
My fiance and I met 22 years ago when I was a cashier in McDonald's. He came in to buy dinner and was wearing a piano scarf. I asked him if he played and he said yes, "wil you marry me". It was 1985 and we broke up in 1988 and had not spoken until last year. We are now back together. He moved to Pa from NY to be with me and my kids. He is 44 and changed his whole life to be with me. I am so grateful he is here.
How did you and your SO meet?


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I met my husband 22 years ago in my highschool history class.
I met my husband at a birthday party that I went to for someone else. My girlfriend dragged me out, begged for me to go, and wanted me to meet someone she wanted to set me up with. It was sapposed to be a blind date- peek. Well, the guy she wanted to set me up was homosexual. I could see it, even if he couldn't- YET. Since then he has realized his sexuality.
Then-
My future husband, was at the bar, talking to someone he went to school with and I just so happened to be standing close enough to hear all his replies, except one. "How is your wife?" was the question. I just remember it being really loud in there and his voice seeming to come out of a tunnel. Every time he said something I heard his voice. Except his response to that question. Then right after being asked that he smiled at me and asked me to dance. I said, "What about your wife," and walked away and he stood up to yell, "There's no wife!" I didn't stop walking away and he persued me to the dance floor, which took about 20 minutes to get to. Then my friend shook her booty all over him and he went right along with it, (which was really cool because she is this much older woman that is just very exuberant and some young guys would be rude about her doing that to them). Then, yet again, he asked me to go out with him and I blew him off again. I actually gave him my card for work and told him to call me the next day at work but we were closed for a long weekend. I thought he would take no for an answer when he heard that on the answering machine. He didn't. He called Monday and was so nice about it I ended up going on "one" date with him because I didn't want to blow him off again. I truely accidently left my glasses in his car and he drove to my work to return them. All the girls at my work got flustered, blushed, and stammered over him- and I went across the street with him to talk to him after work at a restaurant he wanted to wait at until I got off work. Then while I was sitting there thinking I need to get home and study... He started talking about taking his ex-wife's niece to horse riding lessons because her mom couldn't afford them and her dad was out of the picture and he thought she needed a man in her life to be nice to her, even if he no longer was married to his ex-wife. Then I looked at him and realized why everyone else was so hot and bothered by him. Except what I saw was on the inside.
My husband was the best friend of my coursin. My cousin came to help me with something and Jeff followed along. The rest is history including over 30 years of being married, divorced, remarried and seperated. We get along OK. Just can't live together.
I still hope for that great relationship although I know my time is short.
We met at your friendly neighborhood Albertson's. I was starting my life over after just ending a two-year relationship and moving back to Ca. I was in no hurry to get into anything serious, but there was this store manager. He is not my "typical" guy. He is 23 years older, has kids older than I am, etc. There was just something about him.
There was a lot of subtle flirting, but nothing that I could really say, "Hey, this guy is flirting with me!" After two months of writing in my diary wondering, I said screw it. I quit the job that I hated anyway and got up the nerve to call him and ask him out for a drink. The rest is history:)
Thank gosh, I made the move, because he never would have. That was over two years ago.
Man was he nice to me.
Moved in with him two days later been married over 30 years now
Life is a funny thing, eh?
Bruce and I met on a blind date! We met in May, moved in in June and got married in October and as you know we just had our 23rd wedding annivesary! And he didn't want kids and we have a great dtr. and he considers Nick his own!!! Not bad for a guy who (1) didn't want to go on a blind date and (2) who didn't want kids!!