Don't be caught this holiday weekend without a topic! My notes in italics.
Safe topics for all ages:
- The Weather. Especially if the forecast is good. (Updraft)
- Train travel. Amtrak says ridership is increasing. When was the last time [insert relative's name here] took a long distance train trip? (MPR)
- What are a few of your favorite things? The G-rated warm woolen mitten variety. (Discussion on Gather.com)
...My take: These topics are most LIKELY safe. You know your family & friends.
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For deeper consideration:
- Artists find new uses for old things Trash, treasure, perspective. (MPR News)
- How to record your own family's oral history Who knows what secrets your family holds. (MPR Midday)
- Do we buy ethanol (in Minnesota) because we have to? What octane level does your favorite gearhead recommend? (MPR News)
...My advice: Keep an ear open for tangents, these things could go either way.
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Take the gloves off:
- Iraq war funding and the presidential campaign Self-explanatory. (MPR Midmorning)
- How to narrow the gap between the haves and have nots Self-explanatory. (MPR Midmorning)
- Drinking beyond limits Self-explanatory. (Again with that MPR Midmorning crew)
...My disclaimer: Don't come crying to me next Monday if you ruined the dinner for everyone.
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Share your own conversation-starters suitable for making small talk with a third cousin you don't really see all that much, to alleviate tension while the officer approaches the car door, or to while away time waiting for the turkey to be carved.




Comments: 13
The Democrats are really investing in the defeat of our troups so to win what they think will be electoral gain.
OMG, what happens if we win? I bet that has been said in Pelosi and Reid's closed door meetings.
I come from a large contentious family. I have 10 siblings, all whom are as, or more, opinionated than I. Each of my 20 uncles and aunts produced a family of equal or greater size. It is said that if we lived in Italy in the middle ages, our clan would constitute a national power. We would also be as contentious as medieval politics. So we tread lightly at family gatherings.
Years ago, during the height of the Vietnam War, the family gathered for a funeral. Everyone was instructed to be on best behavior. After the reception, the clan gathered at the large house of a relative, and as was typical in those days, we segregated along lines of age and gender. "The boys" gathered on the porch where we all sat quietly eyeing each other. There were some among us in uniform, and others with hair tied in pony tails. There were cousins attending college, and others stuck in dead-end blue collar jobs. So let's just say, we had our differences.
We were doing as instructed -- everyone behaving themselves, until an "arsenic & old lace" great-aunt stepped onto the porch, blinked in confusion and asked "do you boys discuss politics?"
Six hours and twelve bloody noses later, the "discussion" was broke up at the White Castle on University and Lexington by the Saint Paul Police Department.
So yes, we do discuss politics -- but we also avoid it.
Seriously, Greg, you need to write that autobiography. Let me get this straight, you took the conversation from the porch to White Castle? Couldn't have been too bad if you decided to get a crave case together *grin*
I understand about the balance between discussing politics and avoiding it. Sometimes our family talks politics and enjoys it - a sort of pleasant tension - and other times it just resembles the worst of an Internet anonymous-posting-trolled thread.
Alas I have grown wilder since those days, and my morals have become more maleable but I still look back on that time for direction and hope for what I one day may attain.
Oh Susan, you can keep them. Or count on knowing I'll have more in time for the Christmas holiday.