I'm doin' it, and its about damned time. Tomorrow I reenter the work force. I had been laid off in late July, and while I have enjoyed the time off, its time to get a real paycheck coming in again.
At first, I was heartily discouraged when I began my job search in earnest, as I was not getting the responses I had hoped for. You see, I had worked myself into a corner at this phase of my existance. The job I have been doing for the past twenty years, is one generally reserved for someone with a higher degree than I have, and to be brutally honest, I am getting a little old to be doing nursing "grunt" work on a daily basis.
Most times, I could not even garner an interview. I was once told, "You just have too much specialized experience, we can't afford you". The few jobs that were offered carried a $10-18 per hour pay cut.
When I was laid off, I thought this would be the perfect opportunity to further my education, as a displaced worker, of which there are Federal funds available. I hit a solid roadblock, in that the people at the Employment center were extremely discouraging. They made me feel as if I were taking monies out of their own pockets for even asking about the Displaced workers programs. Thier attitude was that if I could get any job, nursing or otherwise, I did not deserve a further education.
Yes, I could feasibly pay for school myself, but to be honest, I don't need a $10k debt at this point in my life.
However, In the past three weeks, the offers have been pouring in.
( Its peculiar that this happens when my personal life is in turmoil, as my Dad was dying, and I had to tell every potential employer that I was obligated to help my family in Ky. in this trying time, and I would have to take berevement days within a few days or weeks of hire. Daddy passed on Dec. 2.)
In the past few weeks, I have been offered, in the position I desired:
A job 25 miles from home, but no vacation or sick days for a year. (Declined, after initially accepting, as when the administrator called to set a start date, made a rather cold comment when I told him I was on my way to my Dad's funeral. I don't want to work for that guy. )
A job 22 miles from home, at better pay than the above, and in an upscale neighborhood.( I just don't think I would feel comfortable among the uber wealthy, on a day to day basis)
A job 78 miles away from home, for less pay than the first, but it had a really nice feel to the place.
And lastly, a job 97 miles away, but for an ungodly amount of money, $10k more than the highest offer.( I didn't even go to the interview after driving all that way out there. The neighborhood looks extremely dangerous, and the building itself was in pretty lousy repair, leading me to think the residents probably didn't fare much better. Which would lead to turmoil, and probably firing, as I am an avid cheerleader for my old folks welfare)
I guess I should mention here, that travel is not a problem for me, as Bill and I have been looking for a reason to move to a little town close to the last two jobs. The commute would only be for a month or so.
I have decided upon the job 78 miles away. I really liked the feel of the place. The Administrator and Director of Nursing were really personable, and very understanding about my family issues.The building is not a showplace, but it has a nice and homey feeling, which is important for me.
So, everyone, wish me luck, and forgive me for not Gathering much in the coming weeks. I figure it will be 12 hour days, including the commute, till we get moved.
And Carolion Grailbear, know of any rental properties? We're gonna be neighbors, hon.
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Comments: 34
Keep on going on ;-o
I'll keep in touch, but the next few weeks, till we get moved to Yellow Springs, will be insane, not to mention exhausting.
Sanity was never one of my strong points.
Deborah,
Thanks!
blessings.
I picked this place because they DO need help, and thats what I am good at. I need to feel like I am a part of a team, thats doing its best to serve our elderly, and this place had that "team" feeling.
yep, we've been wanting to move there for a while now, and this opportunity came just at the right time. I can't wait to see you in January.
Only this morning I was moaning and groaning about having to get up and go to work AGAIN. Guess I should be grateful to have a job that I do well and to make an almost decent salary.
But winter does seem like a great time to sleep in.
Good luck on that new job ---- and moving into a new house.
Frankly, its a bitch!!!
Rory,
Thank you, my friend.
Kay,
Thank you. I haven't been able to write of the experience yet. Its still to fresh, and I'm afraid I would ruin the keyboard, bawling while I write. Someday soon, I will.
Starting out with a grin on your face, cause you made the best decision is the right thing to do.
May you have the time of your life, and people that appreciate what you bring to the party.
An' Life don't get no betta dan dat!
Wilka
Good Golly Miss Molly !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Goof Luck, May The Force Be With You, and "Hell Yes ! ".
But it is wonderful to start a new job and to meet new people and friends. Best of luck to you and see you soon
I had my first day of orientation today, and I loved it, cfommute be damned! The staff is terrifically friendly, and the few residents I have met seem like real characters, right up my alley!!! Hopefully, in the coming months, I will find the time to write a few "Your Granny's Nurse" pieces, as I get to know them.
Love to all of you,
Donna
Rental properties - google up The Yellow Springs News, classifieds. You could also get in touch with realtors: Jo Dunphy, or Chris Kristenson, or Bambi Williams....I'm sure there are more, but these are the ones I remember.
It's a lot cheaper to live outside the Village - but some people will do anything to live inside Y.S. and really participate.
Are you getting here by New Year's? On New Years' we have a ball-drop downtown. Everyone comes, a little before midnight----well, those who want to come. A lot of us. Visiting, catching up, hugging - and then - the ball drops from the roof of the bank (one story high)---and - Happy New Year!
If you're coming to the Village soon, catch me at the library, or give me a call - email my gather acct and I'll give it to you.
YAY! Maybe we three can do a Yellow Springs site on Gather. Jessie Voights and Lillie will be here, I hope, during New Year's week-----Perhaps we'll all meet up. We never know.
WELCOME.
What the hell are you talking about? As for a higher nursing degree, it is like anyother degree...it ranges from Licensed Practical Nurse(a one year degree) to a PhD...yes, one can be a Doctor of Nursing...I would be satisfied with my BS.