I have been tagged by April L.

I have been tagged by April L.   

1. What is your greatest regret?

I try not to focus on that.  Life does not have do overs.  My life would have taken a different path if I had not made some of the mistakes I have made.  I have learned and grown from them, and they have made me the person I am today.

2. Do you believe in the existence of souls mates and/or true love?

I don't believe in the traditional definition of soul mates.  I believe that there are people that come into your life that have a definite connection with you.  They come into your life with reason and purpose.  I believe that there are many of these people throughout your lifetime, and not limited to just one nor is it just lovers.  What is true love?  Relationships take work, and no one is perfect, so they can't be perfect.  I guess I want a love that is pure, where it allows me, and encourages me to be the best person I can be. 

3. What do you believe makes a successful life?

Acceptance, love and dreams.

4. Who is the person you despise the most and why?

People that want to hurt others on purpose. 

5. Are you a better leader or follower?

 It depends on the task.  I can play both roles easily. 

6. Do you tend to argue with people or avoid conflict?

I don't like the way this question is phrased.  I don't like arguing, but I don't necessarily avoid conflict.  I think there are much better ways of resolving conflict than with an argument.  If the conflict is worth it, part of my core beliefs and values or protecting my family, I will resolve it. 

7. What is your greatest fear.

Not being able to care and provide for my children.

8. What makes you laugh?

When kids or animals do silly things. 

9. What are your pet peeves?

mean people

10. What's the most adventurous thing you've done or would do?

A ropes course, backpacking for a week, flying in a two seat-er plane upside down, being driven in a car going over a 110 mph.  I would love to go in a hot air balloon, and get my pilots license.  I love to fly!