My life is so strange. When I'm not presiding over my bookshop I'm usually traveling. I'm a food and travel freelance writer, and I'm on enough travel lists to burst my mailbox. Everyday I get notices of press trips and FAM (familarization) trips all over the world. Some I'm not qualified for - meaning I don't write for the markets they want - and some I can't leave my shop for. But a few "click" and everything falls into place and I'm off! Sometimes, however, too many "click"! Last year I was in China in the 3rd week of March, France for the 2nd week of April, Spain for the 2nd week of May, Brandywine Valley (PA) the 3rd week of July, Rio for the 2nd week of August and Spain again for the 3rd week of November. So how do I ever get any work done, you ask?
This year I thought I would be good and keep my nose to the grindstone - really work in my bookshop. There is a Tunisia trip I had to decline because it takes place through Memorial Day weekend. I'm in retail - I can't close that weekend. When I told the promoters of my problem they countered with their next one after that - Christmas week! Too bad - it looked like fun.
Then I did my income taxes and found that I made as much money writing as I did selling books last year. Now I'm torn.
I'm being considered for a France trip over mid April. It is mostly to promote the French regions where most of the WWI battles were fought. This is the 90th anniversary of the end of the War to end all wars, and they're looking for some tourism off it. As a food writer for Gather.com the meals would be a big help for my articles. They'll let me know on the 25th of March. My dilemma is that there is a Kenya trip overlapping those dates that I'm being considered for! All game preserves and native culture & food -- I'm so torn! The French trip is one of a series I'll be considered for (I went to France with them last April, and am planning on another trip in September, too) so I don't want to blow that connection, but AFRICA! I'd love to do that.
There's also a Clearwater, Florida trip over 4 days from the end of April into early May. It's a soft outdoor adventure trip with kayaking, sailing and hiking around the mainland and on the islands offshore. Sounds like a lot of fun. I'm being considered for that. They'll let me know on March 26th if I'm accepted. My dilemma is that there is a week-long culinary festival in Martinique over the same time that I really want to go on. I need that food info for my gather articles. They'll let me know if I'm accepted on the 28th of March. Sounds as if I'll be juggling those two until Martinique commits. ARGH!!
Now you know why I closed my shop one day in February to go to the NY Times Travel Show. It's all about connections! I'll be meeting my own planes or living in the airports if I take these gigs. So how do I ever get any work done? You tell me!
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Comments: 37
I want your life. I really, really do.
Great stuff, Frisbie.
Your article is Featured in the Triple Name Club.
I'm going home to hide under the bed.
If you can't make some of those trips, send me the information and I'll go.
I don't think I have the readers for Kenya and they don't know me. They want a "glossy weekly news magazine like Time" What I do have is availability and the fact that I write for web sites that get over 2 million unique hits a month. So they could get desperate and say yes.
My business is primarily online. I catalogue 3500 new New York State titles. Amazon and I launched online bookstores at the same time. (Perhaps you've heard of them?) But I also have a used bookshop for readers, and a need for some place to hang my hat while I write articles waiting for orders. My future plan is to downsize, sell the Paperback trade-in shop and keep the NY books in a smaller, lower-overhead spot I can open & close at will. That future is beyond next month, but the more things like this happen the closer it gets.
Thanks for the kind thoughts and ideas!
If it wasn't for those shoes I might be able to afford to "keep" you, but someone with so many feet would just look awkward next to a green Madame. So, as much as I'm now a bigamist, I am not a philanderer - let me say no, thank you.
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Thanks for sharing!!!
I escaped to the Clearwater/St Pet area for a sojourn one youthfully exuberant season. Nice area! That's why I wanted to go back.
;-)
You know, if you guys would publish enough articles in enough venues - it would be no trouble to all travel together on these trips. I pitched that to my "posse" and they all balked! But seriously, write and publish and travel for free. <-my motto
Thanks Marilyn - I appreciate the posting and the sentiment. It is fun (and nerve wracking) to have such a dilemma.
Ok well, if you should be in the mood to sit and write post cards, send me one...
Mariana Titus, P.O. Box 46, Garden City, La. 70540 - I'm not there but I safely post that address as it's near my new old house that I'm going to purchase soon and besides it's the same mailing address I've had for a very long time...
I love the idea that you have a book shop - you're so talented - what a great life but of course, you're positive and upbeat and I know you love every single minute of it...
Well, dear one - take care and I am off to read more of your articles. Salud.
BTW, thanks for commenting on my Harriet Beecher Stowe article. Richard, you asked, " . Did you really use her words, or write this as if she said it?"
I wrote it as if she were writing it. I have done the same with others--Confucius, Socrates and Plato, Aristotle, Swedenborg, Franklin, Emerson, Hypatia and Thoreau. I titled the articles, "Look Who's Talking".
Enjoy your travels and be blessed in all you do.
That's an impressive list of writers you've covered - nice!
Coincidentally, my last two travel articles (for a website that shall remain unnamed) are in a series called "More Bang For Your Buck" where I identify how to get the most of the dollar's vacation value - either in the US, South America, or by paying in today's dollars for a cruise you'll take six months from now when the dollar is worth less. (Please note that in the space between the last two words lies a world of difference!)
Clearwater is pretty nice, but stay away from the scientologists.