Bella Tagged Me Now I'm It

So I have taken to calling La Bellota, Bella, because she's so pretty and because she's a sweetie but the evil hussie decided to play a little game of tag with me.  Initially I was thinking of telling her to go jump off a cliff of some sort but then I looked into those beautiful eyes and gave in.  So here, for Bella, is my response to her Tag!  Im in a somewhat melancholic mood tonight so I'm sure it won't be as entertaining as she hoped for.

What is your greatest regret? 
I have plenty regrets.  I know that people say that we need to live without regrets but sometimes I think it's those regrets that keep me fighting so hard.  Not wanting all of those things I've done or said to define me in some way.  To rise above them.   I suppose for the purpose of this my greatest regret was falling in love.  I wish it never happened.  I wish I had kept my head on straight.  

 Do you believe in the existence of soul mates and/or true love? 
I'm quite certain that my sould mate is Johnny Depp.  

My favorite quote regarding soul mates is from one of my favorite authors Thomas Moore.  In his book titled, of all things, Soul Mates:  Honoring the Mysteries of Love and Relationship he writes....

We may find a soul partner in many different forms of relationship - in friendship, marriage, work, play and family.  It is a rare form of intimacy but it's not limited to one person  or to one form.

Helping others be the best that they can be.  Inspiring others and treating them with respect and dignity.  Yet again I have another quote but this time from Goethe...

Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being

Who is the person you despise the most, and why?

Any woman with bigger boobs who also weighs less than me.  (My Vain Side) 

 Do you tend to argue with people, or avoid conflict? 

I tend to be passive aggressive when I'm not avoiding conflict altogether.  It's a miracle I ever had the nerve to get divorced. 

What is your greatest fear? 

That my daughters might grow up to not be happy with who they are.  And that there will be a mouse in my house. 

What makes you laugh? 

My daughters make me laugh every day.  And like Bella, me.  I crack myself up all the time. 

What are your pet peeves?
My ex husband

 What's the most adventurous thing you've done or would do? 

Hmmmm.  I'm going to keep this pg I suppose so I won't go where I initially felt like going.  Mmmmm yes that felt good.