I am Woman
Mother, Mom, Momma,
Aun-tee-Kat. Grand-mom, G-momma.
Flying Solo
Powered by a single choice.
Well read, Thinking,
Impatient with Stupidity,
Weakness, Incompetence.
Irreligious, non-doctorinated.
Lover of children,
Protects Innocence
As long as she can,
And will, as long as we breathe.
Hater of Lies, Fear,
Frozen, Fractured Fear..
A self-proclaimed servant, Patron Saint
To the masses
To the Armies
Of Women
Of Mothers
Who choose to have peace in the ranks.
Who chose to put the children first.
Who choose a road, more rocky, to travel.
One stinking, straining minute at a time.
In the name of mother's everywhere.
Blessings on your momma-spirits.
May you have the innate strength,
(Or borrow it, or call me,
or other sisters for help.)
When decisions need be made, for you,
For the sake of the children.
Be brave. Know that you are not alone.
Thousands of mothers struggle, every day
Every minutes, with every child.
And it is not easy.
But it is worthy.
Many weary women have traveled this road.
And emerged, on the other side,
Stronger for it, thankful.
Less likely to fail.
Still loving life.
And happy.
The gift of Simple, peaceful, joyful, happiness.
Is earned, one solitary decision,
One moment, in a lifetime of moments,
But, One minute at a time.
And,
poverty, fear, isolation, indecision?
Are just the inward-pointed faces
of the outward-pointing faces
Of Stamina, Bravery, Sisterhood, Life.
The road to Free,
open, laughing power,
Breeds women of strength, fortitude, courage.
There is naught that you cannot face
When supported by so many other unknown faces
That preceded your advent on this road.
All smiling-wishing you well,
Wishing you-peace and power.
Blessed be your solo spirits,
Wilka, 2008




Comments: 28
Just do the next right thing.
All else falls into place, or waits until tomorrow.
When you do the next right thing.
And for "evil-ality" (new term, freshly coined)
We all need an outlet, my dear.
I choose kickboxing. You choose intelligent conversation. ((smiles))
Huge Blessings on you this fine (rainy) day.
Wilka
REAL mom's get to mom in the absence of all things material.
Puppets can be made of socks that can't be darned one more time.
My kids colored the insides of grocery bags, and made costumes from them.
We recycled everything, and bought "used" for christmas gifts, spritzing them up with fresh paint or new buttons, laces, etc.
Every poor momma understands the button and penny jar. My kids often took $0.75 in pennies in for lunch money at school. They hated that! Rice and Beans and Peanut butter on celery for dinner.
It can be done. My babes are healthy as hell, and they work their tails off to make sure they never have to do without again.
The strength of doing for others pervades "momma-hood."
It can reach the realm of a natural high if done well.
It can be overwhelming as hell if no praise is received.
Praise the momma's often--that is so lacking in their lives.
The smallest thing (noticed and kindly commented on) can mean a miracle change for them (errrrr, US!)
For the work you do, Carla, and the clean spirit with which you do it, my sincerest blessings are being pushed your way.
For, like the rodeo, life is a carnival, and women are (too often) the clowns.
Wilka
Speaking of which...I just got an article published in Unity Magazine entitled "Making a Living vs Making a Difference."
My father was in my life too, but she did it all for us. She worked two jobs and taught me to value all that life brings my way and work for what I want. Great writing.
Is there an online version of Unity Magazine? Sounds like a worthy article. Did you, would you? post that article here? Or have you already?
I am of the opinion you can do both, and at the same time.
Ashley, thank you. (You were worth working two jobs for. Sounds like your mom did a fine job for you--and I bet she's glad you turned out the way you did--not that you're fully DONE yet!) I did the 2-job thing for 20 years, and now I only have to work one job--but its usually 45-50 hrs/wk. It still feels like vacation every Saturday morning!
Thanks for the comment. I have to go check out your writing now.
Wilka