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by Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain.
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September 20, 2007

Transcript of Live Chat with Jennie Nash ~ Author of "The Last Beach Bungalow"

March 06, 2008 08:53 AM EST (Updated: March 07, 2008 06:17 PM EST)
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TODAY @ 7 PM ET, join us for a live chat with Jennie Nash to talk about her new book, The Last Beach Bungalow.  You've read the reviews, and perhaps you've gotten a chance to read the book. Now is your chance to ask Jennie questions or make comments about the book.

 

Jennie Nash is a breast cancer survivor and the author of three books of narrative nonfiction, including "The Victoria's Secret Catalog Never Stops Coming", "Other Lessons I Learned from Breast Cancer", and of course the book we will be chatting about "The Last Beach Bungalow". She lives in Torrance, California.

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Comments: 107

Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 9:02am EST
This is a question that was posted on the announcement article for the chat:

How much of the book was influenced by your own life, Jennie?
Diana Raabe, Mar 4, 2008, 10:33am EST
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 9:04am EST
Another one:


I hope to be there and do have an article up which focuses on the book and people's feeling about homes, being at home and other topics related to the book. A review will follow shortly.

I just wanted to note that this book is rich in both detail and a unique writer's voice, one I think will be notable in years to come. The book is a rare treat.

I guess I'd like to ask the author how and why she had the courage to take some personal life experiences, a real life house experience and ad and blend them together to create this book. What created the sense that THIS was a story begging to be told? I write this as an admirer of the author and book. HIghly recommended, full of thought-provoking sections, a book you can both love and feel enlightened by and inspired after reading :)
J Corn, Feb 29, 2008, 4:04pm EST
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Jo C. Mar 6, 2008, 11:13am EST
I'm definitely going to be there. :)
I did want to note that this is at 7 pm ET and when I have hosted chats here before some people have come in early or late due to missing the ET designation (raising hand, as I was one of those people).

Maybe it was just me. In any case, checking your time zone and seeing where it falls compared to ET zones can't hurt...
:)
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Lydia (part of the solution) Shelley Mar 6, 2008, 11:53am EST
I'll be there. (Barring unforeseen complications... being a mother one can never unequivocally make such a statement without a disclaimer, LOL...)
: )
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Elsie Duggan Mar 6, 2008, 12:02pm EST
I would like to be there, if I can remember, as I am a breast cancer survivor since 1989 and worked for Reach to Recovery for the American Cancer Society. I would like to ask Jennie the author, if she didn't think your attitude was a great asset in beating this disease. I also am a survivor of endometrial cancer in 2001, and I would like to tell all if I can't make it tonight, that cancer is not always a death sentence, and fear is the worst enemy you can have. I hope I remember the time, if not, good luck with your book, Elsie Duggan
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Sandy F. Mar 6, 2008, 12:18pm EST
I have an alarm set and have found that it will be at 4 pm west coast time. I'll be here. I loved this book and want to chat with the author as a writer. I'm buying her other books based on my reaction to this one. I just wanted her to know that. I think the bungalow is my dream house also.
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Stephen Prosapio Mar 6, 2008, 12:46pm EST
I won't be able to be here tonight but I'd love to know about her writing process. Does she write inside/outside? Handwrite or computer? Does she do a quick first draft or make each page perfect before moving on? At what point does she show her work to others?
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René Allen Mar 6, 2008, 2:01pm EST
I plan to attend. Just in case . . .

My questions to Jennie ~

What would you like every one of your Readers to absorb from your book first and foremost?

Has your book been provided in Therapy and/or Classroom settings?

How many book-signings have you conducted, and what was the response?

Do you hold regular Workshops?

Thank you in advance for your responses Jennie.

Blessings ~
Rene
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Trish A. Mar 6, 2008, 3:10pm EST
I hope to attend. This is an excellent book and I would love to hear more from the author.
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Lydia (part of the solution) Shelley Mar 6, 2008, 5:23pm EST
Wow! Jennie's got a good list of questions to sign on to!
: )
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Marie J. R. Mar 6, 2008, 6:31pm EST
I, too plan to attend, I hope I remember,,, my niece Jennie was only 25 when breast cancer took her,,, I have a 53 year old sister who had a breast removed four years ago and since then she is ill still time to time,,, Bless you,,,
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Kay Bevis Mar 6, 2008, 6:33pm EST
Just wanted to say HI and that I will try my best to be here.
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Lydia (part of the solution) Shelley Mar 6, 2008, 6:57pm EST
I'm here. Anyone else?
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 6:57pm EST
Welcome to Gather, Jennie. We look forward to spending the next hour with you as you answer Gather member questions about "The Last Beach Bungalow".

As you can see from the above comments, there are questions to get you started. Thank you for taking the time to spend a little while with us.
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 6:58pm EST
Hi everyone. It's Jennie here. I better start typing fast to get to all the questions..
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 6:58pm EST
Hi, Lydia. Glad you could make it. Hope there's a good turn out for Jennie. The book is awesome.
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Sandy F. Mar 6, 2008, 7:00pm EST
Hi Jennie. I love your book, I finished it 3 days ago.
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:01pm EST
So first -- how much of the book was influenced by my own life? Well, all of it! I mean, emotionally speaking. I'm a mother, a wife, a homeowner, a breast cancer survivor, and I've experienced all those emotions that April feels. But as for the events -- the bungalow, the beautiful new house, the daughter running away, the widow running the contest, the house being torn down...all of it's made up. It's such magic, isn't it?? It took me a long time to get to that place of magic, but once I did, it really felt like something amazing was happening -- that those emotions came together with this story and formed something that feels real (or at least i hope it does.) At the moment, I'm working on my next novel and there's a character who feels flat to everyone, and I'm trying to dig down and get this guy to come to life....I'm waiting for the magic!
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:02pm EST
To Marie --

Oh my goodness. A 25 year old niece lost to breast cancer? What a wrenching story... I'm so sorry to hear it.
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Kay Bevis Mar 6, 2008, 7:05pm EST
Hi Jennie & Renda, I made it.
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 7:06pm EST
Hi. Glad you're here.
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:07pm EST
To Rene --

My book has not been used in therapy or counseling so far as I know, but it's only been out 3 weeks, so you never know! I did send copies to all the Wellness Communities around the country, because I think they provide such amazing services to people with cancer.

I have done three big readings so far, and the response has been truly wonderful! It's hard to describe the feeling of having your words resonate so deeply with an audience. You know, we write in silence and alone-ness, and then we go out into the world with our stories, and it's such a different thing. I actually love it! I love this stage. It's the reason I write -- to make connections with people who have felt some of the same things, or feared some of the same things.

As for workshops, I teach at UCLA Extension, and may teach an online class in the fall, which anyone could take from anywhere. Check their course listings....I also do some independent writing coaching. And I love teaching workshops -- wherever there's a group that's willing, I'm game!

As for what I hope readers will absorb or take away?? Perhaps the courage or the inspiration to find a way to feel at home in your own home, your own life, your own skin.
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Lydia (part of the solution) Shelley Mar 6, 2008, 7:08pm EST
Hi Jennie, I'll help with your book if you like... send me an exceprt.
: )
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Kay Bevis Mar 6, 2008, 7:08pm EST
I just wanted to say that I have a friend who has breast cancer. It is agonizing watching her go through all of the treatments. Each time the doctors promise that they have gotten it all. Then recently they found out that she has cancer in her collar bone. So now we go back through treatments again. I think I am going to buy this book for her. Do you think she would enjoy it, Jennie?
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Lydia (part of the solution) Shelley Mar 6, 2008, 7:08pm EST
The new one, that is...
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Kay Bevis Mar 6, 2008, 7:09pm EST
I haven't read it yet but fully intend too!
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Lydia (part of the solution) Shelley Mar 6, 2008, 7:13pm EST
I think she would enjoy it... if only for the "light at the end of the tunnel" it provides.
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:13pm EST
Hi Stephen --

I write at a computer with a cool ergonomic keyboard, at an office at the front of my house. I can look outside and see people walking their dogs, the mailman coming up the walk, kids coming home from school. I love it! I definitely don't make every page perfect before I move on; I find that paralyzing -- because I would never move on! I like to see the pages pile up, so I blah blah blah and then I go back later and see what I've got, and what's working. Oftentimes, I throw out huge chunks -- 50 pages, 75. It's part of the process. You take a deep breath and delete. For this book, I wrote 10 different drafts, all told from different points of view -- the owner of the bungalow, the real estate agent, the best friend, the husband. I probably even wrote a draft from the POV of the stupid dog!!!! I was trying to find the heart of the story, and it wasn't until I let April start talking that I found it -- and I knew it the moment I started.

As for sharing work, I have one dear writer friend to whom I show everything -- good, bad, ugly. When I feel like the ms. is in pretty good shape -- it hangs together in time, it has a beginnings, middle and end -- I take it out to a wider circle of readers. For this book, I had some real estate people read it, and some women closer in age to Peg than I am. I'm writing a book right now about artists, and I've had a painter read it, and a photographer. But at a certain point, you can't listen to outside voices. They all have different and often conflicting opinions -- so I have to force myself to listen just to me, and make a polished draft.
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Kay Bevis Mar 6, 2008, 7:14pm EST
Thanks Lydia!! We all need that "light at the end of the tunnel", don't we?
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:16pm EST
Kay --

It's so hard to be a good friend to someone who's sick. SO hard! I think it's worse in some ways than being sick, because you don't know what to do. I always suggest erring on the side of doing too much. Your friend can always say -- I couldn't read that book, or I couldn't eat that casserole, or I can't talk to you right now. But it's much harder to say, Can you please sit with me, feed me, entertain me. So I say -- just do it. Whatever your instinct is to help, just do it, and don't take it too personally if your friend rejects your overture. She's not rejecting YOU. She's just...sick. Hang in there! In sickness, there can be so much life...
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Lydia (part of the solution) Shelley Mar 6, 2008, 7:16pm EST
Yes, we do. And books like Jennie's (not just this one, she has others!) that can help her through, help her see that people DO get past it and DO survive, might be just what she needs to bite the bullet and keep trying.
: )
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:17pm EST
To Sandy,

Thanks for being such a FAN!! I can see that bungalow so clearly in my mind; I just WISH it were real! I'd try to buy it!!
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 7:17pm EST
That's good advice and I think the book would make a great gift.
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 7:19pm EST
Jennie, if we purchased some books could we send them to you to be autographed? Of course, we would send prepaid postage packages to have them returned.
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Kay Bevis Mar 6, 2008, 7:21pm EST
Thanks, Jennie! Believe me when I say over the past year, she has told me to back off. I have done that but only because I know she needed me to not see her pain. She is so strong! My friend & her family know that when she needs me all she has to do is call and we are good enough friends that I don't take it personal if she tells me to leave her alone. Because I have dealt with alot of sickness in my family (alheizmer) and the fact that Renda is my sister, I've learned to deal with a lot things!!
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:22pm EST
To Elsie,

I think that people go through sickness the way they go through life, so in some ways, the question is really, Does having a positivie attitude help you get through LIFE! And the answer, to my mind, is definitely YES. Only because we get thrown so many curve balls, you know? The best laid plans get dashed and dashed. And it's the people who can respond with flexibility and good cheer who seem to do the best. I always think it's strange when people call cancer survivors BRAVE because when you're diagnosed, you don't have a choice but to go through with whatever the disease or the treatment might be. It's not like there are some people sitting on the sidelines and other people wading into the deep end. You're just thrown into the deep end, and you have to swim. That's not bravery, it's survival. I'm awfully glad you're a survivor -- and I have no doubt you also have a positive attitude!
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:24pm EST
To Renda,

Yes, of course! Send any books you want autographed. Or, if you prefer, I can sign some stickers and send them your way, no payment necessary. Please send addresses to me through my website, www.jennienash.com
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:25pm EST
Kay, Well, you're obviously strong, too. You sound like a good friend and sister. Of course, I say -- send her my book! I like to believe that it has something to say to everyone, but that could also just be the delusions of a giddy new novelist :)
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 7:25pm EST
That's awesome. I will get with Kay and purchase a few of your books to send to you. We certainly appreciate you doing that for us.
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Christine Mailey Mar 6, 2008, 7:25pm EST
Looks like everyone is enjoying the chat! I just wanted to personally welcome Jennie to the chat and thank her for her great involvement with all of our Gather members!
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 7:26pm EST
Glad you could make it, Christine. I am finding Jennie's answers to be both interesting and inspiring.
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Kay Bevis Mar 6, 2008, 7:29pm EST
Yes, thank you so much, Jennie!
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:30pm EST
To J.Corn, who asks how I had the inspiration to make some real-life thigns into a novel....well, I hate to say it because it sounds so LAME, but I just KNEW. I KNEW this was a story I was going to tell. That tiny little moment on the schoolbus (which I tell in the back of the book) just absolutely rang true to me as the seed of something big. I have learned a lot in the process, which is this: that was my unconscious speaking, and my unsconscious knows WAY better than my rational brain what's going on. Whatever part of me responded to that little story on the bus KNEW that it was full of things that would resonate with me -- life, death, real estate, the power of place, the meaning of home. I had no clue myself that all that was in there, but I knew it was a story. The same thing happened with book #2, which I am working on. I had a few ideas, I had one scene in mind, and I didn't know what they added up to. I just started writing, and I trusted the process and lo and behond, those ideas and that scene were rich with meaning. I wrote for a full year before I had a clue...It turns out I was writing about something without even knowing I was writing about it. Does this make sense? It's what writers always say -- you have to let your characters lead you, you have to trust the process, you have to just sit and write even when you're not inspired. Because there's a part of your brain that knows exactly what it's doing. There just is. Get out of its way!!!!
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Christine Mailey Mar 6, 2008, 7:30pm EST
Jennie, I really appreciate what you say you'd like readers to take away - the inspiration to feel at home in their own home, their own skin, with who they are...I feel like that is often a difficult thing to do. To really know who we are and feel confident with that person. I do believe that when you accomplish that, no matter what your situation, you find true happiness.
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 7:34pm EST
Jennie, from the time the "seed was planted" about this story...how long did it take for the final product (book publication) to occur?
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:39pm EST
Hi Christine,

I think for women especially, it takes us the longest time to get comfortable with our own selves. We're so often defined by other people -- our father's daughter, our mother's daughter, a wife, a mother-- and we don't even really see it. Through my work, I feel like I've become the person I was supposed to be. I mean, through this book especially. IT's my fourth book, and my others are really good and I'm really proud of them, but THIS book reflects very much who I think I am. I have embraced my inner storyteller! I guess that's it. It actually happened in one moment. I was in Anchorage, Alaska doing a big breast cancer talk (with my breast cancer memoir, The Victorias's Secret Catalog Never Stops Coming and Other Lessons I Learned From Breast Cancer.) The year before, this group had Dr. Susan Love as a keynote speaker -- the surgeon who is literally trying to cure cancer, and coming as close as anyone. I kept thinking, What on earth do I have to say that Susan Love didn't say? And I was sitting next to a woman who was very bald and very sick and I kept thinking, What do I have to say that SHE can't say. It was one of those, Who do I think I am? moments. Well I got up on the stage, and I stood in front of the microphone, and I thought: OK. I am a storyteller. That's what I have to offer. THat's who I think I am. And it wasn't long after that moment that I had the idea for this novel. And here's the best thing: my NEXT novel is going to be even better! I know that's kind of strange to say, but I absolutely love it. I wrote it from such a place of confidence and passion -- having gotten (not that's not correct English -- having got?) The Last Beach Bungalow under my belt. This new novel just SINGS. I have no idea what novel #3 will be, but I know it will be...because this is who I am. A novelist. So what I want people to take away from The Last Beach Bungalow is the same thning I have taken away: the inspiration to be comfortable in my own skin.
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:43pm EST
Renda -- How long did it take me from seed to story? Three years -- but that's not writing full time. I also have two teenagers and I have three big clients for whom I write and I did magazine work and I teach. But I chipped away at it very consistently. That's the key -- to keep at it. To just keep at it. I was very lucky in that I quickly found an agent (I have an agent, but she doesn't do a lot of fiction, so I needed one that did), and she very quickly sold the manuscript -- about 8 weeks from landing the new agent to selling the book. Very unusual! For anyone who's interested, check out the website agentquery.com. You can search for agents by a gazillion different criteria, find the ones who are taking new clients, and find out how they want to be approached. It's a powerful site.
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 7:44pm EST
Wow! That is such an inspirational comment! I think it is important for a person to be comfortable AND happy with oneself too. Until that is found, I don't think you can be comfortable or happy with anyone else.
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 7:47pm EST
We are down to the last fifteen minutes of our chat. Jennie will try to answer as many questions as time permits.
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 7:48pm EST
Jennie, my "library" consists of mostly hardback books (I prefer hardback over paperback). Are your books currently available in hardback? If not, will they become available in hardback in the near future?
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Jo C. Mar 6, 2008, 7:48pm EST
Did I make it?
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Jo C. Mar 6, 2008, 7:48pm EST
Just got back from taking son to tutor and I loved this book so much!
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 7:49pm EST
You did, J and I'm glad you're here. Jennie answered your question above. Feel free to ask more.
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Christine Mailey Mar 6, 2008, 7:49pm EST
Jennie, I'm in my mid 20s and coming to the age where I've been told, I'll "find myself" - what advice would you give to a person like me to accomplish that? What things to avoid or do? For that matter, what would you tell any woman searching for that same goal? I agree that it is important to become just YOU and not so-and-so's XXXX...
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:50pm EST
Have I missed any questions? Are there others? I've been so humbled by the warm response this book has received on Gather. It's pretty nerve-wracking to have a first novel out in the marketplace, and you walk into Borders or B&N and there are 5 gazillion books, and your little book occupying its little spot on the shelf. You think, How will anyone ever find this story? How will they every connect. And then you get onto a site like this, with all these attentive readers, and nice people, and you think -- Ah. How lovely! It's a wonderful thing...
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:53pm EST
Renda --

The Last Beach Bungalow came out in paperback, which I was actually thrilled about because it's so cheap! I find the $27 novels very difficult to buy, especialy if you don't know the author! So at the moment, it's jsut paper. That could change if it sells well. Victoria's Secret came out in both hardback and paper, so you should be able to find both, although the hardbacks weren't reprinted lately so I'm not sure about that.
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Jo C. Mar 6, 2008, 7:54pm EST
Jennie -
I scrolled back and read all the answers, sorry to be late but the math tutor was really helping my son get a difficult concept for a test :) I did want to suggest that people who read the book put reviews every place they can because word of mouth and talking about books DOES make a difference. I posted reviews here, at Amazon, book blogs, etc. Every reader is a potential PR person for a writer. Support the books you love. Sorry to be so lecture-y.
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Jo C. Mar 6, 2008, 7:55pm EST
And thanks for answering my question - and the others - with such vivid details.
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 7:55pm EST
Until it comes out in hardback, I will keep the paperback. It's a good book and is a treasure for my library. I also plan on purchasing your other books. You will have to keep me posted on the newest one :)
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:56pm EST
Christine, Ha! If I only knew how women could find themselves, then I'd be rich...or at least Oprah! For me, it was really a matter of listening -- hard -- to that inside voice that yells and screams I LIKE THIS or THIS PLEASES ME or THIS IS WHAT I WANT. My sister and I joke about having a core of steel. You have to be so solid about who you are and what you stand for. The joke is that often we have cores of marshmallow! We do what we think people want, or what we think we should do, or what we think will get us ahead. But doing what we WANT? What we most LIKE? What pleases US? It's so hard....unless you listen.
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Kay Bevis Mar 6, 2008, 7:56pm EST
Hey Jennie & Ren, sorry but I have been on the phone with brother. So I will see you guys later. Jennie, Thank you for all the inspirational comments and keep writing. I will check your classes out at Ucla... Thank you for your time...
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 7:57pm EST
Kay, thanks for coming by. I'll talk to you in a bit.
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Beaker (just Beaker) Mar 6, 2008, 7:58pm EST
Jennie, I hope I'm not too late. Do you have a publicity tour planned? Will you be coming to the northwest? TV appearances? Hoping your book is wildly successful!!!
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 7:59pm EST
Jennie, have you chosen a name for your newest book?
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 7:59pm EST
Thanks SO MUCH JCorn. I appreciate so much the word-of-mouth and the good cheer. I think the women at Gather.com could start a revolution, if they set their minds to it!
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Jo C. Mar 6, 2008, 7:59pm EST
Jennie - You may have answered this question but do you think you'd have found the courage - now - to write this book if you had not had cancer? Did it give you certain resilience and nerve? I got the impression it did.
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 8:01pm EST
My new novel will be called The Only True Genius in the family.

ANd J.K. Slather -- YES, I am coming to Portland Oregon in May and Seattle in September and SF in two weeks. Are you in any of those places? If so, write to me at jennie.nash@verizon.net and I'll send you specific information on those appearances.
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Jo C. Mar 6, 2008, 8:01pm EST
Probably not the right question to ask in the last minute of a chat :)
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Lydia (part of the solution) Shelley Mar 6, 2008, 8:01pm EST
Oh wow. I thought the chat was two hours, not one. Well... it's been interesting, and enlightening. Thanks, Jennie, for the tip on agentquery.com.
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Lydia (part of the solution) Shelley Mar 6, 2008, 8:02pm EST
Gosh Jennie. Be sure and let me know if/when you'll be visiting South Florida! I'd love to get my book signed, but I'd rather meet you and get it done in person!
: )
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 8:03pm EST
J Corn -- It's hard to imagine my life without cancer! Cancer is just part of my story, now. I don't know that it made me courageous, but it made me realize that time is short...I always wanted to be a writer. I didn';t know, until I wrote this book, that I wanted to be a NOVELIST. Now I know :)
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Jo C. Mar 6, 2008, 8:03pm EST
:) Thanks.
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 6, 2008, 8:03pm EST
Jennie, thank you so much for joining us for such a great and in depth chat. I wanted to again tell you that I greatly enjoyed reading this book and intend to read more of your writings. I wish you much success in your future publications.

I would also like to thank all the Gather members who participated. Without you guys, this chat would not have been possible.
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 8:04pm EST
Lydia -- I have no plans for Florida right now, but you guys have that fabulous big book fair. Maybe I'll get invited! Tell all your friends about the book, and when it becomes a giant regional seller in Florida, they'll have to have me come :)
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Jo C. Mar 6, 2008, 8:04pm EST
Thanks, Jennie, for your time. Loved it!
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 8:05pm EST
I loved being part of the chat and all the conversations. Thanks to all of you for your interest and enthusiasm!
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Lydia (part of the solution) Shelley Mar 6, 2008, 8:07pm EST
I sure will, Jennie... I've never been to that book fair. But I'll brave the crowds if you're there.
<3
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Sandy F. Mar 6, 2008, 8:09pm EST
thanks, Jennie.
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Jennie Nash Mar 6, 2008, 8:13pm EST
You're most welcome!
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Kathryn E. Mar 6, 2008, 8:26pm EST
Great comments. Jennie, I am getting your book tomorrow from Borders and will read it quick as a bunny, then post a review. I loved your excerpt a great deal!
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Trish A. Mar 6, 2008, 9:19pm EST
I so forgot about this. I'm sorry. I will read the transcript.
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Delaune Michel Mar 6, 2008, 10:21pm EST
what a great conversation to read. so wonderful getting to know you even better, Jennie. I love your books.
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Connie C. Mar 6, 2008, 10:40pm EST
I really wanted to catch this chat. I would love to read this book but I was unable to attend. I am sorry. I am going to leave a link to the chat in the Today On Gather Article for Friday.
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Ellie !. Mar 6, 2008, 11:54pm EST
I'm sorry I missed it...at 4 pm I was dropping off my carpool partner, giving a daughter a ride to class, then rushing to pick up another kid from track...and then it was 5:15 and the chat was over.
I did read it and enjoyed!
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Beverly T. Mar 7, 2008, 1:25am EST
I'm glad these chat transcripts stay up here on Gather. It makes it so much easier for the rest of us slowpokes to get to read them! I enjoyed the questions and answers about his book. It sounds like one I'd love to read.
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Wanda H. Mar 7, 2008, 2:15am EST
I know I am really sorry to have missed this chat but I wasn't even home. I read the transcript though and I am sure to buy the book. Lord, I am going to have to get a second job so I can afford all the books I have found on here lately! Really sorry that I missed this chat tho.
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 7, 2008, 6:04pm EST
Kathryn, Trish, Delaune, Connie, Ellie, Beverly, & Wanda, thank you all for stopping by to read the transcript and leave a comment.
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René Allen Mar 8, 2008, 11:01am EST
Good Morning Everyone!

Renda ~ Thank you so much for conducting this interview with Jennie!

Jennie's answers to all of my questions were wonderful. I am glad to hear that Jennie forwarded her Book to Wellness Communities around the country, because I agree with Jennie that the Wellness Centers provide amazing services to people with cancer.

This interview with Jennie has given me more food for thought. I am more excited about reading Jennie's book after reading this interview. And, I will definitely look into Jennie's Workshops. It is good to know that Jennie conducts independent writing coaching. This is inspirational for emerging writers/Authors.

I'd like to thank Jennie for taking the time to answer my questions, and I look forward to her next publication.

I'll remember Jennie's words about this wonderful book as I read it (knowing that this is what she would like readers to absorb from her book) . . .

"As for what I hope readers will absorb or take away?? Perhaps the courage or the inspiration to find a way to feel at home in your own home, your own life, your own skin." ~ Jennie Nash (QUOTE - March 2008)

Jennie ~ Thank you!

Renda ~ This was really nice, and I wish I had been here. Many THANKS!


Blessings ~
Rene
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 8, 2008, 12:54pm EST
Thank you for coming by, Rene. I am glad you enjoyed this. Enjoy the book.
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 9, 2008, 10:29am EDT
It was a good read, wasn't it Kathy? Thanks for stopping by.
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Kathryn E. Mar 9, 2008, 3:11pm EDT
I still have to pick it up this afternoon. At least, today the weather is sunny. I loved her excerpt.
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Georgiana S. Mar 9, 2008, 4:02pm EDT
I'm late!
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 9, 2008, 6:48pm EDT
Kathryn, you will enjoy it. Hope you've had a good day.

Georgiana, only a little ;)
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Elsie Duggan Mar 9, 2008, 11:43pm EDT
I am sorry I missed the chat, but Jennie did answer my question and hope that those reading it, might get something from it, thanks for the opportunity to leave a question Renda
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Renda B~surviving the storm by dancing in the rain. Mar 10, 2008, 9:27am EDT
Elsie, you're welcome. I am glad you were able to stop by to read her answer to your question. Hope your week goes well.
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