First, let me say that I am not picking on, knocking, making fun of, etc., anyone's religious beliefs or right to believe a certain way.
I believe it is your right to believe what you want.. nor not believe in anything.
And I am going against my own rule not to post anything about religion or politics for discussion. But I have some questions I would like to put forth here for clarification. I'm a bit confused. Once I post this I am not going to get into a heated discussion. I just want to hear other's thoughts on this.
ANY REMARKS MADE IN ATTACK OF ANYONE ELSE WILL BE DELETED. I DON'T WANT ANY CRAP SPEWED HERE. I WANT SERIOUS, HONEST DISCUSSION.
I cannot ask my questions to the person I'd really like to because he's a coworker and he's kind of a butt, and I learned very quickly that talking religion with him quickly goes beyond frustration. He's one of "those".
He is Presbyterian and according to his (what He has stated himself) church and his belief system, there are only a few who are chosen by God and only those chosen will get into heaven.
HUH???????
I've read the Bible. I am a Christian. I have formerly been involved in Christian counseling. I have my own beliefs, and I know the scriptures, such as John 3:16 , which says that ALL are capable of being saved and going to heaven.
So, if only a few are chosen, WHO are those few?
The Bible states that the Jews are God's chosen people, so only Jews are going to heaven and the rest of us are condemned no matter what we do? I know he's not Jewish, so that would leave him out, right?
If only a few are chosen, why bother going to church, living a good life, living Christ-like only to get to the end and have them open your envelope at the gate and say 'sorry, you weren't chosen"? If nothing you do is going to get you in Heaven because God didn't point you out at birth and say "I'll take that one" why bother?
If only a few are chosen, then what do you do about your children? How do you love, support, worship and live for a God that may only choose 1 out of three of your children? Or NONE of your children, but all of the children of the nut that lives next door?
"I'm sorry, Son, I'd love to buy you that bicycle, but you aren't one of God's chosen. Billy over there is, though, so I'm going to get HIM the bicycle with the special paint."
Ok, so that's a little silly and extreme, but do you see where my brain is going with this?
Does the Presbyterian faith really think this way? Do they also believe that women are second-class citizens whose sole purpose in life is breeding and servitude to their spouses? Or am I just dealing with an overzealous nut?




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I've always been told that Hell was not built for humans and God doesn't really want us to go there for any reason, but it's our choice not to follow Him. But now this guy wants me to believe that no matter what I do, if God didn't specifically pick me out, I'm doomed anyway?
If that is truy why would I or anyone else want to follow a God that obviously doesn't give a care about the rest of us? And how do you KNOW you are chosen? Does he leave a burning bush on your lawn?
All I need to say: I was raised as a Presby....
This douche co-worker of yours is full of bologna! We don't have a certain number of people that will get into Heaven. We are ACTUALLY very accepting of everyone (at least from what I've seen and been a part of). We went to a weekend Bible retreat once and because our Presby group was the most liberal thinking group there, we were called heretics.
The Jehoviah's Witnesses believe in a predestined number of people getting into Heaven. The Presbys do not.
We have more women ministers than you would believe! We even have lesbian ministers. So... This guy is off his rocker.
Women are believed to be equal and have the same rights as men in Presbyterian churches....
The only thing I don't like about Presbys is that everything is decided by committee. We have a Pastor Nominating Committee, a Youth Committee, a committee for EVERYTHING. We are a totally democratic denomination - we VOTED on our pastor! Every parishoner got to vote Yay or Nay for the pastor.
when I was old enough to choose I chose not to go to a church that discriminates against any group of people saying they sin in Gods eye.
Also a church that becomes a fashion show and who's who in society
I just know he attends a Presbyterian church. I looked his church up on the internet to see if their site said anything like the stuff he was saying. I couldn't find anything to make me run from his church except that it was a BIG church and I'm a little country girl who likes little country churches. Other than that, nothing.
Lainie, we had a conversation about female ministers, too.
See, my take on it is this? The FIRST person, according to the Bible, that Jesus told to "go and tell" when he rose from the tomb was a WOMAN. So why wouldn't women be ministers?
he is VERY against female ministers. He is VERY against women having any role in the church because in Corinthians (i think that's what he said?) it says women should be silent in church?
As for hell, I do believe. For reasons I won't go into here, I HAVE to believe there is a hell because if I believed that certain people who have crossed my path were not going to hell for what they've done... that's another discussion for another time.
Oh, and you ARE awesome!
I do like that we all get a voice. (Well, when I went I had a voice, at least.)
It was interesting to observe that in most of the Baptist churches, a few people would come greet you, but not many. The preachers only greeted me AFTER service at the door as I was leaving. At one church, only ONE person spoke to me and he was a visiting evangelist.
But at both of the Pentecostal churches, EVERY person, and I do mean EVERY person right down to the youngest kid that could walk and talk, came by and said hello before church ever started, including the pastor. At the one church where I am a member, the pastor even made a note to invite me to fellowship with them afterward, as they were having some sort of monthly get-together after church. I had never felt so welcome in a church before.
That's why I stayed.
Pax.
I was raised as a Jew. Jews, in general, don't have much to say about an afterlife. The chosen people thing was about the Jews being chosen by God to have a special relationship with him. I don't think the relationship went beyond close friendship. One of the cool things about Judaism is there has never been a hierarchy. There are rabbis who have congregations. There's no official doctrine. Judaism has a long standing tradition of arguing about the Bible and previous commentaries. There's no such thing as dogma or heresy in Judaism. Well, some sects are just as bad as Christian or Muslim fundamentalists, but among the three main groups it's true.
OK.. so Jews don't say much about an afterlife, but do they believe in an afterlife at all?
The Torah is actually the five books of Moses, Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, and Deuteronomy. The Jewish bible was put together in its final form in the 5th century BC.
While we are searching, we have an Interim Pastor. This pastor takes over all Pastoral duties during the search. It's really not a bad gig because you are guaranteed employment for at least a year (it seems) and you get to preach and do all that kind of stuff that most pastors like. When the PNC and Church have decided on the new pastor, the Interim rides off into the sunset.
Remember one thing about people like him, whose to say he is a real Christin and not of the devil. You do realize people of the devil do go into God's churches become a member to deter the people who go their not to go anymore. And to deter people from going in the first place.
And you're absolutely correct. As our pastor says, "Even Satan believes in God and Christ"
I may actually have to buy this one and read it!
Pffft to it all.
He made everyone believe in this great afterlife and whatnot and made people debate incessantly about who, if anyone, is chosen, etc.... And then WHAMMY! When you die, there is nothing except a big man sitting at a desk outside a gate saying, "HAHAHAHAHA! GOTCHA!"
Yikes. What a concept.
Play nice amongst yourselves.
Back later.
On my own, I'm fine. But, I am susceptible to suggestions.
Print some of this out and leave it on your co-workers desk! :-)
Vickey, that's what I've always been led to believe.
Kirk, it makes perfect sense. That's why some are preachers, some are evangelists, some have other talents... like those who can sing so beautifully. It does make sense.
Thank you all for your input.
I took a class last winter on the history of religion in American, and I was surprised to learn how prevalent religion has been in US history. It doesn't surprise me that within my own denomination there are people who disagree so completely with how I was raised, but it saddens me a great deal to hear this person has been portraying Presbyterians in this manner.
Literal earth to be permanent..Ecc. 1:4- Psams 104:5
No more tears,.. no dying...new "earth" Rev. 21:3-4
What's it all mean Bazzel? Well...there are no tears in heaven, no dying either..so the earth spoken of here would have to be literal.
What would you do in heaven anyway...isn't everyone's idea of paradise a little different? Wouldn't it be great if heaven was right here on earth? I miss the taste of chocolate and strawberries. The smell of cedar and the color red. The sounds of a harp playing all the time would be most unbearable, not to mention not being able to hold your childs hand and look into their beautiful eyes.
Just some thoughts. Call it practical reasoning from the bible.
Hopefully I can help shed a little bit of light on the issue you were asking about. I am by no means an expert, but I have been studying this topic in-depth and have found some satisfactory answers to my questions so I'll pass them along for you to mull over.
What your co-worker is referring to is called Predestination and Election (you can find more in the Westminster Confession of Faith by Googling it online.) The debates regarding predestination and free will vs. the sovereignty of God have been going on since the time of Augustine. I encourage you to do your own research if you are really interested in hearing what the Bible says regarding these ideas. Resources for learning what the Bible says from a reformed (Augustinian) view are R.C.Sproul's Renewing your Mind website at renewingyourmind.org and CRI at equip.org. You can listen to C.H. Spurgeon's sermons online at sermonaudio.org for free, too.
From my understanding election and predestination can be summed up like this: 1. God is holy (set apart) 2. We are sinners at birth (we sin because we are sinners we are not sinners because we sin) 3. Election and predestination are based on God's sovereignty not human desire (no one can come to God unless God first calls him/her. This is called regeneration: We were dead (not sick, but dead)in our transgressions when God reached out and made us alive in Christ. As R.C. Sproul says, a spiritually dead person can't reach out to God (Eph 2:1-5). ) 4. God, in his grace and love offers his gift of grace to some and his justice to others. Another observation by R.C. Sproul: Notice that NO ONE is treated unfairly; We are all sinners. Sin requires divine judgement so those who receive God's justice are being treated fairly (this concept can be a whole study in itself and I suggest watching R.C. Sproul's video logs online on Free Will to learn more) and those who are predestined receive grace and mercy so that no one can boast that they are saved as a result of their own efforts (which includes their faith, which is a gift of God): Eph 2:8-10, Rom. 9:11-18) I know this one might have thrown you off a bit if you're like me and you had never heard that concept before but try to stay with me until I finish explaining...5. Predestination is a supreme example of God's goodness and grace. (Another R.C. Sproul explanation: Imagine there were 10 people on death row for 1st degree murder and they were all destined to receive the death penalty. Now imagine that the Governor chooses to extend grace to one and set him free, but chooses to extend justice to the others and they are executed for their crimes. Did the judge act unfairly? One received grace (an expression of love and mercy) and the others received justice (an expression of truth). God is the supreme judge and he has the right to choose who will and won't receive his grace or justice. Though we, as people, don't like the idea of that, he states in Rom 9:15 that he will have mercy on whom he will have mercy and he will have compassion on whom he will have compassion.)
Hopefully this is some help to you and I hope I haven't confused you even more. This topic requires much study so please continue to search and learn more. I encourage you to look to the Bible and listen to people who really know what they are talking about. That's the approach I take because I want to know truth. Truth includes grace and that cannot be overlooked. Often when confronted with truth it is difficult to accept, especially when it goes against what we've been taught, but once understood and accepted the truth will truly set you free. In other words, it is meant to free you from within not bind you and chain you with doubts and fears. I will pray that God directs you and that he will fill you with grace to accept his truth. God Bless.
I've done some pretty extensive study of my Bible on a number of subjects.
I will continue to believe, I think, in what I've studied and found that God chooses all who choose to come to Him.
God bless.
This guy is full of it. I am a presbyterian myself, and believe me, we think it's very hard to NOT get into heaven.
1. No idols
2. "Blessing" the Divine Name (God)
3. No murder
4.No sexual immorality
5. No theft.
6. Establish court systems
7. Don't eat a limb torn from a live animal.
There is no such place as Hell in Jewish belief.