Why did you say that? - A remark that really bothered me

I have been debating a few days on writing this article as well as how I was going to go about it.  I had an individual as one of my connections; same one many of you have I may add.  Please don't ask me who I don't want to start a huge war over this. 

Few days ago I received a gather mail asking me to please remove from their list.  First that didn't bother me because to be quite frank I have received others over my mass emails.  So I will first start out with this.  Why I send mass emails?  I am here for a cause , it is a prooven fact that I get more hits off people when I mass email then when I don't.  As well as being here for a cause sometimes I feel the information is really good for all of you to know rather it be a contest, event, etc.  I as well don't mind mass emails in return if I don't want to read them according to the subject I just will delete and be polite about it. 

Now the email went on and this part really bothered me.  The message was sent out in regards to Tiffany's baby shower.  Now I know some of you may not be interested in this event but what if I forgot to invite one of you that really cared for Tiffany?  Wouldn't you of been upset?  I had messages asking for reminders that as well would of upset some if I didn't remind. 

Now this person informed me that my emails was insane and he didn't care about Baby James or Tiffany's baby shower.  First where is it insane?  Because I sent the emails and where has it been daily?  Excuse me I have been in hospital part of the time now explain that one to me.  Second, To say you don't care about Baby James?  OK now this really to be frank pissed me off!!!  How can anyone say they don't care about a baby?  He identified him as Baby James so it meant he knew he was a baby.  I thought well this man is an older gentlemen I know others from that generation don't look at abuse as some of us do so I thought ok maybe thats it.  Then I thought maybe this person has never been abused maybe he don't understand.  OK if thats the case more of a reason for me to mass email as well as keep posting my articles.  Now as far as Tiffany's Baby Shower if you are not interested ok fine just delete the email.

 Lets go just a little farther here I would like to tell this person and anyone else who feels like him and I am sorry if I offend anyone here.  NO child deserves to be abused in any form what so ever.  My son, baby James did not deserve for one moment to be abandoned, slapped at 2 weeks old, pinched, held under water, neglected, do I need to go on?  For you to say you do not care about Baby James tells me you have a serious problem yourself.  Really bothers me that I am sure at your age you are a father as well as a grandfather.  Do you not care about your children or grandchildren?  What would you say to that if someone said it to your child or grandchild?  Would it be okay if Baby James had a serious illness instead of a survivor of abuse? I was told so many as a child that they didn't care I am here to tell you that hurts!  How can you tell a baby yours or someone elses that you don't care?  No it may not of been directly but directly or indirectly is so wrong.

I completed by deleting this person and if anyone else has problems with it feel free to delete me as well I am sorry I don't have the time and I don't need right now to get upset over comments from individuals who are ignorant.  No I did not respond to this person and no I won't I don't come to gather for that reason.  I come to educate and that I will continue to do.  Would this of bothered me if it was said about any other baby?  Yes it would a baby is a baby and you should never say you don't care about a baby. 

I am so sorry for venting but is something I had to do nothing on gather has upset me in such a way as this.

Now I ask in conclusion why would anyone say something like this?