At the end of this article, I have typed out the mourners Kaddish in English and I ask that you please recite it and take a moment of silence to remember those who perished in the Holocaust as well as in other genocides around the world.
Yom Hashoah is the Jewish holiday when Jewish people, and hopefully people of other religious denominations, remember the terrible occurrences of The Holocaust.
As many of you know, my maternal grandparents are survivors, as well as my maternal great-grandmother, and 2 of my grandfather's siblings. The only current surviving survivor of the Holocaust is my grandmother, who is extremely active in Holocaust remembrance. She is even president of The Society of Survivors of the Riga Ghetto, a group of men and women who survived the Riga ghetto (Latvia). It is a way for the group to stay in touch and on top of various happenings in the lives of one another. A newsletter goes out once a month, which my grandmother puts together each month.
Although Yom Hashoah was technically on Friday, May 2, many Jewish organizations hold events throughout the month of March. My grandmother attends most that are held in the New York area as long as she has been invited.
Yesterday, my grandmother was invited to be one of 36 women to light candles in a 2 hour ceremony held at the famous reformed Temple Emmanuel in New York City right on the corner of 5th Avenue and 65th Street. She received 2 tickets, one for herself and one for a guest. She invited me to go and I agreed. Wearing the required black suit, flat shoes (alright I forgot I had to wear flats but I wasn't in stilettos) and a sticker that read "Remember the 6,000,000 Lost," I walked into the 65th Street entrance of Temple Emmanuel where the 36 women were being staged for the event. The event, by the way, was organized by the Museum of Jewish Heritage located in the Flatiron District of New York City right on 16th Street.
This year, the women lighting candles would be paired with Jewish young professionals from the New York area. One of the volunteers who worked at the event asked if I'd like to accompany my grandmother to light the candle. I said I would be honored. They pinned a flower onto my lapel which symbolized that I was an escort for the day.
After 2 hours of waiting, we filed into the main sanctuary where were took our seats and the remembrance ceremony began. Two women were the hostesses of the event. They both spoke about their own families experiences during the Holocaust and the importance of remembering so that something like this never happens again, not only to the Jews, but to any race, religion, culture, gender, etc. The head Rabbi of Temple Emmanuel spoke and the Jewish High School Choir performed 2 beautiful songs, one in Hebrew and one in English. They later performed, as the closing portion of the ceremony, "The Ghetto Song" in Yiddish. Former New York City mayor Ed Kosh was there, as well as prominent Jewish business men and women from New York City including Ron Perelman and Edgar Bronfman, Jr., both of whom are members of that synagogue. Even Dr. Ruth Westheimer was there and famous and not-so-famous Rabbis from the NY area. New York Senator Chuck Schumer spoke beautifully (he had family who perished) just before a Holocaust survivor sang the Mourner's Kaddish, a prayer to remember the dead that we don't just say on days such as this, but in any service including Shabbat and other holidays.
I had heard stories about Temple Emmanuel before. About it's beauty, the workmanship that went into building it over 150 years ago. About the prominent Jewish members who are very outspoken about their religion (many prominent people are not outspoken about their heritage, which, no matter what heritage you are, is a sad thing). All of the stories does not do this synagogue justice whatsoever. This has got to be the most beautiful temple in the country. There is colored marbles everywhere. The woodwork on the Bimah is absolutely indescribable. The ceiling is carved in such a way that Stars of David are every few feet, in various colors. The arch around the main stage is a massive mosaic, with various smaller mosaics showing symbols of Judaism in bright colors, gold leaf and silver. I couldn't stop looking around.
I attempted to take photos during the ceremony and the synagogue but despite my job at Canon, I don't have a camera that could get photos close enough to see the speakers or the ornate detail of the synagogue.
All in all, it was a beautiful ceremony. It is sad to know that many of the survivors are dying out and most likely there won't be any left in the years to come, which makes ceremonies like there and others going on this month and throughout the year so much more important. Remembering what happened during the years of The Holocaust is important for Jewish and non-Jewish people alike. Remembering the terrors will hopefully stop something of this magnitude, and of smaller magnitudes from happening again. Just as with anything else, education is the best way to make sure this doesn't happen again.
Please recite the Mourner's Kaddish and take a moment of silence when you've completed.
THE MOURNER'S KADDISH
Glorified and sanctified be God's great name throughout the world which He has created according to His will. May He establish His kingdom in your lifetime and during your days, and within the life of the entire House of Israel, speedily and soon; and say, Amen.
May His great name be blessed forever and to all eternity.
Blessed and praised, glorified and exalted, extolled and honored, adored and lauded be the name of the Holy One, blessed be He, beyond all the blessings and hymns, praises and consolations that are ever spoken in the world; and say, Amen.
May there be abundant peace from heaven, and life, for us
and for all Israel; and say, Amen.
He who creates peace in His celestial heights, may He create peace for us and for all Israel; and say, Amen.


Comments: 27
peace.
My grandparents also survived the holocaust...my grandmother in the country side starving nearly to death and hiding in the woods and being forced to march through the Polish countryside by the germans on a fractured ankle...she used to tell me that while it was the worst time of her life, at least she was not in a concentration camp.
My grandfather spent the war in a POW camp. Again not as bad as a concentration camp, but still.
I wrote a three part series called "Imagine" based onmy grandmother's memoirs of that time..
Please tell your grandmother that she is an inspiration to us all for the work she is doing to make sure that people never forget.
He never really got over the guilt of being allowed to survive because of some stupid SS soldier. Especially since he had a lot of family still in Russia (where he was originally from) that were not so lucky. Only about 1/3 of his family made it through the ordeal.
And as beautiful as it is in English, this kaddish is even more moving in Hebrew.
While I may not be of Jewish descent (raised Catholic, currently a practicing Unitarian), my heart ached when I discussed the Holocost with the 2 daughters I had with my ex-husband. The fact that there were entire blocks of their family killed just because they believed something different.
i could have attended a local ceremony on sunday however i have small children that need to be taken care of and i did not think to bring them with me , and the other part is that i had written a lot of articles, one came after another, did not get that many comments but was grateful , as a result of listening to israeli radio on april 30 when israel paid respect for the holocaust victims
Arielle this was very interesting,
i would like if you dont mind to correct your use of the word "holiday", i believe memorial day is a more appropriate word
Dr. Ruth was one of the children that were able to escape Germany and brought to switzerland , she wrote about the trauma of being separated from her family though she was grateful to the swiss for saving her , she was treated as a servent
her life story is facinating, i think i read her autobiography at one point. a facinating person who survived despite a difficult beginning , an orphan.
my grandmother lost all of her siblings and mother and i know how special it is to share,the intergeneration aspect is both touching and beautiful.
i am glad that people shared their own experiences through their comments to your article too. thanks
Thank you for this. What a beautiful and important article. My husband is Jewish. His father and his family escaped Hitler, but many relatives perished. It cannot be forgotten. What a powerful ceremony that was - your writing of it gave me such a strong sense of being there. thank you. I am so glad that you sent the email about your article. I wouldn't have wanted to miss this. I love the Kaddish, and love that you included it here.
lives because their belief was different. Why my mind keeps asking
Why?? ?? I am shaken after reading this my friend such cruel, cruel
people. But remember they all will be held accountable for their......
actions Arielle. I too loved the Kaddish I was silent for a long time
because I felt the anguish of those people my heart is saddened
for all those who suffered and perished needlessly.
If there was one thing I would wish it would be that we could absorb the lesson the Holocaust is trying to teach. If that ever happened, then those deaths (and so many others) would become the guides to a far better world.
BTW You can mass mail me anytime sweetie. Your work is so worth it anytime.
Have a great day.
My father was with the US 5th Army in intelligence. He told nothing in his background - Wisconsin small town farm boy, University of Wisconsin student, officers' training, battle experience and injuries, reconnisance mission prepared him for the horror in the concentration camp. His unit did not get there until 2 weeks after it had been liberated. He said if he had not seen it with his eyes he would have thought such things had to have been exaggerated. Then he said so it is up to you and your generation to be vigilant and watch out for just not your rights but others by being active in the community and knowing what is going on in the world.
It was a time that every thinking person will always reflect on. The death and destruction of so many innocent souls is almost beyond conception! Thank you for your fine article.
With all the horrors we see on the news each day, it takes the story of one person to drive home the impact that these events have. Be educating the young, they will hopefully prevent such horrers. Too bad we couldn't reach some of the governments in Africa and Far East!
Thank you for printing the Mourner's Kaddish in English. As lovely as I am sure it is in Hebrew, I have no knowledge of that language but was moved to pray it in the English. I trust that is alright for my own personal prayer.
What a wonderful event you attended with your grandmother. You witnessed history in the making. I love the prayer at the end of your article!