This is certainly never a pleasant experience. However it happens all the time. Men cheat, woman cheat and often the significant other is left reeling. Many questions come up after it is over, that with a little awareness you would have the answers long before. It is so hard when you are involved in a close relationship to suspect the one you love. In most cases this is completely right after all you chose this relationship.. Unfortunately in other cases this turns a bad situation worse.
So what can you do, how can you protect yourself and be able to know when a loved one is doing you wrong? It is actually very simple and below are seven tips to know when you are being led on and let down.
When your being cheated on your significant other will have a hard time looking you in the eyes. In fact rarely will they ever look at you directly in your face while being questioned. People who are being truthful at they very least can look at you directly without shame.
When your being cheated on, often your significant other will make abusive comments to you. The reason for this is in two parts. For one it makes them feel better. Most people inside their hearts and heads are mostly good. By making abusive comments in their minds their cheating will become your fault. The second reason is when someone is tore down by abusive comments, they are controlled. They become complacent and start believe everything they are told.
When you are being cheated on your significant other will often accuse you of cheating yourself. This is one of the most common events that happens. They are so torn apart by the guilt they feel, sub-consciously they will lash out at you. There is also a certain deceitful mind set that is gained from trying to deceive people. A cheater will naturally start thinking every one is up to nefarious practices.
When your being cheated on your significant other's patterns change. Unexplained absences, constant excuses and plainly periods of time will be unexplainable. When questioned about strange events this person may become irate. A common phrase that will be repeated often is "Don't you trust me!" This is not a question it is a command to avoid explaining.
When your being cheated on your significant other will no longer be happy with you. Things they used to cherish or accept may become the very reasons they give for being unhappy. It might be your weight, the way you dress or certain habits you have. They may compare you to other woman or men and ask why you cannot be more like them.
When your being cheated on your significant other may change their appearance drastically. If they usually do exercise they will just start one day without announcing any plans.. If there comfortable normally wearing anything, they will be picky about the clothes they wear when leaving. They may spend even more time than usual on their hair, makeup or anything else.
When your being cheated on your significant other will slip up. Events will not add up, the lies will overcome them. Someone will see them, something will happen to trip them up. This will be repeated many times. When this happens, it is time to open your eyes before the chance goes away. When a screw up happens is the best time to directly confront them.
By no means am I saying that in all cases this means someone is cheating on you. However they are being deceptive, abusive, withholding information or not including you in something in their lives. This either points that you are being used, cheated on, or left behind. You have to make a choice on your course of action or you will remain avictim. If this relationship means something to you, you might be able to save it. If a cheater is someone you cannot live with then you need to end things as soon as you can for yourself.
The easiest way for you to take control of a situation is to confront it head on. Brace yourself for the possibility that you may be wrong. If you are right stand by your convictions. You will know.