Another Day

I'm sorry Linda. I just read the other article and didn't know your husband passed away. I think people don't know what to do or say. I can't imagine what you are going through, but I do care. Let the tears flow and I won't try to make you feel better or give you well meaning advise. take care for just today sending you a hug

You are doing the only thing you can Linda, the pain needs to be expressed somehow. We all grieve and heal differently, just take one day at a time. I hope the pain will start easing slowly, so that you once again can see the beauty of life.

Linda, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

I'm sorry Linda. You just have to deal with it the best you can. Everyone experiences this stuff differently. I hope you feel better soon and get some much needed rest.

It will get better, because it has to, but take your own time. We all grieve on our own schedule.

Linda, every day is so hard. Nothing seems to matter in the scheme of things...but you know, there is a light. And one of these days you will see it & start on that portion of your greiving.
Nothing will ever be the same, but know that we are here to help in any way we can.

You've had a lot years to establish one pattern of life, and now another begins. Just as it took you time to develop the habits you have now, it will take time again to figure out your new world. I always call it "trying on new life styles for size".

Time DOES drag on initially, and so do the tears. It WILL pass .. when you are ready. If it's helpful, join a grief counseling group. If not, then just learn to get through your days as best you can. Try cleaning out a drawer or re-arranging the furniture. Anything that keeps you busy is good. Just be careful with yourself; people do tend to have more accidents in the first few months following a death because one's attention wavers.

Take care of yourself, and be good to yourself. You still have a good life ahead of you; it will be different, but remember that "different" can be good.

Hugs, Lynn

Linda, time will ease your pain...take care

Big hugs to you Linda. I do hope thinsg start going better for you soon.

Linda, I wish you a good night's sleep.

Linda, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

I think you're doing the best you can... I think that you need this time to mourn...think...and reflect.... I wish I had better words for you...but please know that you and your family are in my thoughts....

How absolutely heart-breaking...

HUGS from me.

My thoughts are with you. I can't imagine your pain.

Linda my dear friend, crying is as good for your soul
as laughing. There will be a time for joy in your life
again you will know when. I am crying with you too
as I feel your pain Linda. Just know that you and the
family are in my thoughts and prayers.
With Love
Barbara

Linda I know of your pain I too have lost my husband 13 years ago. Your writtings remind me of my own early journaling after his death. My journal was the only one that understood me. I would wake up and say put one foot after the other, and just breath. It would of been so easy to just crul up and die myself, but I don't do easy. I am a fighter and I had 3 children who needed me. I pray for your peace of mind and if you ever need to talk email me.

Linda, take your time to heal. You've been through a lot and only you are going to know what you need.

They say time heals all wounds... all but the loss of a loved one.

Greiving is part of the healing process.. and is quite normal..

My mom said .. Plant flowers around your house and then you will know I am present! Dont waste time on me grieving... I will painless, and carefree.. and will be watching you... so please.. don't discourage me by sitting around moping... bring the life that I have breathed into you and do something with it...

Perhaps.. you could venture with some really good friends and do a Fundraiser in your hubbies behalf.. give some awesome students scholorships in his name to attend a college.. or a youth camp.. it could be a golf outing.. or a dinner , it could be anything!

Shine ... and let him see you are happy! That is what he would want for you!!!!

I will keep you in prayer..