I have always said “If we did not have to eat, we could save some money”. Admit it, food takes a huge chunk our of our income. However, we can do something about that part of the budget. Unlike the mortgage payment, food can be had somewhat cheaper. Once we sign those papers to purchase a new home, the mortgage is set in stone. That amount will have to be paid each month or we will no longer have a roof over our heads. The power bill can be brought down if we really are committed to doing it. Food bills can be brought down also. We can be frugal.
We all want good healthy food for our families. We try to give them the best but just how well are we really doing that? Are we preparing homemade food without preservatives and additives or are we purchasing more expensive prepared foods and mixes? These commercial mixes are filled with additives that our family does not need.
It is difficult to just change our cooking and eating habits. We seem to get in a rut and our first solution is to purchase a quick meal. We tell ourselves that it is “just this once” but we continue to do it. We keep putting off the steps that are needed to save money on groceries while protecting our families from added preservatives and additives. We have to begin with baby steps or habits. Steps that are doable without being overwhelmed.
Following are some common steps that people make when it comes to food. They are habits that have become so common that we are the best at being “frugal”.
Habit 1: You buy what you need when you need it, period. You do not
understand how other people find such good deals and you know or suspect that they are
either lying or eating a dangerously unhealthy diet.
Habit 2: You buy what you need when you need it, using coupons and
buying from sales when either is convenient. You do not understand how other
people find such good deals and you know or suspect that they are either lying or eating
a dangerously unhealthy diet.
Habit 3: You discover big box stores. You now have an overstuffed freezer
in your garage and a lifetime supply of toilet paper in your pantry. You still
use Habit 2 methods, but Walmart doesn’t give you goose bumps the way
Sams Club does. You don’t understand how some people find such good deals
and you know or suspect that they are either lying or eating a dangerously unhealthy diet.
Habit 4: Here you cross the divide from normal thriftiness into extreme
frugality. You become a coupon junkie! You just can not believe that coupon organizers aren’t sold everywhere. You join coupon exchange groups and purchase the Sunday paper without hesitation.
You pride yourself on getting X amount of merchandise for X dollars—fill in
the blanks yourself. Never mind that you are living almost exclusively on food
that comes from a box and you aren’t exactly sure how the boxes of toothpaste are in the
closet. It isn’t whether you need it or what it cost that matter—it’s all about how money you saved. You don’t understand how some people have such low grocery budgets without using coupons and you know or suspect that they are either lying or eating a dangerously unhealthy diet.
Habit 5: You start doing the math, calculating the cost-per-serving of every
meal in your repertoire. You realize that junk food at any price is still too
expensive. You cut back on using all those coupons when you find that even with all the
“savings,” you are often spending more. You return to Sams Club stores, but
limit yourself to items that meet your increasingly stringent price guidelines.
You’ll follow a good deal anywhere: big lots, dollar stores, and damaged food stores. People at this stage have been known to buy half of a whole beef and cut it into pieces themselves to save money. Yet, even with all of these measures, you still occasionally meet someone who spends less. You do not understand how they could find such good deals and you know or suspect that they are either lying or eating a dangerously unhealthy diet.
Habit 6: You develop a chronic obsession with consumer math. In an
attempt to further bring down your price per serving, you begin making most
foods from scratch with bulk ingredients bought at cheap prices. People in
line at Sams Club ask if you own a bakery.
Then you suddenly realize:
1. There indeed are sources of free food.
B. Nothing is cheaper than free.
You grow a garden, and not the kind with flowers. You convince your husband
that Catch-and-Release fishing is cruel because it subjects the fish to being
hooked repeatedly. Hunters, gardeners, orchard owners, backyard chicken
farmers, and your entire freecycle community all know that you’re the person
to call when they need to get rid of food. The North American lifestyle is full of
waste and you are more than willing to benefit from the excess. Your extreme
frugality spreads to other areas of your life. Suddenly Levi’s seem
astronomically expensive; even at clearance prices they cost enough to feed
your family well for a week. Except for those people who live in the third world, you don’t know anyone who spends less than you do on food than you do.
Most frugal people follow this pattern. There are however some variations to the habits. I have followed these habits all my life. I was raised with these habits being followed by my mother and I taught my children to do the same thing. However, there are still ways to save that I don’t even know about. I am always trying to learn more ways to be frugal.
Though food is defiantly a way to be frugal, we have to learn the habits that it takes to save “real” money. You are on a natural “high” and are proud to be called “frugal”.
What habit are you on now?
Do you do other things to be frugal when it comes to food?
Is there a Habit 7??


Comments: 35
Great article Connie - thank you for sharing some of your frugal knowledge.
Have you considered a "salad garden". You simply raise things in pots that can be used for a salad. For instance a tomato plant, pepper plant in round pots. Then in the longer pots plant a few carrots, radishes, lettuce. In other longer pot put some onion bulbs. That is a total of 5 or 5 pots and it will make such a difference. The lettuce will continue to grow as long as you keep it picked off.
I am extremely frugal when it comes to shopping, which is a holdover -from my first year of being married, my husband decided to have a career change, he worked full time, but also was a night school student. It however did take him longer to graduate than full-time students. He did it with no credit cards, no student loans. We managed just barely.
Funds were very tight, we did not go on a vacation for 8 years.
I only purchased necessities if an article of clothing was worn I'd replace it, shopping clearance racks.
I purchased only a week of food, I planned each meal completely out. I also planned our brown bag lunches out and included a snack bottle of water and juice so nothing needed to be purchased from vending machines.
My parents purchased us groceries, twice for us five years ago. It was because we both came down with puenomia, me from working overtime, and doing crafts, and a partime job, my husband was working two jobs then, and school and the stress of not having money made us unable to sleep. We were out of work for 10 days, I went back to work, two days later I had a relapse and was out of work for 10 more days.
I used coupons only if I purchased the item. I did not purchase simply because I had a coupon or the item had a great deal.
My husband graduated almost two years ago -old habits are hard to break I guess, I am very frugal and still worry about money.
I still purchase a weeks worth of food, and brown bag lunch and snacks for work. I cook extra portions so I can use the food saver and pack it away in the freezer-if I work late a meal is ready.
I don't shop as much as others do for clothing, and when I purchase it is most likey on clearance.
I shop clearance racks often, picking up stuff for gifts, and Christmas, that will always be an old habit hard to break.
Those are all wonderful habits to have. They are good things to do.
That is really interesting! You must have been shocked! Have you found out why they changed their names??
understand how other people find such good deals and you know or suspect that they are
either lying or eating a dangerously unhealthy diet."
LOL our grocery bill is a little higher then normal right now because I am really tired and have been buying more things that are easy or microwavable, and I feel guilty about how much I am eating right now even though it;s going to the baby-I'm ALWAY hungry! I can;t wait to be breastfeeding and burning off more calories!
And start gardening. This spring, I'm going to plant a pear tree. My kids are eating me out of house and home with their fruit addiction, and I need to work on landscaping anyway, so a pear tree is going in! If I'm ambitious, I'll put in an apple tree too!
We don't shop at Costco or Sam's. We don't have the space and for the 2.5 of us that eat, it just doesn't make sense.
I have the space for a garden, but have lousy exposure and sand, not dirt. I keep saying that I will try, but so far, I have only grown peas. Those were really good!
After my grandfather died we found a huge new branch of our family tree. His parents had divorced around 1910 and as far as we knew, he had never had contact with him again. His dad decided that he didn't like his Forkner surname and changed it to Faulkner in the '30's. We stumbled on to it while doing some research for his obit.
Suddenly we had all sorts of family in Bluffton, Indiana that we never even knew about. That was great......trying to research the Faulkner name is not to much fun though because it is so darn common!
As for the watering restrictions, use Grey Water, water that you catch up from other chores, such as washing dishes or put out a rain barrel. This water is not covered by water restrictions in most states (I know GA doesn't restrict this type water), and it is part of the economy movement. And don't worry about the soap in the dish water, it actually helps with some of the bugs, and won't hurt your garden plants.
As to shopping Sam's, it is 90 miles away, and they don't take coupons.. So we don't get to go there often, and we usually buy for my girlfriend's flea market business when we do. We have a vending machine with candy bars in it there, but in between we find candy on sale at Kroger, and use coupons there as well.
When she was working at a place that had a good newspaper rack, we would buy one paper every Sunday, and if there were good coupons, then buy 2 more papers, but if not, just the one. This is an extension of the frugal concept.