The weekly discussion topic for the "Spirituality Explorers" group is the "Divine Feminine".
Sue Monk Kidd, in her book "The Dance of the Dissident Daughter" wrote:
"If our religion speaks about God as warrior, using militaristic language such as how 'he crushes his enemies' and summoning people to become soldiers in God's army, then the people tend to become militaristic and aggressive.
Likewise, if the key symbol of God is that of a male king (without any balancing feminine imagery), we become a culture that values and enthrones men and masculinity."
Our question this week is: How would our world change if we saw God or the Divine in feminine terms or symbols? What new ways of thinking, living, and acting would emerge?


Comments: 47
They had balance which is the truth of the divine is it not? It takes 2 for a child to start.The UNIT not THE male,or THE female.The two together,shouldn't it follow then ,our creator if we are made in that image,is both masculine and at the same time feminine?Would not the blending of the two be more accurate?
consider this....HE,SHE...HIM,HER....MENstration.....HYSterectomy.isnt duality ingrained in our DNA? Should we limit our creator to one sex?
What are the reparcussions of that?
When I first "met" God during my spiritual "awakening" I had already rejected what I knew of formal religions, was not seeking God, only highest truth ... but shortly thereafter during one of m initial "conversations" with what I believed to be that aspect of God we "can" speak with, my higher Self or Soul, I had a feeling that "IT" was far "different" than the physical ego me asking questions, the male that I was in body, so I asked if She were in fact a She because that in relationship to me the male would be closer to the Equal Balance that I had lays suspected God to be ... and the "answer" back was in the affirmative with me being also told "that I was very perceptive" in those words as best I recall.
I have since written my entire book around that theme of the aspect of God that we can experience, THE SPIRIT is that which involves ALL POTENTIALS and thus is in a sense NEUTRAL and BALANCED ... as IS GOD in THAT REGARD ... IMnsHO.
From what I have read of esoteric sources, there were times in our ancient history when the females were in control ... and then as now, some of those got out of hand, too far to that extreme, away from the necessary balance to where there were problems ... serious ones. Balance is key to everything. All things in moderation. :-) ... yes, even "that" (maybe).
A great point for pondering though Carla ;)
Intriguing question
thank you
The qualities that we associate with women, such as softness, compassion, feelings, nurturing--are in many cases under-valued. They are also suppressed by many men, who feel that they must not show those characteristics or they will be seen as sissies, weak, effeminate or as homosexuals.
And I agree, Ann, I believe that the environment is also impacted by this masculine concept of the divine. In the Bible, it says that God gave us dominion over the earth, but it did not say we should abuse it. The earth, as mother, is seen as a creative force. Mankind has sought to conquer and control that force and use it, often for selfish reasons. The same has been said of women. In the Bible, in one of the creation stories we are told that woman was made as a companion for man, more as an afterthought. This allegory, taken literally, has been used as an excuse by some men to feel that they have a God-given right to control women.
As far as war...would we be in Iraq now if we perceived God as a nurturing, compassionate force that was unconditionally loving rather than a warrior or king sitting on a throne in heaven?
These are some additional things to think about as we contemplate this question.
As others have said before me, we have had cultures in the past that have worshiped feminine divines and also had matriarchal societies.
I do not see masculine or feminine or even neutral worship as spawning a better or worse situation then we have now. A happy thought but much to simple as each of these have been dominate throughout different times in history and the same ugliness has plagued the world.
Taylor Caldwell wrote THE EARTH IS THE LORD'S (1941), a fictional biography of Ghengis Khan. The basic theme is evil comes and evil goes. A person must live a 'good' life as times change but in the end the earth belongs not to the dictators and cruel rulers but to g_d.
"I do not condemn people who believe differently than I do."
A nice thought, but I don't believe it. I have witnessed you berate and mock people, including myself, and defame the Book Christians base their understanding of God upon, many times.
As far as mocking and berating people, that's like the pot calling the kettle black. You know as well as I do that you have insulted me on several comment strings. You time and time again resort to personal attacks rather than discussing issues. You have tried on many occasions to portray me as some horrible person and, quite honestly, I really don't care what you believe or think about me.
"I merely point out, what other theologians point out, that it can't always be taken literally"
I have no interest in your "sock puppet" reality. If you wish to believe what you heard men say, and then claim your actions are justified by that belief, you are free to do so. Why on earth that would absolve one of the very tolerance you claim to be championing, I cannot imagine. If the folks that wrote the Book are just fallible humans, liable to delusion or deceit, what makes your sources any different? Mightn't they be people too, with any number of weaknesses and axes to grind?
The fact that Carla finds them more credible than the Book, is Carla's dealeo, not a rational justification for passing judgment on other's, and then claiming one is just being true to an ultimate set of "facts" one assumes.
Here again, you make scathing accusations, as if others are to simply accept what you say as if spoken by God Himself. You are no god, and your accusations are, I suspect, nothing more than defensive tactics to avert the readers eye from the central point I raised; Your inclusiveness, and open mindedness, and unconditional love, does not extend to anything you do not find compatible with your own beliefs.
The Book does not say;
"we're supposed to cut off our hand if we sin with it."
It says;
And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it away, for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell
You see, the thing with "literal" that one must not forget, is that we must be literal, and not simply pick and choose which words count, and which do not. That little bitty word IF, can mean quite a bit. That human beings actually do cut of their hands on rare occasion, to save the entire being, is a known fact. I would advise that if one's life is endangered by ones hand being attached to the arm, it would indeed be wise to remove it, and save the whole it has no other purpose to exist for. It will die either way.
Christ is simply using the example of such an extreme thing, to point out the need to take these matters very seriously, and not just kid ourselves. He demonstrates quite clearly, that he is not kidding anyone.
I don't doubt for a moment that if the Book used feminine terms in relation to God, I would be here speaking to a person that had arrived at the conclusion THAT was the problem we ought to correct, in order to fix the world. And I would be capitalizing the S in she, sometimes.
Much like Spanish, Hebrew does not have gender neutral pronouns. Either He or She had to be used, to indicate God was a "person", and not simply a thing. Obviously God is not a sexual being, and includes all manner of wisdom and grace, including both masculine and feminine sorts of qualities, as we might choose to define such things.
I have no doubt we agree on many things. I did not comment here to take issue with everything you speak of, much of that I do agree with.
I am simply calling on you to "practice what you preach", be tolerant, and inclusive, and unconditionally loving, and so desist from transforming what you believe true, into declarations of fact, which others either agree with, or are spoken of derisively. Include those who have opinions you do not agree with about such Books, or please stop claiming you are casting a greater "tent" here. If a Christian cannot be right for seeing the Book as legitimate, then it must be true that a Muslim cannot either, nor a Jew, if they do not declare the Books they learned of God's nature from untrustworthy. This is a rather stringent criterion for being admitted to your tent.
If you believe God has revealed to you that a particular text is invalid, for whatever reason, then I would advise you do what is sane, and refrain from taking such Books as legitimate. If, however, you just "figure" a text is not the words of God, then I would advise you be human about the matter, and not take your own opinion as the "Gospel truth". You know it's not, you know you are not God, and might be wrong, and those you are "instructing" right.
In the end, it is only what God might reveal to us that matters. Not our idea of God, but God Himself. He revealed the Bible is His work, to me. I do not "believe" the Koran is the Word of God. I simply don't know. He has not "spoken" to me of that. I do not know if He has spoken to others through those words, for I cannot hear within the silence of another. But IF He does speak through those Words to my fellows, and I were to disturb the silence it had led them to approach . . . I would be wrong.
"As far as I am concerned, anyone that speaks of God who does not think there is only one for the sake of universal relationship, is really speaking of but a god or gods."
Does this mean you believe humans are incapable of coming up with invalid concepts about God? If so, your "snake is eating his own tail". Either men can speak and write what is not true of God, or they cannot. If they can commit such acts, it would be irrational to include all concepts of God in one's belief. If they cannot, one must accept that the Book is the literal Word of God, for I speak and write as if it is.
You believe that the Bible is the word of God. I believe that it was written by men who were inspired, but also influenced by the culture and myths of the times. It was written hundreds of years after the fact. It was translated from one language into yet another language and then another. There are inconsistencies even between the various writers. Most theologians take all this into consideration when looking at interpretation.
It does not bother me that you wish to look at the Bible as the literal word of God. That is your right. What bothers me is that you want to try to make everyone else wrong who sees it differently. You say that God revealed the Bible to you. Well God has also revealed the Bible to me and to others. I have a personal relationship with God and I'm glad that you have that as well.
But what I object to the most about you, John, and what I have said before several times, is your insults. You accuse me of not being tolerant, inclusive, or unconditionally loving, and yet you have insulted me, my faith, my intelligence, my beliefs, my ordination as a Unity minister, even my relationship with my husband in the discussions we have had over a number of months. Your latest was in reference to my "sock puppet reality". It is for that reason that I have decided that this is the last time I will have a dialogue with you. Blessings to you on your path, John.
Do you actually believe God gives a rodent's rear-end what "most theologians" think? Do you actually believe you can consult with ALL "theologians" in your head, and speak for them about such intricate matters? And just what the hell is a "theologian", anyway? Am I not a "theologian" too? Or is that another demonstration of your inclusive thinking, to raise up some class of "experts" to mediate between God and men?
Have you not read, Christ rent that veil, and we may enter ourselves. We don't need "theologians", just humble sincerity and silence within.
As for humans coming up with a concept about their God (and/or god(s) ... note upper case G and lower case g(s) ... as far as I am concerned most all of them have concepts far different than do I ... and I will stay with my own as others may prefer to stay with theirs ... but I have been told by my God or god to "tell others" ... that is all I am doing and that is all I really care about ... if someone else wants to fight and kill over or under their concept of God/god(s) ... that is free agency and what goes around comes around ... their problem not mine.
"tell others" ... that is all I am doing "
Are you telling me God told you the Book is not His Word?
I have said just what I have said and little of it here has been addressed at you ... but I do know of what I do say and at the moment change none of it ... as for your "argument" here with Carla, I pretty much agree with everything she has said ... I believe that it is concerned with what I have in the past called the Perennial Philosophy or Wisdom. Most all that have experienced what we have think just "that" way ... and it is VERY INtuitive. Those that know not and thus trust not, their INtuition, cannot "tune in".
And those that know not to distrust their intuition, cannot "tune out".
One is no real use without the other. We are not gods.
Consider that we all share the X chromosome that women have in duplicate, while only men have the Y chromosome.
Consider that there are species on Earth that at times have only females in their population and reproduce asexually while at other times, times of scarcity, they produce males and breed sexually. There are no species that ever have only males in their population unless they are in their last generation before permanent extinction.
Consider that the female is the one that produces new life. Yes, the male makes a contribution of half the genetic material, but the female does all the major work in this most important of tasks. Remember, in some species as mentioned above, the female does all the work without any male contributiont.
Consider that the female genitalia is not only the road through which the male contribution to new life is delivered and not only the path through which that new life emerges, but it is also the primary source of sexual pleasure for both the male and the female. The fact that pornography and prostitution exist and that women are the focus of both and men the consumers of both, in the vast majority of cases, proves that men desire women more and need the sexual reward they can offer more than women need it from men.
Given all these biological realities, it seems clear to me, quite contrary to the story of Adam and Eve, that women are the first model and men are the adaptation.
For a woman to reproduce, it is necessary that she induce a man to do a very special form of "visitation". Therefor, for us to be here, it was vital that women were "attractive" to men. Pleasure is a rather good inducement.
I don't doubt that God could have added male type code to a female type base, after all, if He's God, He made all those other codes anyway. One more would not seem to be a big strain. In the end, He needed both kinds of people, and a very orderly way of getting new ones to pop up, on a continuous basis. It worked!
So, let's just get used to the idea that you can't have it all ways. Some folks is the male type, and some is female. But none of us are gods. None of us could even design a molecule. If God made this universe, I figure He/She/It knows what He's doing. No doubt your wisdom is not alien to God, and your enthusiasm much appreciated though.
The truth is that the KJV is only a direct interpretation of the Roman Empire's approved scriptures, carefully composed to control the empire. There are countless ancient scriptures that were destroyed by Rome and under penalty of death, theses scriptures were banned.
All writings that respected "Woman" as the bearer of knowledge and wisdom were searched out and destroyed. The Roman Catholic Church became a tool of control and the protestant reformation was only an extention of the illusion.
The KJV should only be the begining of our search for knowledge and almost every verse shoul be questioned, prayerfully.