Okay, i admit i am clueless here. I have dated a few times since a divorce in '01, but they were just friendly dates. So a neighbor visits yesterday, one that i had told 6 months ago that a date was possible in the future.He is rather lonely, i am in a playful, "willing to give a little time to" mood ..........As we talk, i notice his lips look nice,sooooo,
when he suddenly leaned over and KISSED me, i did not smack him, but went with the flow and ENJOYED. Big mistake!!!!!I promised nothing, but due to the mutual enjoyment, he got a little premature with his assumptions...........i go in the kitchen to put supper on, he follows me, grabs, and i mean* GRABS*! I had to open the fridge door and smack him in the face with it to make him behave!!! i get him back out on the porch(where i can BREATH) and
he calms down somewhat and we discuss going to the stock car races this weekend.I go back in to check dinner....oh, NOOOOO!!! he comes in and HERE we GO AGAIN!!! This time it was short, as i was chopping peppers for the salad and the knife was SHINY.....he went out rather SPEEDILY!!!!
the question is: What makes a fellow think it is ok to GROPE you if you have only shared conversation and a couple of good kisses? Groping might have led to far better things, if ONLY he had been PATIENT, and done the proper ORDER of things! DAMN!!
Now I have to keep the gates locked and HIDE while I figure out the next step. What do you think, friends? Shall i honor the near date? or ???????????