I am deleting all the articles that don't serve to define who I am at Gather. I am Slacker Mom. All articles that help define me as Slacker Mom will stay.
I try to be funny and usually succeed. Most of my connections expect to laugh or at least smile when they click on an article of mine. So my funny stuff will stay.
Articles that will go or have already gone are point-whoring articles like Gathering for a Dog House. Yes, I added my usual humour to it but it doesn't define who I am at Gather.
I will probably remove three out of four of the articles I wrote about my adventures in baking Christmas cookies. It was fun but it doesn't define who I am. If I'd set the kitchen on fire while baking the cookies then the articles could stay. Kitchen disasters help define who I am.
I will remove any homeschooling articles I might have on Gather and then leave all the homeschooling groups I belong to and disconnect from anyone that the only thing I have in common with is homeschooling. I may start a homeschooling blog somewhere else but it doesn't define who I am at Gather and doesn't interest the vast majority of my connections who read me for my sarcasm and sense of humor.
I can't decide if tomato hornworms define who I am or not.
Of course this article will have to be deleted too so I'm not sure why I wrote it.
I started the clean-up this morning but got sidetracked disconnecting from people. I started the day with 152 connections and now have only 131. The criteria were as follows:
- Do they usually capitalize the first word of a sentence? If no, then gone.
- Do they capitalize every letter in an article or comment? If so, then gone.
- Do they regularly publish games that are not creative or thoughtful? If so, then gone.
- Do they publish point checks or links to "Get Paid to Click" sites every day? If so, then gone.
- And so on. I'm not finished yet. I got sidetracked again.


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But, cheers.
You made some excellent points!
Be still my heart.
Now I'd like to get back to the point that my "Articles for Me" page is filled with people I want to read. I've missed some good stuff written by people I like because of all the junk.
This was an excellent exercise in exorcism.
I haven't decided what I'll do. I don't mind "discovering" new writers -- that was never the issue. It's the problem of suddenly appearing to recommend material that I have no familiarity with and no control over, tacked onto what I've published. I think I've stated my case pretty clearly on what I dislike.
I expect I'll continue with removal of some content and Thoughtful Tagging of the rest.
As I've said over and over, I'm sad and pissed to see great content and particularly comment threads go away forever.
I noticed that too, Janna. It looks like Clinton, Obama and Romney have all figured out a way to opt out of related articles.
(Dannielle, try Totally Thoughtful Tagging, and then we might be related. I already use hedgehogs.)
I was at my daughter's for my birthday dinner tonight. She served me vomitous bilge. Really. I thought about you all evening.
I'm sure I have to write about this. I have no pictures, alas.
I'll have to use vomitous bilge in the article and tags.
I have never tried to figure out what defined "me." I never considered creating a deliberate Gather personna. That being said, I've considered creating a deliberate Gather alter ego...
You can copy/paste them straight onto Wordpress with no loss of formatting, links, or anything. I copied some of my best stuff over there just in case Gather goes belly up but it wasn't any of the stuff I got delete happy with today. That stuff is gone forever.
If you just want to take everything out of circulation temporarily, you could just edit all of them to be viewable by "Just Me" until you decide what to do with them.
Is everybody leaving? Should I stop reading and commenting on stuff?
I'm honored, Andrea -- all my stuff seems to connect to you. It's the vomitous bilge. There's a definite vomit theme in the tags, between you and John.
I just pruned my groups. Rant at high noon about what a pain this was.
I enjoy reading your stuff Andrea!