I hate no one. That is my creed, and it is my nature to love everyone in Christ. Yes, I am a Christian. You may call me an ultra-liberal conservative, or an ultra-conservative liberal. Your choice. Or you may choose not to label me at all, because like me, you hate labels and the idea of putting everyone in a little box.
Islam is a wonderful religion, and one that I deeply respect, but I feel that way about every religion. Do I have anything against Islam? Nope. Actually, I've spent a significant amount of my time studying Islam, and I probably know more than most people, other than the experts, PhDs, and Muslims themselves. I value many of the same teachings that Muslims adhere to, and many of the same religious figures.
Do I have anything against Muslims? Nope. In fact, several of my friends, both in real life and virtual, as on Gather, are Muslim. Actually, about half of my friends are Atheist, a few Agnostic, a few Muslim, a few Hindu, one or two Buddhist, a few Christian/Catholic, several Jewish, and the rest something else or not sure. I don't judge people on their religion. I believe we are all free to believe what we want.
I'm sure you're all familiar with those "Christians" who go around preaching to people telling them if they don't follow ONE SINGLE WAY they're headed straight for hell, and they do this to their friends, family, colleagues, and strangers too. I'm sure your also familiar with those who do the same thing, but upon invitation, those who preach if given the opportunity. I'm not one of those people. I never preach to people's faces, never say I'm RIGHT and you're WRONG, because that's wrong too.
You can argue all you want and offer all the evidence you want, but unless someone decides in their heart they'll listen to you, you'll get nowhere. Maybe a nod and a polite smile if you're lucky, or a curse or blow if not. I'm a firm believer in the writer's saying Show don't tell. That applies to life too. If you show by your lifestyle that you're a happy blessed person and you feel truly at peace, that peaceful, blissful feeling is contagious and soon people will be asking you about it.
Does this mean I support terrorists or terrorism? No. In fact, I do not believe in many of the ideas that support terrorism. But I respect and love those who are members and support it, because we're all people, and we're all equal in God's eyes. (Allah, Yahweh, etc.) I understand the basis for it, and I learn as much as I can about terrorism, because no one wants to argue with someone who doesn't know where they're coming from. No one can reason effectively without understanding all the other sides to the question and where they stand, but most importantly, WHY they take that position.
I seek to understand the people in this world. I try my hardest to learn about other cultures, other political ideologies, other languages, other clothing traditions, other culinary traditions, and other religions. I try my hardest not to judge people, but we all do, and when I find myself judging someone, I stop the thought. Yup, I slip up, all the time too, and sometimes when I slip up, it means the end of a healthy relationship, or the end of a long friendship, or the end of something before it ever started. But I can't let it hang over the rest of my life.
Other people come down on me all the time for who I am. I am a non-conformist. I do not yield to popular opinion because Bush or Oprah told me to do so. I do not automatically side with the oppressed minority, or the popular majority. I don't take sides at all. But neither do I sit on the sidelines. I am a very opinionated person, and I'm willing to accept that my beliefs might be wrong. I believe God alone knows truth (Al'h Haqq) because He is absolute truth, and that I have only a glimpse of it. So yeah, I might be wrong. I'm admitting it right now. Most people won't, or they'll avoid the question. But I said it outright.
And lastly, for Islamophobia. I believe strongly that this is a wrong practice that needs to stop. Just like with every other cultural, racial, religious, political, or national group, it's only a small minority of people who claim to be adherents to it that distort the image of it for everyone else involved. I applaud member Mary J., found at http://marijoseph.gather.com who has tried to allow people to understand her Islamic beliefs and culture. And I condemn the actions of those (note I'm not condemning the people, but their actions) who have decided to bash her, insult her, and her people and religion. That's wrong. We all deserve respect, and that's what I'm about. I'm about love.
I love my Muslim brothers and sisters. I love my Jewish, Sikh, Ba'Hai, Jain, Hindu, Buddhist, Shinto, Wiccan, Atheist, Christian/Catholic, Agnostic, Scientologist, and Taoist brothers and sisters. And I don't judge you for your beliefs; I applaud you for the courage to share them in a world where anyone and everyone by doing so immediately opens themself up to the harshest criticism.
I am a seeker. I seek Truth (Al'h Haqq). And I seek Love. I seek to give love, and to receive it from those of like mind. Not necessarily of like religion or political beliefs. Like mind.
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Comments: 21
To respect someone, he SHOULD be respectable and to be respectable, you SHOULD respect others' rights and your own obligations. Although, I'm a Muslim (not so good, but not so bad Muslim), I disrespect all who disrespect others' rights especially their rights to life and bodily security.
I swear by God, when we heard that any crime happened in this world, the first question we ask "Is the aggressor from Arabs or Muslims?!!!".
"Not from Muslims"... "Oh! Thanks to you God so much"
"From Muslim"... "Oh! My Lord, What a disaster!!! Damn him, go to hell"
Then we ask "What about victims?!!!" and cry, frustrated, depressed and pray to God for peace of the world and God's guide for those mad aggressors.
You know, Danny... There are Egyptian Proverb saying "From disasters, you may laugh" and the disaster is that aggressors says that the world should be all Muslims and God himself said in the Qur'an which they claim with that the humans should NOT be all Muslims in many verses.
Do you see?!!! They are challenging God... lol.
We don't want them in Islam, Ylanne. We don't want them in our Religion.
They're telling lies exactly like Islam enemies... No, they're themselves Islam enemies.
Muslims have no any problem with that, Ylanne. Concerning Christianity or any other Religions. As long as the preacher say this without forcing to obey, Muslims aren't hurted at all from such beliefs.
You and I have no right to judge others, nor to grant them anything nor to deny it. But through God, I love all in this hurting world, even those who cause more pain. God Himself commands it.
When his beloved wife "Ayisha" was accused of committing adultery using false evidence, one of the Muslims "whom Abo Bakr Al Seddeq gives him money as a sort of charity" participate in this lie, and of course you know "Who is Abo Bakr?" He is Ayisha's father…
So, he swears by God that he won't give this man money any more, ever and never again.
Do you know what does God say to Abo Bakr after he acquit Ayisha in the Quran by a holy verse which used by all Muslims in Prayers to witness on the history?!
God sent another verse concerning Abo Bakr saying to him and to all Muslim "So, forgive and pardon… Don't you like to be forgiven by God, and God is the All-Forgiving and the All-Merciful".
Abo Bakr replied; "Yeah God, I'd like to be forgiven by You" and He forgive the man.
I'm telling myself this story always to encourage me to forgive. May be, if they stop their deeds, I could forgive them for it. But their victims should forgive them first.
See... God's hell is much better than humans' heaven.
But why believe in anything at all if it's not the right way? And by definition, there really can't be more than one right one. There could be more than one acceptable one, but when you start talking about right - there can only be one. What benefit is there to believing something if you don't believe it's the right way?
I totally respect anyone's religion, regardless what faith they are. All the different religions are all connected in that they all teach love and kindness. We all have that common bond. I don't, however, respect the people who take their religion and twist it for their own benefit and end up hurting others in the process. I hurts not only the vicitims, but it hurts the religion as a whole. Terrorists have taken a beautiful religion and bastardized it to the extent that everyone tends to throw all Muslims into the same catagory of being terrorists or a religion which hates and wants to destroy infidels. Don't get me wrong. I don't hate THEM...I hate what they have become and what they are creating with the brainwashing they do to future generations.