I have encountered a very interesting phenomena that I would like to share with all of you and, also, get your input on...
My grandmother always said that I was her "birthday present" because she was born on March 9th and I was born only 22 minutes after midnight on March 10th. My daughter was born on exactly the same day as her paternal grandfather and my stepson was born on the same day as HIS paternal grandmother!
These coincidences in my own life have probably made me more interested than most people in people's birthdays and how they compare to other people's birthdays in their family from previous generations...
As a matter of fact, I have talked to many, many people over the years who share this same phenomena and I thought that Gather just might be the venue with a wide enough participation level to conduct a successful informal survey on this subject.
Many people, however, DON'T KNOW what any of their grandparents' birthdays were -- this is the biggest stumbling block that I have found in trying to do this. (Some people, believe it or not, don't even know what their PARENTS' birthdays are/were!)... So, what I would be very interested in knowing, if you know and feel like sharing, is:
Do you know if any of the birthdays (day and month) of your parents and/or grandparents or aunts and uncles are the same as either your birthday, your siblings', your children, your nieces'/nephews' or cousins' birthdays?
You, by NO MEANS, have to indicate the ACTUAL DATES involved; however, I would be very, very interested in the RELATIONSHIP between the two (or more) people involved.
For example: Yes! My son's birthday is on the same date as my maternal grandfathers'! (Please indicate which side of the family, as in "maternal" or "paternal", for the older members of the family, and the relationship of that person to the younger one with the same birthday, if you would...)
If the birthdays are not exact but VERY CLOSE (as in the case of me and my paternal grandmother), please put those in, too, and -- again, if you would -- indicate the amount of difference between the two (i.e., one day, two days, a few hours) up to plus/minus about 3 days... We'll make three days the "cut-off" -- beyond that, is too much difference, I feel, for the experiment's purposes...
SECONDLY, FOR THOSE WITH BETTER THAN THE AVERAGE KNOWLEDGE OF ASTROLOGY (if you have the time and feel so inclined):
I have found that, often, one particular sign of the zodiac is dominant within families (for instance, in my husband's immediate family, there are/were five different people, of different generations, who were all born under the sign of Scorpio, also, sometimes a child will represent some combination of both their mother's and father's sun signs somehow in their sun and rising sign or their rising and moon sign, etc. For instance, I have the same sun sign as my mother (Pisces) and my rising sign (ascendant) is the same as my father's sun sign (Sagittarius).
If either of these situations applies to you or some member of your family and you know about it, I would also be very interested in hearing it.
If the cross-section of Gatherites is ANYTHING LIKE the majority of people that I've run into in my life, I think it will surprise all of you how many of us share this similarity!
Of course, I can't PAY anybody for their participation -- but you DO get Gather points for posting (and that's in ADDITION to any "entertainment value" we might get out of it)! ;o)
THANKS TO ALL THOSE WHO TAKE THE TIME TO RESPOND!
:^)
jean



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But that's not the weirdest date in our family:
2/11/ 74: my sister gives birth to twins, and almost died in the process
2/11/75: Mommy has her first heart attack
2/11/76: OUr house burned down, while mom was in the hospital with her 2nd heart attack
2/11/79: Mommy died of Hepatic Cancer
Nothing has happened since that date, but none of my sisters showed up at my daughter's baby shower last year, because I scheduled it on 2/11/07, to put the curse to rest.
mom--10/29
dad--2/11
brother 9/19
sister 2/23
paternal grandfather--7/7
That's all I can remember.
I'm even more stupid than I usually am at 3PM
I also share a birthday month with my other grandfather and a great grandmother on my fathers side, March.
This rule was instituted after my sister was born on 12/18 and my mother's birthday is 12/18 and they noticed they got less presents that way — that and the Xmas syndrome.
Wait, those are coincidental dates.
Thanks, too, Renee for responding!
And, uhm, YAH, John... They kinda ARE! ...lol...
I don't know about anybody else, but the fact that these patterns seem to exist is a comfort to ME... :o)
Husband- Feb 27
Son- Oct 27
Mom- Aug 27
Father- March 27
Those are all I know. Hope it helps!
I told you all the major stumbling block of this little experiment has always been that people don't know their grandparents' birthdays...
(This is where "chaos theory" comes in...)
But, I am not surprised. The Reader's Digest once ran an article that said if 30 people are in a room, at least two of them will share the same birthday.
My father Feb, 11
My mother March 11
Myself June 11
My sister July 18
My brother Sept. 19
This was my core family as a child.
The order of the birthdays in the calendar year also march to our ages. Oldest to youngest. I find that remarkable, as myself nor my siblings were planned.
My maternal aunt, (and for a time my emotionally closest family member) was born on June 12, but 8 years earlier.
My daughter and neice were both born on Feb 14, my daughter 11 years earlier.
My son was born July 29
My maternal grandmother July 30---it's her I see over the right shoulder of my son almost every time I am in the hospital. I once made the mistake of answering her in front of my family while very ill. My family freaked out as she has been dead for 12 years.
I suppose that is all I have on this subject.
But I have always wondered about our dates and how these souls came to find one one another.
The pattern you have is really more what I was very interested in -- the "grandparents to grandchildren correlation"... Of course I'm no Archimedes, but I would think that when one narrows down the field to only FOUR people (one's grandparents) that the odds become considerably more daunting...
Father 09/21
Me 09/28
My son 10/11
All three of my children, like me, are Air Signs. One each Libra, Aquarius and Gemini
But my one brother and sister and I were all born around the same time in March and April. The one born on April 2 was on time; I was born April 13 and was late; my brother was born March 17 and was early. So....we could have all been born with closer birthdays. :-) Mom always figured it was because she was quite fertile on July 4.
Oh...our last sister was born June 6. Strange.
Yes, Lisa, they ARE! They're both Sagittarius!
Maternal GF- February 27th
Maternal GM- August 13
My nephew was born on 11-11 in room 211 with 11 friends and family at the hospital and weighed 8 lbs. 11 oz. My sister was 21 and had been married on 6/11 to my nephews father.
It IS, isn't it, Tanya? :o)
Libra's (my mom and I) from what I know aren't supposed to mesh with Taurus....well, my parents did divorce....LOL!
That's okay, Toni & ee... Thanks for responding!
Rose, how strange that both of you (unrelated except by marriage) grandfathers had the same birthday!
Yes, Kay! That's the pattern I'm really interested in... THANKS!
Hey, thanks anyway for letting me know, Ron! I appreciate it, my friend!
Question. Why were the other 47 weeks left blank?
I used to really feel left out. My dad was born 12/11 and I was born 1/11 though.
I wish I could help you---I don't know that much about my relatives. But, I wanted to stop by to say "hey." Good luck!
However, these are a little bit of interesting facts:
My nephew (son of my younger sister) and my maternal grandmother share the same birth date.
My older sister and I also share the same birth date, and are a year apart in ages.
The kicker is, that only my nephew and I are biologically related, as my younger sister and I are half sisters.
I'll be back if I have more interesting facts. :D
My son was born March 22nd and his aunt on his mom's side was born March 21st and his uncle on my side was born March 2nd.
My Daughter was born December 5th and my Dad was born on December 25th, christmas day.
My mom was born November 9th and two of her siblings were also born in November.
Fred, your poor family must go BANKRUPT during those 5 weeks! ...lol...
Julie, that pattern is rather cute... I guess you all have a lot of "mother/child shared birthday parties"! ;o)
Thanks for responding anyway, William!
Cousins with the same birthday, eh, Rosalyn? That could be fun...
That's fine, Sharon... Thanks for your good wishes! :o)
Thanks, Melissa! It's that "grandparent to grandchild" correlation that I was most interested in! cool!
So, Bob, you have the pattern within 2 subsequent generations in your family... There seem to be several people responding that have that same thing... Must've been interesting for your Mom living with those Scorpio/Sag siblings!
13, my date is 14, I guess my mothers' was 15, my Only brother (eldest in siblings)'s is /was as he is no more - 16,my sis (older one) is 17 thus dated !!!
And me and my brother born in Jan & are capri '
And my older two sisters both born in march 7th( is no more) & 17th
Father 05/26
Mom 04/16
Me 09/05
Son 09/21
Daughter 11/22
Sept. 03 - Ex-Wife's Brother
Sept. 03 - Ex-wife's twin brothers
(All different years . . . One sister Feb. 20)
Bizarre to me. My Great Grandmother and I were both born Nov. 30th. . . . ummmm . . . different years. :P
Regards,
Doyle I <~~~~~
That is an interesting pattern, Sujata! (I am terribly sorry that you have lost siblings, however, that is a very sad thing...)
Roger: FASCINATING!!
Thank you for responding anyway, Pam, I appreciate it very much!
Doyle: Great grandparent, huh? Wow... (and I'm glad that it was different years... lol...)
Whoa, Wurdz! That IS VERY meaningful, I feel! This cycle we call "life" is just amazing, isn't it? (Sorry about your mum, tho'... :^( )
I apologize to you and everyone for my comments that were, well, kinda poopy.
There's enough of that in the outside world without bringing onto Gather.
I've removed them of my own accord [don't anyone be thinking Jean took'em out!]
Again, I apologize to everyone and especially to my friend Jean.
As for family birth similarities-- there are not many in my family that I am aware of. I think operative work is "aware," since I forget everyone's except my immediate family. My brother and I were born 6 days apart. That made brithday shopping easier for my folks-- they just chose the date between the two and that's when we would have the cake.
That's kinda "poopy" about you and your brother's birthday, though... It's kinda like those people whose birthdays are close Christmas who only get ONE present from everybody and never get any birthday presents that aren't wrapped in holiday paper...
Poor Michael!
1 - I have a nephew 35 years my junior but born on the same day, and another two days later.
2 - My brother-in-law's ex-wife managed to have her third child (by her second husband) on his birthday (and if you get a headache trying to untangle that one, just know that I do too).
3 - My mother, father, aunt and grandmother all follow each other by two or three days, and...
4 - This one doesn't count, but what the heck Every member of my family whose birthday I keep track of - which is plenty enough, is born between October 14 and December 15.