Not the "bug" Lady - my view of popular system.

I cannot do the one they call Flylady.  I have been to her site.

I have thought about ordering her organizer.  I have tried the morning routine, and the evening routine. I even made affirmations to myself. All per her site!

My problem lies in the fact that I see no point in getting "dressed to the hilt."  Why wake up, get showerd and dressed right down to shoes and socks? Gussy up the hair and apply ones makeup? Look great and smell great?

And then clean the house!!! Bleach and cat litter, dishwater that you manage get all over the floor and yourself. I am sweating, and soaked from the dishwater. I might even have bleach stains on my green jeans. Or on my sneakers. 

So now, I need another shower.  Get dressed all up again, sign into my computer. Check my e-mail. Be a homebody. 

No one visits and those that do, have seen me sick, depressed, without makeup, even ready to kill my children.

I stopped doing the Flylady thing about a week after I started.

I did take her organizer idea, and make a 3 ring binder with the key points about my family. Meds, pets, take out menus, post information, any and all phone numbers that might be needed, and deployment sheets and addresses.  

I think that I have done okay. Company friends are now using binders too.