can still fight for its rights.

"I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it."
--Evelyn Beatrice Hall (often mis-attributed to Voltaire)
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Rodney R. Jun 17, 2008, 1:51pm EDT
allowed or not people do what they want
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Patricia J. Jun 17, 2008, 1:57pm EDT
I'm glad you're happy with your state.
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Donald M. Jun 17, 2008, 1:57pm EDT
Sorry, but I strongly disagree with same sex marriages.
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Rhetta A. Jun 17, 2008, 2:03pm EDT
I also feel that California has made a great step forward for human rights. Soon, people will be allowed to make these kinds of personal choices for themselves without government involvement, I hope. About time.
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Mark-John K. Jun 17, 2008, 2:15pm EDT
This is not about "marriage," but about the DEFINITION of Marriage. And, about a "Court" that has legislated from the bench. "California" is AGAINST the re-definition of Marriage to include gay's. The People of the State of California voted AGAINST this outrage, 61% to 39%, and the "Court" told the People to go to hell.

This is an outrage, and these "marriages" will be nullified when it comes back up to vote before the People in November.
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Bhawana 'Gather Proud Mom' Jun 17, 2008, 2:19pm EDT
congrats!!!
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Angel sent from God Secret Sisters Jun 17, 2008, 2:41pm EDT
Dan,
Nice that you are proud of your state....I am not against gays ....but I am against allowing something that goes against God 's law and Nature's law. They can do what ever they want but they do not have to tell us about something that should be kept private ...
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The Red Headed Witch of Gather G. Jun 17, 2008, 2:45pm EDT
How presumptuous of some of you that you think you have the right to say who can and can't get married.

Good for California! I can only hope the rest of the states will follow in California's footsteps.

Stop hiding behind religion as a reason why gays should not be married.
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The Red Headed Witch of Gather G. Jun 17, 2008, 2:48pm EDT
I wrote an article about how gay marriage will help the California economy a few days ago and expected a lot of these same comments and surprisingly I didn't get any.
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Sophiya S. Jun 17, 2008, 3:19pm EDT
i am so glad to hear that. i hope my state is next
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Adelaide M. Jun 17, 2008, 3:23pm EDT
Congratulations! California has finally done something that is not completely backwards!
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kelldogg ! Jun 17, 2008, 3:26pm EDT
It's about friggin' time!!! I'm just sad that it took this long! Everyone should be entitled to marry! I would much rather see two men/women married that are sincerely in love than these narrow-minded folks stuck in a loveless marriage just for the sake of religion! More power to ya, California!
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Beth - Doing God's work Daily J. Jun 17, 2008, 3:52pm EDT
NO comment... I think it is totally wrong. But who am I?
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Alisa Kerwood Jun 17, 2008, 4:08pm EDT
I for 1 am happy because thestate of Oregon wanted a civil union but that got shot down because the churches were saying that they were afraid to let same sex couples
would be seen as a love affair between 2 people with all the rights and respondsabilities like anyother couple. Way to go cali
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Mark-John K. Jun 17, 2008, 4:18pm EDT
I Truly have compassion for ALL people. However, this is not about homosexuals, this is about re-defining Marriage. Marriage is defined as between a man and a woman. The People of the State of California voted overwhelmingly against it, and it is wrong for a few Judges to defy the will of the majority. If the MAJORITY were FOR homosexual "marriage," you'd be angry with those who opposed it, because you would argue that it was the "will of the People," correct? I wouldn't mind having a few wives, either, but I cannot. Try to understand that this is not a quarrel about Love. Homosexuals have the SAME rights that I do. They are free to marry anyone of the opposite sex that they choose. I am free to marry anyone of the opposite sex that I choose. Think about it.

I do, however, understand the strong feelings, here.
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The Red Headed Witch of Gather G. Jun 17, 2008, 4:23pm EDT
So who decided that the correct definition of marriage is united a man & woman? Does the person who wrote the definition claim to be pompous enough to think they should decide what gay people can and cannot do?
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Judith S. Jun 17, 2008, 4:48pm EDT
About time this happened, even if I am hetero, I still think it should have happened a long time ago.
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T Cheri P. Jun 17, 2008, 5:05pm EDT
That is so Awesome!!
The other day I was driving thru Ferndale Mi, (know for the gay community) and when i looked over at the Court house there were at least 50 gay couples out there doing a group wedding.
I am sorry but this made so happy!!
Good for them! Good for them finding Love in no matter what sex!

I totally support gay rights and am thrilled that Cali stepped up and recogized that!!!!!!



And to the comment that Mark-John K. Left:
You may want to look up the deffination of "marriage" according to wilkipedia it states that
"Marriage is a personal union of individuals"
it says
NOTHING
about it being "man and woman"
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Amanda C. Jun 17, 2008, 5:10pm EDT
WHOO HOO- it's about time the remaining states step up and offer some freedom to their ctizens : )
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Ashley P. Jun 17, 2008, 5:32pm EDT
Congrats to all- show them the love. I am proud of CA too.
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Amy H. Jun 17, 2008, 5:54pm EDT
Thank you for submitting your content to:
The group: We Comment Back
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Larry H. Jun 17, 2008, 5:54pm EDT
thanks for sharing.
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pamela r. Jun 17, 2008, 6:01pm EDT
when will people learn to live and let live without all this stupid regulation--while i may not agree with others lifestyles it is not up to me to tell them what is right for them--sorry but i refuse to play god in this like i'm sure a lot of people do--people are going to do what makes them happy regardless of the likes and dislikes of others.
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Wanda H. Jun 17, 2008, 6:10pm EDT
It's great that we allowed marriage of gays. But it will probably be beat down when comes the Nov. election. What we need is to change the legal definition of marriage. and I am all for that. I think it needs a whole reworking anyway.

look for my article soon on just that subject.
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meg pattinson Jun 17, 2008, 6:18pm EDT
i only wish pennsylvania would follow in california's foot steps.. i think it's so amazing ! congrats to all the newlyweds !
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Kim J. Jun 17, 2008, 6:22pm EDT
Congrats to California!! I grew up in northampton, ma, right near Smith College, and have been exposed to many different lifestyles since my youth. It was never "my thing", but it was also "none of my business" what other people did. God bless America, free to do whatever I say.....Spare me, please!
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The Honorable Robbie Flynn, Governor of Robbieland... Jun 17, 2008, 6:29pm EDT
Yes! Democracy in action! I love America! Now Meg darling, keep your hopes up, it will happen, you are in a better place for it to happen. Get the son of a bitches to come nullify it in Tennessee, Bush-McCain Land, Republicanville, etc, and then we can get married!!!...lol

Im glad to see the Constitution being used again, protecting personal freedoms. Im sick of the government putting their noses in everything!
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Andrea (Ms. Conservative) L. Jun 17, 2008, 6:34pm EDT
Sorry to see the downfall of marriage
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**AngelEyez** a. Jun 17, 2008, 6:37pm EDT
thats awesome.
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David W. Jun 17, 2008, 6:43pm EDT
Let's hope they let this satnd.
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Dorothy H. Jun 17, 2008, 6:47pm EDT
I'm so glad that many people who marry are indeed in love, but a marriage contract is not about love, nor about religeon, or the worship of God. Marriage is a legal contract.

It's no one elses business. It's not for others to define what marriage is, for others.
The opposers of human rights are so unbelievably arrogant.

Disasters being blamed on homosexualality? A punishment from God, for human sexual behavior?

Did it ever occur to the arragant a#&holes that it is their hatred, and the hardness of their hearts, against others, that could ,possably, have brought about the wrath of God bringing about floods, and the shaking of the earth? Hatred is the evil. Bigotry, in all it's forms, is the evil detestable thing.
Hatred is the abomination!

Congrats to the newly freed humans!

A toast for liberty, freedom, and the pursuit of happiness!

God bless America!

Glory be to God, on high!!!

Freedoms rings, in California, today!!!
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Dorothy H. Jun 17, 2008, 6:51pm EDT
Just thought I'd throw that in there.
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Jennifer N. Jun 17, 2008, 6:52pm EDT
If only the rest of the states would follow suit.
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T Cheri P. Jun 17, 2008, 7:12pm EDT
what the hell does:

"Sorry to see the downfall of marriage"
posted by Andrea L.

mean? Downfall???

How rude!
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Sharon P. Jun 17, 2008, 7:12pm EDT
That is something to really be prod of. We in Washington keep trying, but failing to get it through.
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T Cheri P. Jun 17, 2008, 7:14pm EDT
Props to Dorothy!
I loved reading your comment!
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Carolyn M. Jun 17, 2008, 8:00pm EDT
Not proud of my state, I think it's a disgrace. But then is it any worse than heterosexuals getting divorced for any reason or any of the other things that have made this country the pile of crap that it is right now.
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Kerrell g. Jun 17, 2008, 9:08pm EDT
I'm waiting to see what the voters in California will say come November. At the same time, this is a huge move.
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A K. Jun 17, 2008, 9:36pm EDT
woohoo
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JM Van Horn Jun 17, 2008, 9:37pm EDT
I am pleased to see everyone saying their opinion on this despite what others might say.

As for the change in CA, I am curious to see how things will shape up in November, but I do hope thing remain on track and the marriages are allowed. Mainly because this is another step in the right direction. Remember, the world is getting smaller as time goes on. As a result we need to adapt and move on if we are all going to co-exist. There is enough other issues we can fix rather than focusing on trying to keep homosexuals from being married.
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Jennifer G. Jun 17, 2008, 10:20pm EDT
I don't agree with gay MARRIAGE, but I'm all for couples having civil unions with all the rights of marriage.
But I love my gay friends a bunch, and so it's nice to see that states are giving them the right to be together.
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Vic Needs Coffee Jun 17, 2008, 10:58pm EDT
Congrats! It's about time.
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Angela A. Jun 17, 2008, 11:01pm EDT
I have to say that I am proud of your home state! That is wonderful that they recognize that everyone has the right to be married and not just straight people.
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Teri V. Jun 18, 2008, 12:22am EDT
it is wonderful
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Shannon W Jun 18, 2008, 1:05am EDT
I am thrilled. I live in one of the counties where the County Clerk quit having civil ceremonies inside the building. So today I went as a supporter and was able to see marriages performed OUTSIDE the building. It was a truly beautiful day... If anyone wants to see pictures, please go to my articles, it's the last one published on my page.
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jose g. Jun 18, 2008, 2:31am EDT
Count 1 more here for not understanding why gays have to rub it in to the worlds face. Why cant they just settle for a legal binding document or something of such sort? Marriage? Wasnt that an idea formed by religion? Who are the gays trying to impress? Their god(s)?? I'm pretty sure no religious document in print as of now contains anything about marrying same sex. Thats just my 2 pennies.
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Mark-John K. Jun 18, 2008, 8:07am EDT
Yes, and again, this is not about homosexuals "being together," this is about RE-DEFINING Marriage. It is also about 5 Judges who should be impeached.

Anyone care to notice that the People of California voted against this, 61%-39%?

It won't stand, and in November the People will vote for an Amendment to the Constitution.
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Francesca V. Jun 18, 2008, 10:51am EDT
I AM NOT EVIL RON, YOU AND YOUR BIGOTRY IS.
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Francesca V. Jun 18, 2008, 10:58am EDT
Mark-John,

But total strangers can be married legally (by a minister!) on the reality show "Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire". THAT redefined marriage forever, not a gay marriage. Where was your outrage with that? Oh, but they are straight so it's okay.
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The Red Headed Witch of Gather G. Jun 18, 2008, 12:02pm EDT
I despise the people who think this is an issue of Democrat vs. Republican. I'm republican and all for gay marriage. This is a civil rights issue, not a political issue.
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Sandra T. Jun 18, 2008, 12:11pm EDT
I'm extremely proud of your state Dan! The thing that will upset me is if the voters revoke that right when it comes to election time. I'm so happy and excited for all the couples who were finally able to be married! I was reading an article that was talking about one couple who had been together 21 years!
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Mark-John K. Jun 18, 2008, 1:30pm EDT
Francesca-

I don't watch "reality" show's. Now I know why.

Melissa, you don't have any idea who I am...or what I think. Where did I say that this was a political issue?

STILL no response to the fact that a MAJORITY of Americans, INCLUDING Californians, are against redefining Marriage, hhmmmnn?

61%-39% AGAINST; but the "Courts" told the People to go to hell.

That should bother you all.
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Risa G. Jun 18, 2008, 1:31pm EDT
I am so proud of your state too! I think all the states should follow suit! I have several friends who have been married UNlegally, and now they can re-do their wedding vows and do it legally! So amazing.
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Jerri H. Jun 18, 2008, 2:59pm EDT
Ok...I really hate discussing issues as these because there is ALWAYS fervently opposed sides based *almost* solely on religion and politics. I feel that no one should be denied a civil union with another person. As for marriage, I think that is really a matter for the church, leave that to the discretion of the individual churches to acknowledge or not. People should have the ability to enter in a civil union with whom ever they feel they would like to share their lives with. They deserve to be able to buy a home, get insurance, and be able to get medical care for the person they love. Business partnerships with no devotions are allowed everyday, a personal partnership with a deeper devotion and care could not hurt. Nothing anyone can say or do will change what a person loves or is attracted to. A person that is your legal spouse or family member can tell a doctor it is ok to administer medical care, but a person who is not, cannot. Have you ever tried to see a dear friend in the emergency room? They will ask if you are family won't they.
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amy s. Jun 18, 2008, 5:10pm EDT
I believe that a man should only marry a woman and a woman should only marry a man. that is what god intended he did not want us to sattisfy our devilish side and go to fancy with the sin that plaques these people i do not care if they are getting married they should not do it it is not natural
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blaine d. Jun 18, 2008, 7:39pm EDT
congrats, to each thier own!!
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jose g. Jun 18, 2008, 8:18pm EDT
Congrats to the judges and the political system that has complete disregard for the voice of the majoirity public.
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Mark-John K. Jun 18, 2008, 9:20pm EDT
Jose-

You've nailed it...makes you wonder why we vote at all...
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Jan S. Jun 18, 2008, 10:50pm EDT
This is very confusing. I applaud love in any form between adults, but am not so sure this is a good thing. I am neither homophobic nor prejudiced, just confused. Will same sex partners qualify for health insurance benefits? Adopting children? This is a step, but much remains to be seen as to the effects of this.
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Dorothy H. Jun 19, 2008, 12:06am EDT
Why should the majoraty have a say, in a personal matter of others? Not everything about the U.S. is about majority rule. It's about individual freedoms, and rights. It's set up to protect the minority from the majority, excluding said minority from equality.

Sure, there's a tig of war, back and forth. Slavery was hard fought for, against freedom, and freedom won. Women had a hard long fight, as well to simply vote.

The majority may want to stick there noses into the private lives of others, and deny the rights of freedom for a long time, but eventually, the advocates of oppresion, and the opposers of human rights always, always fall!
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Karen W. Jun 19, 2008, 12:37am EDT
I say hey let gay folks get married....maybe they can do better at it than straight folks. Can't do any worse.
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Mark-John K. Jun 19, 2008, 1:19am EDT
Dorothy-

I'm afraid that you are confused. This has nothing to do with "Human Rights" or the "private lives" of others. This has to do with the RE-definition of Marriage. And, 5 Judges who have told the People of California to go to hell.
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Shirl T. Jun 19, 2008, 1:56am EDT
I AGREE
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Shelbia C. Jun 19, 2008, 4:41am EDT
The best advice I ever heard was from Wanda Sykes. She said that if you don't agree with same sex marriage, then don't marry someone of the same sex. As long as no one is forcing you to wed somone of your same sex, what are you complaining about. In the end everone is responsible for their own choices in life.
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Cindy L. Jun 19, 2008, 4:45am EDT
Shelbia....the same can be said of firearms. You don't like guns, don't own one. Yet there are a lot of folks wanting to ban firearms.

Marriage is between a man and a woman. I don't know why that is such a problem. And all those gays that are NOT from Californication and got married there and then go back to their states, do they know that their marriage will NOT be recognized by their state?
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Mark-John K. Jun 19, 2008, 8:25am EDT
Cindy-

Great analogy!

Shelbia-

Are you one of those against gun ownership?

I'm not complaining, I'm stating the fact that 5 Judges in California told the People to "shut up" while they write their OWN "Laws." Would you like YOUR vote to be so dismissed?
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Kay & Snowy Cat Jun 19, 2008, 8:37am EDT
Mark-John, you are taking the wrong approach here. Try this: Hey, lefties, what about those supreme court judges that ignored the will of the people and put Bush in office?

Let's see if that works. ; )
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Mark-John K. Jun 19, 2008, 8:49am EDT
OOoohhhh, ZZZING!!! (WHY didn't I think of that!?!?)

Kay, you are absolutely Priceless!!! I think I'll just let you handle this from here...
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Francesca V. Jun 19, 2008, 11:33am EDT
Amy,
I hope for your children's sake that none of them are gay.
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necee t. Jun 19, 2008, 12:32pm EDT
congrats to California...
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The Red Headed Witch of Gather G. Jun 19, 2008, 12:43pm EDT
Mark-John - I could care less about what the majority of Californians want. All I care about is that we are denying people their civil rights.

I'm sure it wasn't a MAJORITY decision by the people to let blacks or women vote, but we have the rights don't we? It's a civil rights issue. Not a political issue at all. Which is why a majority vote of the people shouldn't matter.
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Kay & Snowy Cat Jun 19, 2008, 12:49pm EDT
Melissa, please educate me, where is marriage of any kind listed as a civil right?
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Kay & Snowy Cat Jun 19, 2008, 12:52pm EDT
Okay, I will answer this for you, because I am short on time here. Marriage is a social institution that has with it certain rights allowed by law. If you give the same "rights" to a class of individuals the name is inconsequential, hence the term civil unions. Why everyone is hung up on the term "marriage" is a mystery to me.
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☼ Lisa ☼ G. Jun 19, 2008, 1:50pm EDT
I do not support same sex marriages!
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Mark-John K. Jun 19, 2008, 2:06pm EDT
Melissa-

It is (painfully) obvious that you are "careless" about the will of the majority. This is, of course, all about what Melissa wants. The word "narcissism" comes to mind.

Interestingly, it WAS the will of the majority to enact the "Civil Rights Act." Through their elected Representatives, the will of the People was expressed by their Representatives, with the following result:

U.S Senate.....73-27 = 73%-27%
U.S. House.....289-126 = 70%-30%

So, the MAJORITY is important. See anything familiar about these numbers?

Aside from the State of Massachusetts, "same-sex" marriage has been defeated by majority, by the People, every time it has been put to a vote. Imagine 5 morons, who, legislating from the bench, overturn that vote, ignoring the will of the majority.

Imagine, Melissa, what would have happened if those same 5 morons came along and struck down the vote of the MAJORITY in the Civil Rights case! Imagine!

So, you see, Melissa, the majority DOES matter. Unless, of course, you disagree with it.
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Mark-John K. Jun 19, 2008, 2:12pm EDT
Indeed, Kay, and 'civil unions' should be perfectly acceptable. In addition, and rather interestingly, a small majority of homosexuals are AGAINST "same-sex" "marriage."
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Quinn (aka Entwife) Blackburn Jun 19, 2008, 2:42pm EDT
Becoming a skilled and compassionate doctor is more than thanks for the meager help we are able to give, Dan.
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Ashley P. Jun 19, 2008, 2:46pm EDT
Congrats again. Human rights are a little better these days in CA
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Cindy L. Jun 19, 2008, 4:17pm EDT
Mark John,,,,thank you.....for the breeze of sanity you've brought to this forum. Yes, what the court has done in Californication is illegal. As I've said for years, lets bring this to vote. Let the people decide.

Um, why hasn't the gay community fought for this??/ Because they KNOW it will NEVER pass. The majority rules. That's democracy.

Melissa....Mark John is correct, the laws that were passed to allow women to vote and allow blacks to vote and allow civil rights were passed because the majority ruled. BTW, black men were allowed to vote before women were allowed to vote. Women took to the streets and protested and marched and FOUGHT for the RIG HT to vote. So, why can't the gay community do the same?

Thank you MJ
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Cindy L. Jun 19, 2008, 4:20pm EDT
Another question.....why do gays get gay rights? Do I get white mid aged female conservative rights? Just by being white and conservative, I'm very discriminated against.
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Mark-John K. Jun 19, 2008, 5:57pm EDT
Cindy-

Thank You!

NOT to mention what it's like these days to be a white male! You should see some of the looks I get when I hold a door for a woman. And have you seen some of the latest commercials??? ...EVERY white male's a moron...
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Trish T. Jun 19, 2008, 7:55pm EDT
it's about time!. I work for a collections department in a bank and Vermont is the only state that I can LEGALLY talk to a same sex spouse about a bill and make payment arrangements. more need to be like that. Yay cali!
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Patricia J. Jun 19, 2008, 10:07pm EDT
I hear Ellen and her girlfriend are getting married.
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Kimberly Ripley Jun 19, 2008, 10:42pm EDT
Hot topic here!
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carol r. Jun 19, 2008, 10:48pm EDT