Things I've Learned From My Husband

I have learned many things from my husband, and continue to learn from him on a daily basis. My husband is a beautiful person, a wonderful husband and father, and he's a true hero. There are so many things to be learned from him, and I continue to thank God every single day, that I met the man I am so happy to call my Husband. He's my "Soul Mate", but not in the true sense of the word... He's my Soul Mate because my soul is at peace and fulfilled when I am with him. My husband is my best friend, and my life partner.

What have I learned from my husband? I have learned the true meaning of unconditional love and acceptance from or towards another person. (Besides my children, of course!) I have learned that a true friend will never leave you in your time of need, and will be right there with you every step of the way. I have learned that relationships aren't easy, but that, they're not SUPPOSED to be easy. I've learned that conflict or obstacles can actually strengthen a relationship, rather than tear it apart, if both persons are completely committed to making things work. I've learned that one doesn't have to be a "product" of their raising, despite backgrounds and terrible circumstances, one can go on to live a happy, successful, fulfilling life.

I have learned that heroes don't really wear capes and have special powers. True heroes are those that are willing to do whatever it takes to get the job done, no matter what, even if it means they have to sacrifice their lives for it. My hero wears combat boots and fatigues. My hero spends days, weeks, and months away from me and our children, and doesn't complain about it, although I know it kills him inside. I have learned that if he can have the strength to do what he does, for us and our Country, then I can have the strength to make it while he's away doing his job, that I'm NOT helpless and that I am capable of doing things for myself and my children. I've learned self-sufficiency from my husband.   

My husband has taught me about patience, self-respect, and kindness. He has taught me that I'm worth loving, and that I am a beautiful person inside and out. And that's only the beginning... He is my teacher, about myself and our relationship, even just life in general. And hopefully we have a long life ahead of us to learn from each other.