On this date two years ago, I was moving back and forth between the television and computer watching waiting for any new scrap of information about the huge and powerful hurricane that would be making landfall somewhere on central Gulf Coast of the United States. Neither the television nor the computer were mine. My wife, mother-in-law and I had evacuated the previous day. We were graciously invited into the home of some very understanding people who, through the following days and weeks, went far beyond what anyone could expect, even from those, like them, who so often reach out to others in need.
Today, as much as I can, on the second anniversary of Hurricane Katrina, I hope to focus my thoughts and prayers of thanksgiving on the many people, some total strangers who will forever remain nameless to me, who helped us through the difficult days before and after, August 29, 2005.
Though the ill effects of what happened that day are still evident all around us and within us, my wife and I were recipients and witnesses to many occurrences that cannot be seen as anything short of miraculous. Over the past two years we have have listened to scores of our family, friends, and neighbors echo similar events happening throughout those otherwise dark days. While we still each recount our personal dramas of “battening down the hatches” before heading further inland, the ordeals and headaches of the evacuation journey, the lost days of watching, waiting, wondering, the wait to come home to see if there was still a home at all...........there are so many blessings, kind acts, and miracles that each of us can recount as well.
The most wondrous blessings of my life occurred during those days of two years ago. More than anything else, what moved me the most was watching the transformation of the hearts of people. While the media had its lenses focused on those who were taking advantage of others or their absence from their homes and businesses, I stand as a witness to say that, there were many more unwitnessed acts of kindness and reaching out to others that occurred during this period two years ago.
Prior to those days I believed we each had within us a potential for good and for evil. Most of us live out our lives coming nowhere near acting out either side of that potential to its fullest extent. However, when pushed to the limit it seems our actions move closer to one of the two possible ends of that spectrum.
Two years ago, there were many moments when I stopped what I was doing in order to simply observe. I stood and beheld instances of one person's good-will toward another, the likes of which I had only seen before in particular acts by those who serve in our country's military, police and fire departments, and others who serve the public good, as well as those instances of heroism that happen to make the news....nor have I seen the likes of the same since. I observed and was on the receiving end of the everyday man's acts of love toward his fellow men.
Just as I was so moved by its arrival, I was keenly aware of the period of time when those occurrences begin to wane. It saddened me to see us return to what we had been. We returned to passing each other on the sidewalk without so much as a nod. I was not want nor was I prepared to let it go. Its loss has made the past two years all the more difficult.
Nonetheless, on August 29th, 2007 I choose to remember the acts that confirmed the potential goodness in each of us. I was there and it touched me. Seeing fade away was and is painful. Yet, most of all, I was blessed by the confirmation of its presence.
Thanks for reading,
Robb


Comments: 22
Your attitude over this is way better than mine - I am in an unreal funk lately. I'll try to follow your advice ;-)
Robb, on the run
To date, more is being done by volunteers and donations and it warms my heart that the folks along the gulf coast can keep on keepin' on in the face of government and insurance indifference.
I understand completely your desire to focus on the positives...I remember so well the faith I had in the goodness of everyone in those early days, the vast empathy and kindness. Without the continued efforts of volunteers who still come to help, I suspect we'd be even less further along.
I understand your feelings......I didn't even begin to imagine that I would be able to stay in such a frame a mind. Looking back at what I had written I even qualified my own attempt saying, "Today, as much as I can..." My efforts, as well as my reason for writing this piece is to acknowledge the extraordinary goodness I witnessed amidst the overwhelming tragedy.
Thank you so much for reading. As bad as the "funk" may feel, it is actually a common reaction on and around the anniversary of such a traumatic event. If your outlook doesn't improve in a few days or it gets to the point where it interferes with your usual activities please talk to someone. You can always shoot me an e-mail if you'l like. Take care......Robb
Baton Rouge is exactly where I was given shelter during the storm and the days following. My crew was part of the overnight population explosion for that city. The story of that entire aspect of this entire ordeal is so unbelievable, the producers of shows like "The Young and The Restless" wouldn't use the story........During my stay I heard the same from organizations that went to the effort to collect relief supplies and headed down I-10 with ready and willing volunteers only to be turned away near the city. They were given the option to turn their donated goods over to FEMA or the Red Cross for them to disperse at their discretion. I have also heard that the superb rescue efforts being carried out by people who responded to the area with their own watercraft had done much good long before the government arrived and began to "organize" efforts. Essentially they began assigning "areas" to which they were to travel, search and return to the launch site. If they encountered anyone in need while traveling to or from their assigned area, they were to passs them and help only those in the assigned area. So the story goes, not many of the very early responders stayed once their efforts were "organized." Who knows which parts are truth and which parts are fiction?? On that note, I have TRUE stories that I was a part of that lead me to believe there is more truth than fiction in the ones I "heard."
Take care and thanks for reading,
Robb
I believe you know what is best for yourself. However, if it turns out not so easy to get out of the funk, please don't try to ignore or hide it. I speak from both experience and genuine concern.......
Robb
No matter what happened in this area, the good folks in Southern Mississippi got ripped up one side by the hurricane........much worse than N.O.........then ripped down the other by the insurance industry. Then they were hung out to dry by their own insurance commissioner agreed with the insurance companies, as well as subsequent court decisions. All this is occurring while the camera lenses are focused here. They caught and continue to catch it from every angle.
Others may have had a totally different experience with "relief" agencies, but for all the media pleas by the Red Cross for donations, as well as touting their efforts I saw a grand total of 1 Red Cross Van after returning from which I received my 1 Red Cross-provided meal. Otherwise, we lived on MRE's efficiently dispersed by the members of the Pennsylvania National Guard.
Thanks for reading Ms. Faith. Hope to chat with you later on in the College Football Season...........Robb
I, once again, confirm your statement. Without the tremendous efforts of volunteer organizations and people from everywhere, from all walks of life who came, some multiple times, and continue to come, the rebuilding prgress would be far behind its current "progress." On a similar note, did you see my confirmation of a comment you made on an article regarding the state of racial tension in our area. You had responded to someone's comment about the "stupid" people who re-elected Nagin......Girl, I've been covering ya' back.........
Thanks for reading,
Robb
It's funny, but yesterday I did think about you and my fellow gatherites who had been in Katrina's way 2 years ago. Wondering how that must have felt, glad to have touched the lives I did with the help we offered, and hoping we are never having to go through such a tragic event ever again.
My best to you and yours and every one here at gather who was affected by that storm.
Thank you very much. It is understandable that, unless it had a large impact in someones life, yesterday was just another day in paradise. That's normal and the way it should be. I am sure most of the people who were keenly aware that yesterday was the anniversary wish they could see it as simply another day once again.
Take Care.......Keep in touch.....Robb
Thanks for your wonderful observations!
Thank you for reading and confirming yet another instance of the individual acts of kindness, compassion, and caring...expecting nothing in return.
It sort of reminds me of 9/11. How would you feel, or would you mind if I submitted this to the Barack Obama blog -- to the writers for Barack Obama. Or, if better, we have another Gatherer is who also a writer for the Barack Obama group. Would you mind?
Could you send me an e-mail with a bit more information. Is there a particular reason you would like to submit it there? Also, I don't quite understand about the other Gather. Thanks for honoring my request for a read. I appreciate it.
Wouldn't it be wonderful? To paraphrase a popular line, the storm brought out the "best of us and the worst of us.
beautiful write.