Ok so I used to date this guy. He and I got really close. he met my family and everything .. and I met his friends and some of his family. However something in my gut told me he is on the sneaky side. Like just this unsettling feeling I had. Normally I trust my gut because it ends up being right. So I broke it off with him and stayed friends.
One night I was sitting at home watching tv and I got a phone call. I answer the phone and the woman on the phone says "who's this?" I was like you called me you tell me who you are. So then she said "I am Adrian's wife" I was like "ah ha .. I knew he was hiding something" So her and I talked on the phone for hours. Then she wanted to meet in person. She told me she is a strong christian woman and she assures me she is not going to try anything stupid. So her and I met. This was on a thanksgiving eve a few years ago. Her and I talked and talked for hours. I went to her house and she introduced me to her kids ... the ones I hadn't met yet. She showed me around the house and some of the family photo's and what not. So then she shows me a cell phone bill and asks me if I know what any of the numbers were. So a few were to me .. my house .. my job.. my cell. Then there was a whole lot more. So she and I called the numbers. We found out Adrian had a total of 4 girlfriends .. and his wife. (mind you I had broke it off with him a while before) So she and I talked to the other girlfriends and we were trying to figure out when he had the time!
She and I got close ... fast. She was a beautiful person inside and out. She has a steady career job. She makes good money and she does a lot of volunteer work too. She is a wondeful mother and just an all around great woman. She showered him with gifts and attention and he still felt the need to cheat. What was wrong with this man? I didn't understand. Neither did she. She was heart broke. However now she had me ... so when she needed someone to talk to and confide in she had a new friend.
She tried to make it work with him .. until she found out he never quit cheating. So then she divorced him. She is much happier now .. and still a fantastic beautiful woman and she is now dating a really really nice man.
Adrian however .. the cheat .. he went through a spell. I hadn't talked to him for a few years now. Then a couple days ago I run into him at the store. He was with one of the girls he was cheating on his wife for. This girl was NOT like the others. She KNEW he had a wife and she KNEW he had another girlfriend. She still dated him .. had sex with him .. and even let her kids call him dad. Well .. now they are a couple. She has to be so stupid to be with him. Like what makes her think he is not going to do the same to her? HA ..
Well he saw me at the store. He was all excited to see me and was hitting on me .. as if. I asked him who he was there with and he told me. He was still trying to talk to me like we could hook back up ... and his girlfriend is in the same store. I simply blew him off.
As I was leaving though I had to laugh to myself. Seems like his new squeeze .. Tracy is her name ... is getting a dose of her own medicine. I wasn't even going to tell her how he acted. Normally I am the outspoken type who would have walked right up to her and told her but I felt like this is what she deserved .. true Karma. She knew back then he had a wife ... and yet she still messed with him.
She is getting what she deserves now!
Isn't Karma grand?